Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Mo Shu once wrote: "People have to be honest with themselves, love has no traffic light, it won't tell you when to go and when to stop, you can only move forward bravely." ”
Love, for some, is a pastime.
When you are in love, maybe a man talks sweetly to you, promises you in every way, and seems to be very affectionate. But you never know when he changed his mind.
A truly intelligent woman never pins all her hopes on men. Instead, know how to plan for yourself.
If a woman does these things in advance, even if the man changes his mind, she will live a very high-class life.
02. When managing love, I never gave up running a business
People are human because of their individual creativity, and their contribution to society is not limited to men and women.
When managing love, as a woman, you shouldn't give up your career easily, because, that's your life.
Ai Ying in "Her City", since she got married, she is a wealthy man in the eyes of outsiders.
Once, when Ai Ying attended the annual meeting of entrepreneurs, the staff stopped her at the door.
Just because there is no Ai Ying on the guest list, there is only the cold word "bring your dependents". At that moment, she realized that in the eyes of others, she was just an accessory to her husband.
Since then, Ai Ying has started her own business, opening a gallery.
She also lives a fulfilling life because she has something to do every day; is also because he has a career and lives with confidence.
There is a sentence in "Hug You Before Dawn": "If you mistake the ending for the beginning, then you take the beginning as another chance for you." ”
Love, it flows, is unreliable.
Women, you run your own business well, even if the man really changes his mind, you can make yourself live with confidence.
A woman's career is the icing on the cake when the family is happy.
When your husband needs help, he will have more money, more connections, you will be his best partner, and he will respect you more.
When a marriage is unhappy, career is also a woman's best way out.
03. Try to solve problems by yourself and not rely too much on them
Two people love each other and need to rely on each other, but not too much on each other.
Too much dependence will make men feel that you are a sweet burden. Over time, he will feel tired.
Women are especially prone to make such a mistake in relationships: they love me and should help me solve everything.
The gas stove at home is not burning, call him, and then ask him to go home and solve it.
At home, you want to eat fruit, but you don't want to move, so you tell him to do it. He works all day and doesn't want to move, so you feel that he doesn't feel sorry for you.
In fact, love requires mutual understanding.
A man loves you, but that doesn't mean he has to do everything in your life.
The best love is that you love him, he loves you, you can pay for each other in life, but you can also see each other's fatigue and weather, and give each other love in time.
Women, when you encounter a problem, you can try to solve it yourself first, so that your ability to solve problems will also be improved, and you can also grow.
Don't rely too much, whether a man changes his mind, or he doesn't change his mind, you have the ability to live well.
In this way, you will live more calmly, and you will be able to manage your marriage better.
04. Work hard to save money for yourself, and have confidence at any time
In life, you will find that money can solve many conflicts in life.
If it can't be solved, maybe it's because you haven't saved enough money.
The breakdown of a marriage is a disaster for a woman.
If a woman knows how to save money for herself, then at any time, she will live with confidence.
When she quarrels with her husband and wants to go on a trip, she can go out, relax and forget about the unpleasantness.
When you want to be filial to your parents and your husband is not so happy, you can use your own money to be filial to them.
In my book, I read a sentence that said: "Time is undoubtedly precious, although it limits our life, it cannot limit your steps, and your life depends on your own confidence." ”
Women, the money you save is the confidence you can make decisions at any time.
05. Summary
In "There is a Snowstorm This Year", he wrote: "In life, you need to be adventurous, otherwise you will not be able to seize the 'high ground'; ”
Women must learn to manage their lives well.
Love and career can coexist well, work hard, and make your comprehensive ability stronger.
Don't rely too much on it, save more money for yourself, then no matter what your future holds, your future will not be lost.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.