"Fear of the inside" is also a virtue, regardless of ancient and modern China and foreign, regardless of the noble and the lowly, regardless of status, the modern "fear of the inside" is the embodiment of love.
When Hu Shi was the president of Peking University, he openly expounded the meaning of "fear of the inside", pointing out that "fear of the inside" is the cornerstone of family democracy and social democracy.
Soetu "fear of the inside" can be drilled under the bed, and more famous words flow to future generations.
Soetu was a famous minister of the Manchu Qing Dynasty, and we will not comment on his merits. Just tell me about the origin of this famous saying.
One day, when the Kangxi Emperor approved the recital, he saw that the matter of the recital of Suo'etu was not very clear, and sent someone to summon him to let Suo'etu enter the palace to translate and interpret. The summoned messenger waited in the hall for a long time and did not see Lord Suo come out to receive the message, so he went down the corridor to the inner courtyard, who knew that as soon as the messenger entered the inner courtyard, he heard Mrs. Suo say loudly, "You can't get out." The messenger did not know what had happened and hurriedly took a few steps to push open the door, only to see Madame Sophie bending down to look under the bed with a feather duster in one hand and a curtain with the other. Under the bed came the words of Lord Suo, "Manly husband, if you can't say it, you can't come out." Afterwards, the emissary quietly informed Kangxi of what he had seen.
Qi Jiguang: "Please Madame to see if Lang Yongwu is a son in our army."
In the coastal land of the Ming Dynasty, Qi Jiguang was rampant, and the imperial court sent Qi Jiguang to lead troops to suppress Kou, and after several bloody battles, a large number of Wukou were suppressed, and Qi Jiguang's reputation was like a day in the sky. But when I think of the lady at home--------。 Therefore, he decided to give his wife a dismount to raise his voice at home, and said to the accompanying guards next to him: "Go and call the lady." Madame Qi looked at Qi Jiguang from a distance and shouted, "What do you want me to do at noon?" When Qi Jiguang saw the lady who was walking with tigers and tigers, she had already lost the -------。 After listening to Madame's questioning, he greeted him with a smile and said, "Please Madame see if Lang Yongwu, the son of our army, is brave or not."
Fang Xuanling's wife Tang Taizong Li Shimin was also afraid of the origin of "jealousy".
The dynasty had been dispersed for two hours (4 hours) and fang Xuanling, the prime minister, still had no intention of returning home, wandering left and right outside the main hall, tang taizong Li Shiming learned of it and thought that the prime minister still had something to do, so he ordered someone to summon Fang Xuanling to the imperial study and asked, "Ai Qing, why did you stay outside the hall for a long time?" Prime Minister Fang Xuanling looked at Tang Taizong and had to tell the truth: "Because of trivial matters in the family, the minister did not rest assured for a while, angered his wife, and did not know how to go home to explain, so he wandered in front of the main hall."
Tang Taizong Li Shiming looked at Fang Xuanling, the prime minister, and thought to himself, how can you make private trivia difficult for your heavy courtiers, and said, "Ai Qing, Yuan, this is your wife to relieve ru's worries." One side ordered someone to go to the imperial dining room to get a bowl of vinegar.
Lady Lu entered the palace, and Tang Taizong said to Lady Lu: "Fang Aiqing has worked very hard for me day and night to take concubines for things, and I want to reward Fang Aiqing and take concubines for her," Lady Lu said; "No," Tang Taizong said: "If you want to live, Fang Aiqing takes a concubine, if you want to die, there is a bowl of poisonous wine over there." Mrs. Lu walked over and took a sip of the poisoned wine. Tang Taizong, who saw this scene, said to Fang Xuanling, "Ai Qing, let's do it for ourselves." Left the royal study.
Emperor Wen of Sui said, "Although he is the son of the Emperor and the Son of Heaven, he cannot help himself."
Lonely Garo was the wife of Emperor Yang Jian of Sui, and at the beginning of the wedding, Lonely Garo and Yang Jian (not called Emperor Shi) in the cave room said that they would be monogamous in this life. The husband and wife respect each other like guests, and in the blink of an eye, The lonely Garo is 50 years old.
One day, Emperor Yang Jian of Sui saw that Wei Chi's daughter was beautiful and moving, and he was in love with him and prepared for the Golden House to hide jiao. He did not expect that the East Window Incident would occur in front of Empress Jia Luo and slash the daughter of Lieutenant Chi Yuan in front of the Sui Emperor Yang Jian.
Emperor Yang Jian of Sui rose from his heart, angry beyond words, and rode away wildly, not asking where to run, just forward, forward.
Yang Su and a group of ministers, while struggling to catch up, loudly discouraged, "Your Majesty, how can you abandon the country because of a woman?"
Emperor Wen of Sui cried and said, "Emperor Tianzi of Ren is the Emperor of Man, but he can't help himself."
Under the persuasion of everyone, The Sui Emperor Yang Jian returned to the palace.
Hu Shi and His Wife
The harmony of the family and the harmony of society need to care for each other, democracy is the cornerstone, and "fear of the inside" is difficult to talk about, but it is absolutely impossible to regard the "fear of the inside" of men as the performance of the bold mouse generation, and we must understand the man's mind.
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