See this passage:
When you love someone very much, it is difficult for you to get happiness from him anymore, because you care too much, you will be jealous, suspicious, suspicious, and cranky.
This applies to both men and women.
In love, all the careful thoughts of women will be shared by men.
In the face of love, there is no real generous person. will stimulate the inner scheming and cautious side.
If a man behaves so "generously" in front of you, it means that he is not sincere to you.
You are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex and not be jealous
I knew a girl before, she was very fun-loving, had multiple friends of the opposite sex, and often went out to play until the early hours of the morning.
After having the object, it is still the same, and there is no convergence.
She said that her boyfriend was generous and didn't mind that.
At that time, I thought it was very abnormal, where is there a boy who doesn't mind that girls often hang out with the opposite sex?
Sure enough, it didn't take long for the two to break up.
It turned out that the boy was with her, but it was just casual fun.
I think she's flirtatious, more casual, and it's not hard to chase her.
When you taste the sweetness, you will immediately shake it off.
No guy can be so generous as not mind that his girlfriend often goes out with the opposite sex.
The so-called generosity is just a synonym for not loving.
Of course, jealousy and careful eyes can damage masculinity, but it is a normal reaction in love. No, it's not normal.
No more questions about your itinerary, no matter what you are
The "tube" in love is the inevitable reaction of love.
When a man falls in love with a woman, he becomes very verbose.
Will keep texting and asking what she is doing? When you can't get in touch, you will be anxious like an ant on a hot pan, and it will be difficult to calm down.
I will ask the girl's itinerary, the girl's social interaction, what time the girl will go home, and who she will be with.
If this verbosity disappears, it is no love.
Some readers have cried to me that she has lost someone who loves her very much.
At first, men were very tight with her, and she was very tired of being free.
For a while, I was annoyed when I saw a message from a boy, and his concern was also regarded as a constraint, and he just wanted to escape.
Later, the boy stopped caring about her, and he didn't mind what she did. After tasting the freedom of no one to take care of for a while, I began to miss the taste of being managed, but the boy had already left.
Don't take love as a constraint, only those who love you will take care of you, don't wait until he ignores it, only to realize that he has missed such a good person.
When a man doesn't care about you anymore, he doesn't love you anymore.
I don't quarrel with you, let you do whatever you want
In love, what is terrible is not quarrelling, but not quarrelling.
See a video:
The woman is hysterically accusing men of cold violence, she says, you can quarrel with me, you can fight with me, you don't do anything, don't say anything, or just disappear. I'm really tired.
But the man in front of him just lowered his head and played with his phone, and there was no response.
Such cold violence is simply driving people crazy.
Many people regard quarrels as beasts, but what is even more terrible than quarrels is not quarrels.
When there is a conflict between two people, he chooses to run away and turn a blind eye to you.
You wept bitterly, but he was indifferent. You cry hysterically to him, and he doesn't react at all.
He is like a stranger, quietly watching you cry and watch you make trouble.
On the surface, it is to let you not conflict with you, but in fact, it is cold from the heart, and this relationship has long existed in name only.
Love should not be a pool of stagnant water, but should flow.
In the vivid love, there are jealousy, quarrels, discipline, caution, and aggressiveness.
These negative emotions, although not so pretty, are a real reaction to love.
Without these, love would cease to exist.