Text | Happiness when it falls~
Edit | Happiness when it falls~
I heard that those who like and follow will not have too bad luck! If you want to prosper financially, start by following me! I wish you a lot of money and a lot of money!
She used to be a heroine who held the script of "Jianghu", and she was also the daughter who dared to love and hate in the grievances of wealthy families, and now, fading the aura of the role, Ye Xuan chose to set off a storm about "self-confidence" on social platforms, no notice, no hype, a group of "trolling" photos, pushed her to the cusp of public opinion, in the photo, she has a graceful posture, curves, and a confident smile as if to announce: This is me, not afraid of the years, not afraid of people's words
The picture comes from the Internet
In the online world, there has never been a shortage of spectators, some people applaud her bravery, thinking that she is still in such a state when she is over forty, which is a success in itself, but also a challenge to the world's vision, in the comment area, "confident women are the most beautiful", "this body management is amazing" and other praise words are endless, they regard her as a role model, as if they see a dawn to break age anxiety and live their own lives
The Internet is also like a magnifying glass, infinitely magnifying all subtle emotions, questioning, criticizing, and even insulting, and some people say that she is deliberately "marketing", using this eye-catching way to maintain the heat; Some people say that as a public figure, she is so "exposed" and unseemly, which will have a negative impact on the younger generation; Some people even linked her to some previous controversial events and interpreted it as another embodiment of "letting go of oneself".
Ye Xuan's "Shadow" photo, like a pebble thrown into a calm lake, stirred up a thousand waves, and this discussion about "figure" quickly evolved into a social issue about "women", "age", and "aesthetics".
Behind this "war", it reflects the aesthetic dilemma of women in contemporary society, and society encourages women to be independent and self-confident, and bravely pursue themselves; All kinds of invisible "standards" remind women all the time that they must maintain "decent" words and deeds and not be too "public"
Ye Xuan, maybe just a wave in this wave, before her, many female stars have been on the hot search because of the "figure" problem, whether it is a "hot mother" who quickly recovers her figure after giving birth, or a "female man" who insists on fitness and shows strength and beauty, they have all been questioned and attacked to varying degrees
In order to cater to this aesthetic, they diet, fitness, and even use medical beauty methods, just to pursue that "perfect" standard, real beauty should be diversified, everyone's figure and appearance are unique, we should respect this difference, rather than judge with a single standard
Ye Xuan's "self-confidence" may not be understood by everyone, but her behavior has triggered people's thinking about "multiple aesthetics". Self-confidence never comes from external evaluation, but from self-acceptance and recognition
When we no longer use a single standard to define "beauty", when we learn to appreciate different beauty, perhaps, the world will become more inclusive and beautiful, and this may be the deeper meaning behind Ye Xuan's "Shadow" photos
Ye Xuan's "Shadow" photo is more like a mirror, reflecting the anxiety of "age" in our hearts, in the era of advocating youth, women over forty years old seem to be labeled as "outdated" and "aging", they are no longer allowed to show their charm, but should return to the family and play the role of a good wife and mother
The picture comes from the Internet
Ye Xuan tells us with practical actions that age is just a number, it cannot define the value of a woman, the years may leave traces on the face, but it cannot erase a heart that pursues beauty and longs for self-confidence
We can't ignore the coercion of "traffic" in this era, under the wave of attention economy, everyone is eager to be noticed and seen, celebrities are no exception, they need popularity to maintain their commercial value, Ye Xuan chose to show himself on social platforms, and perhaps there are also considerations in this regard
But we can't deny her courage and self-confidence because of this, in this era of "traffic is king", daring to break the routine and show your true self requires great courage, not to mention, her behavior has indeed triggered people's thinking and discussion of some social issues, isn't this a positive guidance?
Ye Xuan's "Shadow" photo, like a pebble, plunged into the calm lake, stirred up layers of ripples, it allows us to see the aesthetic dilemma of society towards women, but also allows us to see the prevalence of "age" anxiety, and more importantly, it triggers us to think about "self-confidence": what is real self-confidence? How can we find our own self-confidence in a complex society?
Perhaps, the real self-confidence, not from the outside world recognition, but from the inner certainty, it has nothing to do with age, has nothing to do with identity, has nothing to do with appearance, but from the acceptance and love of self, when we can calmly accept their own imperfections, appreciate their own uniqueness, we can exude true confidence and charm
Ye Xuan's "Shadow" photo may gradually fade into oblivion with the passage of time, but the thinking and discussion it provokes is worth pondering, in an era of pluralism, we should abandon a single aesthetic standard, respect everyone's choice, and tolerate different voices
Let us face this diverse world with a more open and inclusive mind, appreciate different beauty, and live our own wonderful life
Ye Xuan's story continues, and the discussion about "self-confidence" will never end, I hope everyone can shine with confidence on their own stage and live their own wonderful life
Feel free to leave a message in the comment area and share your views and opinions
This article is only for the purpose of spreading positive energy and does not contain any vulgar or illegal content. If there is any infringement, please contact us and we will remove it immediately.