Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Love and money are not fire and water, they have to be opposites.
On the contrary, if love is a small boat, money is a river, and it can carry love.
If you really love someone, you must talk about money.
In a relationship, as long as you carefully look at how two people spend money and their attitude towards money, you can perceive the depth of each other's love.
Women, whether they are true love for you or not, you can know by looking at one place: whether it saves you money.
02. The more a woman loves you, the more she understands that it is not easy for you to make money
I have a friend who runs a factory and makes a lot of money.
Once, I went shopping with his wife and found that she didn't spend lavishly.
On the contrary, she buys things, and values the "cost performance" of things more than we do.
We teased her for not being like a "rich wife", she smiled and said: "You don't know, when my husband's business is good, he is so busy that he is tired and has a heart attack, and when his business is bad, he is more anxious than anyone else, and he can't sleep with anxiety and insomnia." ”
She said that she didn't want to spend money casually, she just wanted men not to be so tired.
A woman, who really loves you, knows that she is not spending money, but the fruits of your labor.
She recognizes your value and spends money more carefully.
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "No matter how good a person is, if he doesn't feel sorry for you, then what's the use?" Love is not a rhetoric of a beautiful vow, nor is it a disguise for a romantic appearance, it is truly embodied in distress, an emotion deeply rooted in the heart. ”
A woman loves you, others see your infinite scenery, and she sees your newly grown gray hair, and feels sorry for you all year round.
She knows every night you stay up and understands your pressure and responsibility.
Therefore, no matter how rich you are, she will not spend your money at will, and she will feel sorry for how difficult it is for you to make money.
03. With you, she will spend her money on the blade
Woman, love you enough, she will carefully help you take care of your life. At the same time, put your money to good use.
Shakespeare said, "Money is a good soldier, and with it it can make a man a hundred times more courageous." ”
Perhaps, when she is alone, she spends money without planning, and she buys what she likes when she sees it, and she doesn't calculate the cost performance.
Even if the things you buy are not of much use, it's good to feel that you are happy to buy them.
But with you, living with two people, she knows how to plan ahead, knows how to save, and knows how to reasonably plan the money of two people.
She began to be very cautious about spending money, and before buying something, she would consider whether it was a necessity, whether it would be used frequently, and whether it would be feasible if she didn't buy it.
She will use the least amount of money to ensure the quality of life of the family, and strive to manage the finances well to make the family more stable.
She cherishes the time she spends with you, and she also wants to spend her money more reasonably, so that each other can have a farther future.
04. The more a woman loves you, the more reluctant you are to spend money for her
Duan Jiaxu in "Can't Hide Secretly" wants to take Sang Zhi out to play, and show her the route she chooses and the hotel she lives in.
Sang Zhi looked at it and didn't like it.
Either it's too far away, or it's boring, in short, there's no place you want to go.
Duan Jiaxu was puzzled at first, but later found out that Sang Zhi didn't like it, but saw that it was too expensive to go to those places, and she wanted to save money.
Sang Zhi finally decided to go camping.
She bought the equipment and went anywhere, which was the most money-saving way to play.
Duan Jiaxu knew that Sang Zhi was distressed that it was not easy for him to make money, and he also knew that he had a lot of places to spend money, and he didn't want him to have too much pressure, and he didn't want him to work so hard.
As long as two people are together, no matter where they are or what they do, they feel very happy.
Balzac said: "For the wasteful, money is round, but for the thrifty, it is flat, and can be piled up in pieces." ”
Women love you very much, so they are reluctant to spend your money.
She wants you to have more rest time and not get too tired. She doesn't want to be a burden to you, she just wants to do what she can do for you.
Women love you, not only will they be reluctant to spend money, but they are also willing to fight with you.
05. Summary
Zhuge Liang said: "The trip of a husband and a gentleman is quiet to self-cultivation, thrift to cultivate virtue, non-indifferent and unambitious, non-quiet and far-reaching." ”
A woman loves you, and she will save you money and plan for your relationship.
She loves you, knows that you work hard to make money, and understands the importance of money.
Women want to bring you more happiness and joy and don't want to live as a burden to you.
She will save you money at every turn, everything is done carefully and not a penny is wasted. Because I love you, I will strive to be a qualified wife.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.