Many times, we will feel that our love is not wrong. When you are serious about a relationship, you will find that love has nothing to do with time.
Some people feel that they can be good alone, and some people feel that it is enough for two people to be together.
Sometimes, it's hard to tell if two people are in love or having fun.
After two people are together, can they always be together? It's not a good way to do it. You must know that the reason why some feelings can't go to the end is because two people are just "playing".
- Be able to accept each other's shortcomings
After two people are together, they must learn to tolerate each other. Because after two people are together, you will find that you have a lot of shortcomings, and sometimes, you will unconsciously compare each other with your friends.
Sometimes, you feel that there is a big gap between you and the other person. Actually, that's because you don't really love each other, that's why you feel that way.
If two people are true love, then they will definitely tolerate each other's shortcomings. Because, they know each other's strengths and weaknesses, and they know how to tolerate.
Just like Meng Yun and Lin Jia in "Predecessor 3", the two love each other very much, but in the end they broke up because of some problems. Many people feel that Meng Yun can accept Lin Jia's shortcomings, and Lin Jia can also accept Meng Yun's shortcomings.
If two people still can't accept each other's shortcomings after being together, then this person definitely doesn't love you.
- Able to take care of each other in life
"Love is not about giving the other person what they don't have, but about trying to make the other person a better person." - Anonymous
We all want a partner who pampers us, but sometimes, we need to give something to each other so that we can make the other person feel our love.
If two people are just playing, then the love between them will be more casual, and there will not be so many responsibilities and responsibilities.
In life, if you are able to take care of his feelings, be able to think about him, and be willing to pay for him, then this person must be the one you love.
If you are alone, you will never take into account your feelings, nor will you take into account your hard work and fatigue.
Then this person really doesn't love you that much, and he doesn't want to go to the end with you. If a person really loves you, then he will definitely be willing to give for you.
Only in this way can the relationship between two people be stronger, and it can also make two people more tacit in life.
- Willing to change themselves for the sake of the other person
Nowadays, there are many people who decide to be with their other half because they have read some cases on the Internet.
I've met a girl before who likes to play games and is the kind of guy who has good skills. So she approached me one day and said she wanted to learn a bit about technology.
I don't really want to study, because in my opinion, a girl should focus on her studies. But she said she wanted to learn a skill because she liked to play games.
Seeing her so insistent, I agreed. In fact, in the beginning, I was really reluctant to teach her. But when she encounters a problem in the process of studying, I will take the initiative to help her solve it.
Slowly, I realized that he was actually a very good girl. Not only are I willing to change my habits for me, but I am also willing to work hard for our future.
Sometimes, when we don't love someone, we feel that the other person is not good in anything. So, if you meet someone who is willing to change themselves for you, you must cherish it.