In this world,
Someone is good to you, someone is bad to you,
Someone brings you joy,
Someone is causing you trouble.
The important thing is that some people,
You have never provoked, offended,
But he keeps slandering you behind your back,
Pointing at you, talking about it,
Add oil and vinegar to the mouth.
In the face of some words that distort the facts;
In the face of some people who tell the truth.
Best Practices,
It's not necessarily a competition with it,
Prove yourself before him,
Not the kind of person he describes.
Actually, we don't really have to,
Because of such rotten people and rotten things,
disturbs the good mood;
Because of those who do not please you,
spoils the good mood.
The most "ruthless" revenge on a person,
It's these nine words, simple and relieving!
01. Ignore him
People, live more transparently,
There are people you see through his nature,
There's no need to worry about anything with him.
The more you care,
The more he thinks you care about him,
will keep bouncing in front of you.
He doesn't like you for him,
It's your business to be yourself.
Some people,
If you feel like they're there for you,
Disgusts you, causes you trouble,
Our best practices,
I don't quarrel with them every day,
Let him brush his presence in front of your eyes.
Passing by him, his eyes do not squint;
He spoke, not at ease.
The body is not afraid of the shadow crooked,
The more you are entangled with this kind of person,
The more entangled,
When you don't take him seriously,
His emotions can't affect you!
02. Stay away from him
arguing with people,
Victory or defeat is a kind of consumption,
The cost of your time,
The cost of consuming your energy,
Consume your emotional costs.
These costs,
Wasted on the unworthy,
It's just asking for trouble for yourself.
Don't be troubled by those who hate you,
Because it's not worth it;
Don't argue with those who resent you,
Because there is no result.
Some people,
He only sees you from his own point of view,
No matter how perfect you are,
There will also be flaws in his opinion;
No matter how kind-hearted you are,
He wouldn't believe it either.
For such people,
Choose to stay away to avoid unnecessary losses,
Save your own costs,
With an indisputable attitude, reduce the troubles of life;
With a peaceful mind, let life be more harmonious!
03, surpass him
People are different, circles are different;
The heart is different, the path is different.
If we find that
Our work circle,
There are too many people who have different aspirations than we do,
or our circle of life,
There are too many people who are not friendly to us.
And for the time being, I can't get out of such a circle,
Then learn to talk to these people first,
Keep your distance, then quietly accumulate strength.
Choose to be cautious and change yourself;
Keep your distance and stay quiet.
A person quietly accumulates energy and changes the status quo.
Focus on personal growth,
Committed to personal transformation.
different circles,
will have different connections,
When we get better and better,
Naturally, we will meet more like-minded people.
As for those who have looked at us unpleasantly,
and it is impossible to enter our lives again,
No matter how much slander and discontent they have in their mouths,
It will only become a laughing stock of self-pity!
Remember one sentence:
It's one thing for others to like you or not,
How you do yourself is another matter.
If we always,
live according to the expectations of others,
Eventually you will only get tired!
You don't have to pander to others, you don't have to explain yourself,
In the face of those who make things difficult for you and hurt you,
Someone who is always dissatisfied with you,
Arguing with words is not the most powerful counterattack,
Proven with achievements is the strongest response!
the world of adults,
Know how to discern what is worth pursuing,
what should be abandoned,
Speak with attitude, prove with action,
Don't argue endlessly with people,
Let people see the joke and lose the big picture!