In real life, smart people know how to distinguish a person's nature, whether there is more good or evil is hidden deeper.
Most of the people who bear these three traces on their bodies are not good people, and it is best not to get too close to them.
If you see that the other person is not right-hearted, a smart person will naturally be vigilant and take precautions.
After all, if you are deeply acquainted with the wrong person, you will have to suffer the consequences, and if you don't do it, you will be a big heel.
Therefore, seeing clearly and being cautious is the long-term way.
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The circle of friends around him is not of high quality.
In reality, a person's circle of friends is an intuitive reflection of his character.
It can be said that a person can disguise and disguise again, but his friends can't disguise so well.
If you want to understand a person, you just need to look at what his friends are like to get a general idea of what his essence is.
For example, if you want to associate with someone, and you find that the people around him are all crooked melons and cracked dates, who have a chaotic private life, are greedy for vanity, and chew their tongues all day long, then you can basically judge him in a second: this person himself is not good.
Making friends is nothing more than two things: one is to be happy in the heart, and the other is to be happy in the wallet.
If a person's friends are all of such bad character that they even make people feel that they are cheap, then the person's own character standards are not much better.
People are divided into groups, things are gathered by like, what kind of friends around a person are, what kind of taste and standards are like, and they will never be able to run away.
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Cold-blooded people.
In life, the best friends we want to make are people who are sympathetic and sensible.
It may not seem like a high standard, but in reality, there are not many people who actually meet this standard.
For example, I once had a friend who, when discussing a very tragic incident, had a relaxed face and even joked that I couldn't bear to look at him.
Lack of empathy and ignorance, once this kind of person handles things, it is easy to mess around, completely ignore the feelings of others, and make you angry.
If you have a deep relationship with this kind of person, you are undoubtedly making yourself unhappy.
On the contrary, those who are really of high quality may not have many friends, but each one is carefully selected.
You have high standards, and the quality of the people you naturally meet is also high, and in the end, even if there are only three or two, or even one, it is enough.
Those who have low standards and do not refuse to come, but they are tired of making friends, and they are easy to meet unreliable people.
Deep friends are not in the quantity, but in the quality, and it is already a great blessing to have a few friends who are really worthy of deep friendship.
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Hidden people.
Some people look very well-behaved on the surface, glamorous, gentle and considerate in front of you, and they are simply the appearance of a perfect partner.
I watched a film and television drama before, and there was a man in it, and his wife looked like this in front of him, pretending to be leaky.
As a result, I later found out that this woman did everything behind her back, which was extremely cruel and unreasonable. In the end, this marriage naturally came to an end.
In real life, if you find that an acquaintance has one thing in front of you, but behind the scenes it is completely different, most of such people have ulterior motives.
On the surface, he greets you with a smile, but in fact he is very cruel to others outside, this kind of person who hides very deeply, really makes people dare not make deep friends.
Do you think, such a city person, if a knife stabs you in the back one day, it is really defenseless.
The people you want to be close to are the ones you want to share a lot of information with, and the people you can trust.
But if you inadvertently find out that he has done some terrible things behind his back, or even those behaviors have completely subverted your perception of him, then this person must have a deep secret.
Some people seem to be kind, but they are ruthless behind their backs, and those people who are deep in the city will change their minds one day, and I am afraid that they will also count you in.
In life, we have to associate with people who are worthy of our trust, not hypocrites who seem harmless but actually hide an unfathomable human heart.
Let my words come into your heart
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