Text/Flying Fish
Shen Lin in "Mortal Song" is an independent and strong woman, no matter what life is, she can live a good life through her own efforts, without resentment or resentment.
Before she resigned, she had a high income and a good position, and then after getting married, she gave up her career for the sake of her family.
At that time, the husband was also a successful person with a successful career, and he was able to support the family, and his life was not bad.
Later, her husband's career began to suffer, and the family's savings were lost due to some things, seeing the decline in the quality of life, Shen Lin began to return to the workplace, even if she bowed to reality, she still faced life strongly.
Later, there was a problem at work, she was forced to resign, began to think about life, to learn to be a confinement lady, and was not respected.
A woman can be strong, independent, not admit defeat, not complain, and can rely on her own efforts to improve her life, then no matter who she marries, she can actually make herself live well.
So, please tell your daughter that no matter who you marry, you will live well with three hole cards in your hand.
1. Have the ability to make money.
In fact, a family can't just expect men to make money, women to make money, and it will make the family live better.
Women themselves can maintain the ability to make money, and they don't have to count on men, let alone live too humble.
After all, as the saying goes, the economic foundation determines the status of the family.
If a woman wants to have a say in the family, then she has money in her hands and will have more weight to speak.
A woman's confidence is to maintain a stable income and achieve economic independence, so that she can give herself a sense of security.
After a woman gets married, even if the man is rich, she should not give up her job easily, and lose the ability to make money, in fact, she will gradually lose her confidence.
The sense of security is given to oneself, and no matter how much money a woman can make, it is the embodiment of her own ability and value, so that she can live more confidently.
2. Maintain the habit of studying.
Looking at the roses in "The Story of Roses", even after getting married, she still maintains the habit of loving learning, she will work hard to learn what she wants to learn first, even if her husband succeeds in starting a business, the company is getting bigger and bigger, and the income is getting bigger and bigger, which is enough to give her a good life, she still does not give up self-improvement, and still studies hard.
While taking the baby, she studied and silently took a lot of certificates.
When she wants to return to the workplace, she goes to the interview and then takes out a lot of certificates, which is her confidence, so that the interviewer can't be picky and shows her strength excellently.
It is often said that when you are old, you learn.
People who love to learn can always have their own hole cards, make themselves better, and also be able to leave a way out for themselves.
3. Positive attitude towards life.
In a woman's life, no matter who she marries, her own mentality is very important.
Some people cry while sitting in luxury cars, and some laugh on bicycles.
A happy life is achieved by herself, and in this life, if a woman wants to live a happy life and live happily, it has a lot to do with her own mentality.
Being able to maintain a positive attitude towards life, to live a life of peace with the willingness, no matter what problems you encounter in life, you can face them optimistically, not get angry, do not complain, face everything calmly, accept everything that happens, and live well, which will naturally make life better and better.
Life will not always go smoothly, chicken feathers are the norm, and unsatisfactory things are even more unsatisfactory. We must adjust our mentality, see more in everything, and open up some when we want to, and naturally live a bright life.
Mr. Yang Jiang said that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart.
In this life, no matter who a woman marries, she can maintain financial independence, have the ability to learn, and maintain a good attitude, which is her best hole card, and she can make herself happy at any time.
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