[This content is a story-based medical science article, please read it rationally, and do not sit down]
In the soft light, two intertwined figures rolled on the bed. Xiaoqing gently kissed her husband's neck and slowly moved down. Just as she was about to kiss her husband's most intimate parts, a thought suddenly flashed through her mind: "Is this really hygienic?" "
Xiaoqing hesitated. She and her husband have been married for many years, and they are already familiar with each other's bodies. But is this kind of intimacy really safe and harmless? Will there be any hidden dangers? With a lot of questions, Xiaoqing decided to consult a professional doctor.
Early the next morning, Xiaoqing came to the gynecology clinic of the central hospital. Sitting in the consultation room, she was a little nervous, not knowing how to speak.
"Doctor, I... I have a private question for you. Xiaoqing said with a red face.
"It's okay, you can say it." Dr. Wang, a gynaecologist, smiled kindly and said, "There's nothing that can't be said here. "
Encouraged Xiaoqing plucked up the courage to speak out about her troubles: "It's just... Between husband and wife... Is there anything wrong with kissing your private parts? "
Dr. Wang nodded with a clear face: "Many people have questions about this question. In fact, the act of oral sex in moderation itself does not have much impact on health. However, there are some potential risks to be aware of. "
Xiao Qing breathed a sigh of relief and continued to ask, "Then what are the specific risks?" "
Dr. Wang patiently explains, "First of all, there is the problem of bacterial infection. Both the mouth and genitals contain a lot of bacteria, and contact with each other may cause cross-infection. For example, oral bacteria entering the vagina may cause vaginitis; Bacteria from the genitals can enter the mouth and cause problems such as mouth sores. "
"The second is the risk of STD transmission. If one party has an STD, it can be easily transmitted to the other party through oral sex. In particular, some common STDs, such as gonorrhea, syphilis, genital herpes, etc., can be transmitted through oral sex. "
Xiao Qing couldn't help frowning when she heard it seriously: "Isn't that dangerous?" We don't usually have any special protection. "
Dr. Wang comforted, "Don't worry too much. As long as both parties maintain good personal hygiene habits, regular medical check-ups, and timely detection and treatment of diseases, the risk is actually not high. The key is to trust each other and maintain a loyal relationship. "
Xiaoqing nodded thoughtfully. Dr Wong continued, "In addition to the issue of infection, there are some other aspects that need to be taken care of. For example, excessively frequent oral sex may cause excessive local skin friction and cause inflammation. In addition, if the movement is not done properly, it may also cause local soft tissue damage. "
"It's also important to note that Dr. Wong stresses, "never swallow semen or vaginal secretions during oral sex." These body fluids may contain a variety of pathogens and pose a risk of infection after swallowing. Proteins in semen can also cause allergic reactions. "
Xiaoqing nodded again and again when she heard this, and secretly wrote down these precautions in her heart.
Dr. Wong continued, "In addition to the physical risks, psychological factors are also important. Some people may feel ashamed or uncomfortable with this behavior, which can affect mental health and relationships in the long run. So be sure to respect each other's wishes and don't force them. "
Xiaoqing said thoughtfully, "I understand." It seems that this matter is really not simple, I have to communicate with my husband well. "
Dr. Wang smiled and said, "Yes, communication is very important. Husbands and wives should be honest with each other and respect each other. Sex is a matter for two people, and it is up to them to negotiate ways to make both parties comfortable. "
Xiaoqing said gratefully, "Thank you, doctor. Your suggestion is very helpful to me. "
Dr. Wang nodded and added, "If you decide to continue this behavior, I suggest that you can take some precautions. For example, the use of oral sex condoms can effectively reduce the risk of infection. In addition, it is necessary to pay attention to cleaning before and after, rinse your private parts with warm water, rinse your mouth, etc. "
Xiaoqing carefully wrote down these suggestions, and the doubts in her heart gradually dissipated. Before leaving, she couldn't help but ask, "Doctor, do you think it's good for husband and wife to be so close?" "
Dr. Wang laughs and says, "There is no standard answer to this question. Sex is a very private thing, as long as both partners feel comfortable, don't break the law, and don't hurt each other, that's fine. The key is to respect each other and protect your own health and the health of each other. "
Xiaoqing suddenly realized and said goodbye to Dr. Wang gratefully. When she walked out of the hospital, she felt much more relaxed. She decided to go home and talk to her husband about their future intimacy.
When she got home, Xiaoqing told her husband everything she had learned in the hospital. The two met frankly and had in-depth exchanges that not only eliminated each other's concerns, but also enhanced their relationship. They agreed that the most important thing in married life is mutual understanding, respect and trust.
After this experience, Xiaoqing has a new understanding of "health". She realizes that health is not just about being physically free from illness, but also about mental health and good relationships. In addition to paying attention to hygiene and safety, it is also important to pay attention to each other's feelings and maintain good communication.
This counseling experience made Xiaoqing understand that there is nothing that cannot be said in an intimate relationship. If you have any questions, you should communicate in a timely manner, and if you have any questions, you should seek professional help. Only in this way can a truly healthy and harmonious relationship be established.
Xiaoqing and her husband agreed that they would pay more attention to personal hygiene, have regular physical examinations, and maintain good living habits in the future. They also decided to try some safe precautions to enjoy their intimate time without forgetting to protect each other's health.
This experience not only solved Xiaoqing's doubts, but also made her think about life in a new way. She realized that in this era of information explosion, we must learn to distinguish information and not be easily misled by online speech. The best way to get scientific, reliable advice from a professional when it comes to health matters.
Xiaoqing also understands that there is no absolute right or wrong in intimate relationships. It is important that both parties feel comfortable, safe, and respected. She decided to pay more attention to her and her partner's feelings in the future, and work together to create a healthy and harmonious family atmosphere.
This experience also gave Xiaoqing a new understanding of the profession of doctor. She lamented that a good doctor should not only have professional knowledge, but also good communication skills and empathy. Dr. Wang's patient answers and gentle attitude made her feel respected and understood, eliminating the embarrassment and anxiety when seeking medical treatment.
Xiaoqing thought that maybe everyone would have a similar confusion. The important thing is that we have the courage to face it, and not to shy away from medical treatment because we are ashamed to speak up. Only by facing the problem squarely can we find a solution.
This experience also gave Xiaoqing a more open and healthy understanding of "sex". She realized that sex was not a shady topic, but a natural and important part of human life. We should treat it with a scientific and rational attitude, instead of avoiding it or spreading false rumors.
Xiaoqing decided to pay more attention to this aspect of popular science knowledge in the future and improve her awareness of sexual health. She also plans to share what she has learned with her friends at the appropriate time to benefit more people.
This experience brought positive changes to Xiaoqing's life. Not only did she solve the problems that plagued her, but she also learned how to better manage her marital relationship and how to treat health issues more scientifically. She believes that as long as she maintains an open and rational attitude, many problems in life can be solved.
Xiaoqing's story teaches us not to be afraid, not to run away from the confusion in an intimate relationship. The right way to solve a problem is to have the courage to seek professional help and communicate openly. A healthy sex life requires mutual trust and respect from both partners, as well as an open and inclusive social atmosphere. Let's work together to create a healthier and more harmonious social environment.
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