Pregnancy is a special time for expectant mothers, full of anticipation and apprehension. However, sometimes, the mother-in-law may be overly involved, eagerly offering advice or guidance, leaving the mother-to-be feeling stressed, and although the mother-in-law cares with good intentions, this situation can lead to nervousness and discomfort. Below we will explore ten lines that can be used to deny mother-in-law participation and provide some examples of situations.
Reject Mother-in-law's Line 01:
"Thank you for your concern, but the doctor and I have already made my birth plan."
Situational example: The mother-in-law advises you on which doctor you should choose, and the choice of natural birth, which is the best for the baby's health, but you have already chosen a doctor you trust.
Rejection of mother-in-law line 02:
"I'll take good care of myself and my baby, so don't worry too much."
Situational example: Your mother-in-law is worried about your diet and keeps bringing food to her, and you want her to know that you will take care of yourself.
Reject mother-in-law's line 03:
"We've already made an appointment with the babysitter, but thank you for the advice."
Scenario example: The mother-in-law offers to take care of the baby, but you and your husband are already planning to take it for the babysitter.
Rejection of mother-in-law line 04:
"I hope this moment will be a special experience for us, and we will do our best to handle it alone, but thank you for providing it."
Situational example: The mother-in-law says she wants to accompany the delivery, but you want this moment to be a special experience for you and your husband.
Rejection of mother-in-law line 05:
"We are still learning and exploring, but we will listen to the professional advice of doctors."
Situational example: The mother-in-law said that you should breastfeed the baby so that you can have a sense of intimacy and sufficient immunity, but you emphasize that you are still in the process of learning and will rely on professional advice and respect for the mother's wishes.
Rejection of mother-in-law line 06:
"It's our family and we'll make the decision that's best for us."
Scenario example: The mother-in-law thinks that the daughter-in-law should learn to cook in order to provide the baby with rich nutrition, but you emphasize that you will make a lifestyle that works best for you.
Rejection of mother-in-law line 07:
"We appreciate your help, but we wish we had some space to make our own choices."
Situational example: Your mother-in-law keeps providing all sorts of outdated parenting experiences, but you want her to understand that you need some space to make your own choices.
Rejection of mother-in-law line 08:
"We're glad you care about us, but please give us some personal space."
Situational example: Your mother-in-law may be overly involved in your life, including instructing you on what to give, and you want her to give you some personal space.
Rejection of mother-in-law line 09:
"We have already booked a confinement center, but we will ask for help if we need you."
Situational example: The mother-in-law wants to confinement for her daughter-in-law, but you emphasize that you have the arrangements but will know to seek her help if needed.
In these lines of rejection, it is important to be respectful and kind, and although you may need to express your needs and boundaries, it is possible to ensure that your relationship remains positive and harmonious through communication. Mutual respect and understanding between family members is key to maintaining a relationship, especially at a special moment, such as during pregnancy.