Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
A man's affection is like a sunny flower. The more affectionate she is, the more she leans towards her side.
From now on, what he sees, what he cares about, what he cherishes, is you.
Zhu Yin once said: "Good love makes me feel noble." ”
Yes, good love will make a woman feel cared for all the time.
And affectionate men always feel indebted the more they love. Because of the debt, so make up for it, the more you love, the more you feel that it is not enough.
An affectionate man, what he will do to his wife, a behavior: favoritism for her.
02, in family relationships, favoring her
Man, love you deeply, he will be partial to you and take care of you in family relationships.
He will not let the woman he loves be in the quagmire of family relationships, he gives her respect and care.
In the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother", there is a pair of dramatic mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Daughter-in-law Chen Songling is straightforward, and her mother-in-law almost dotes on her son Zhang Duo.
When Zhang Duo was sweating while participating in boxing, he directly snatched the towel that Chen Songling was draped in for heating and went to wipe his son's sweat.
Things like this happen all the time.
However, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can still maintain a relatively good relationship, and the biggest reason for this is that Zhang Duo loves Chen Songling deeply.
Even though she was nine years older than him, even though she was unable to have children due to physical reasons.
But because Zhang Duo loves her, he has never said anything bad about her. Even when there is a conflict between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she can still be partial to her.
A man's affection is a good medicine in family relationships.
The man who is in love will unconsciously favor her in family relationships. Whether it is a conflict between his sister-in-law or between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he will defend her.
Don't let her family bully her, wronged her, and hurt her.
A man loves you deeply, he will let you live confidently in your in-law's house, and let your family respect you.
03, in life, the habit of favoring her
My friend Zhang Peng is an authentic southern man.
But since marrying a Hunan girl, Wang Fang, different living habits have made the two of them anxious.
Zhang Peng is used to eating light stir-fry, and Wang Fang is not spicy or happy.
Zhang Peng likes the life of a small family and does not like to visit the New Year. Wang Fang longs for lively and humane days, and always invites relatives and friends to come to her home every once in a while.
And so on and so forth.
I didn't expect to see Zhang Peng again after a year, but he had learned to eat spicy food, and he also liked the lively life.
A man loves a woman deeply, and he will have the habit of loving her and favoring her in life.
He knows that you like to eat hot pot, and he didn't like to eat hot pot, but in order to favor your habit, he also learned to eat hot pot.
He knows that you like to go to bed early, and he likes to stay up late, and he gradually stops staying up late.
When a man is deeply in love, he will be afraid that his wife will not be able to adapt to him and leave, so he will choose to accommodate and favor her living habits.
Just so that she can live a little more freely.
04. When making decisions, favor your ideas
In China, under the influence of the traditional concept of "male dominance and female dominance", men are always accustomed to making decisions on their own.
In fact, a man who really loves his wife deeply will respect his wife's thoughts and feelings.
No matter what decision he makes, he is willing to discuss with his wife and ask for her opinion.
If two people disagree, he will also tell his wife what he thinks and analyze the stakes for her.
In the end, when it comes time to actually make decisions, he will definitely favor your ideas and put your demands first.
Mo Yan said: "Successful men respect women, failed men complain about women, generous men take care of women, men who pick the door calculate women, capable men support women, and incompetent men drag women down." ”
The same is true in a couple's relationship.
A man who can successfully manage a relationship between husband and wife will inevitably respect women, replace dictatorship with consultation, and favor your ideas.
05. Summary
Men love you and will favor you.
Put your feelings first, be happy because of your pleasure, and put your feelings above Him.
He will favor you at all times, worrying that you will be wronged, worried that you will be unhappy in your marriage, and he will give you the best nourishment in your marriage - favoritism.
When you meet a man who favors you at every turn, remember to hold on to him firmly, that is the best chance to grasp happiness.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.