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"After seeing the smoke, rain, wind and dust, and walking through the troughs of life, I know that the destination of the soul is the truth."
This sentence is most suitable for the rich Li Houlin.
From Zhou Yanhong to Qin Hailu to Li Xiang, from unknown to jewelry tycoon to the brink of bankruptcy, Li Houlin has experienced many ups and downs that are unimaginable to ordinary people.
And all of this makes Li Houlin see through life, and what he longs for in his heart is the real need.
Instead of being moved, it is better to do things to move yourself, at least you will not be hurt.
In my opinion, the first half of Li Houlin's life is actually pursuing a truth: for what is he living?
Born in 1973, Li Houlin was born with a mind that was different from ordinary people, which made his starting point in the business world much higher than others.
At the age of 26, he founded hengxin diamond agency and became a well-known jewelry tycoon, which is difficult for ordinary people to achieve.
How to strategize in the business world, this is just a matter of experience for Li Houlin.
Once upon a time, wealth, power, and women seemed to be a criterion for judging whether a man was successful or not.
Then for Li Houlin, wealth and power have become unattractive, and having a confidant with a red face seems to have become his biggest thing.
In Li Houlin's view, rouge vulgar powder has not entered his eyes, if you can get acquainted with female stars like the predecessors, it should be a very pleasant thing.
In early 2000, Li Houlin locked his first target on actress Zhou Yanhong.
Zhou Yanhong, born in 1975, can be described as the peak of her debut, and her first album released at the age of 16 caused a sensation in the entire music scene.
Classic songs such as "Spring Breeze Full of Faces", "Tea Mountain Girl", "See Jasmine Again", "Dolma" and other classic songs have been covered countless times.
Therefore, in the 90s, Zhou Yanhong was also a thriving in the pop music scene, who could sing, compose lyrics and compose music, and was a rare talent.
That year, a chance encounter allowed Li Houlin to meet the young and beautiful Zhou Yanhong, because he liked it and launched a fierce pursuit.
Men who can mix in the business world have an emotional intelligence iq that is different from ordinary people, so on the road of pursuing Zhou Yanhong, Li Houlin has played his potential, of course, all of which is based on the "attack" of banknotes.
Rich, willing to spend money, similar age, talent and handsome, this kind of man, in exchange for no one can resist the offensive.
So Zhou Yanhong "fell". Women's love is always the same, passive in the early stage, and once trapped, it is reversed.
After Zhou Yanhong and Li Houlin were together, they did their best to help Li Houlin's business, and all the friends he could contact basically became customers.
To this end, Zhou Yanhong also generously disclosed her boyfriend in the media and said a lot of good things for him, which directly doubled Li Houlin's corporate performance.
It is reasonable to say that such a woman should make Li Houlin feel solid, but what he did not expect was that in less than 3 years, Li Houlin found his next home.
Saying that the "personality is not compatible" and breaking up, in fact, it is because he has a crush on Qin Hailu, who is five years younger.
In Li Houlin's eyes, the smooth life made him feel no crisis, as if everything was something that fate should have.
Therefore, I don't feel cherished for those things that come with a wave of my hand, and sometimes I feel taken for granted.
Therefore, the challenge is exciting, the pursuit of difficulty, to become the flavor of life of such a "successful person".
The reason why Qin Hailu was chosen was not only because of her young beauty, but also because she had more personality than Zhou Yanhong.
Qin Hailu came from a literary and artistic family, practiced a dance skill from a young age, and then learned the Peking Opera Sword Ma Dan, so in terms of temperament, she is far better than Zhou Yanhong.
In terms of fame, Qin Hailu won the Queen Awards of the Hong Kong Film Awards at the age of 22 with her outstanding performance in "Durian Fluttering", and the evaluation of her by insiders is "a rare talent who is very good at acting and understands drama".
Therefore, Qin Hailu's strength was not behind Zhou Yanhong's.
But for Li Houlin, eating mountain treasures and seafood all year round, and occasionally changing steamed abalone soup, is actually a good choice.
Anyone is willing to try something new, after all, it is not bad money, nor is it bad opportunity.
Qin Hailu looks very ordinary on the outside, but inside she is a very idealistic woman, when to fight, when to marry, she has long had her own calculations.
But in the face of Li Houlin's pursuit, Qin Hailu is also "embarrassed", on the one hand, it is a thriving career, on the other hand, it is a romantic love, and how to choose has become a headache for her.
Li Houlin did not think so, he had never been defeated and would not give in to anything, let alone just spend some energy and money to chase a woman.
Women are always the same, no matter how strong psychological defenses, they can never bear the sweet words of men.
Qin Hailu also "fell", and love gave her enough courage to replace the center of gravity of life.
In 2003, shortly after his association with Qin Hailu, Li Houlin took advantage of the heat to strike iron and proudly took out a diamond ring composed of 50 colored diamonds to propose to Qin Hailu. To borrow Li Houlin's words, 50 colored diamonds represent 50 years of golden marriage.
Such a man, such a promise, said that a woman was not touched by a handful of snot and a handful of tears that really did not believe.
Qin Hailu was even more immersed in her own happy world, completely forgetting that danger was everywhere, but she was originally ready to promise Li Houlin, and she was suddenly reminded by her sister, after all, everything came too fast, and she had to think about it.
Therefore, Qin Hailu used his career as an excuse to temporarily shelve the marriage.
But what she did not expect was that Li Houlin turned around and announced that he would marry Li Xiang.
On July 21, 2004, Qin Hailu returned to Beijing after filming, and as soon as the plane landed, she received a parting text message from Li Houlin.
When she asked "why", Li Houlin explained very weakly, which made Qin Hailu quite difficult to accept.
She didn't know what to do except disappear and disappear.
Many people said that Li Xiang dug into Qin Hailu's corner, after all, the strength of the two Qin Hailu can not reach. She is not only the pillar of Hunan Satellite TV, but also founded her own media company with her ability.
Therefore, for Li Xiang, there is only what he can't see, and there is no corner that he can't dig.
And Li Houlin gave up Qin Hailu and turned around and married Li Xiang, for only three reasons.
First, when separated from Qin Hailu, Li Houlin did not idle, but continued to look for a favorite actress artist.
The second is that Li Xiang's strength is strong, and if combined with her, it is good for the careers of both people.
Third, Li Houlin's marriage proposal to Qin Hailu was rejected, but Li Xiang did not, not to mention how much Li Houlin wanted to get married, from this point alone, this is another result of his.
The breakup was an invisible injury to Qin Hailu, and Venus asked her if she cried afterwards? Qin Hailu said, "Can you not cry?" ”
It is said that this incident made Qin Hailu seriously ill, and she was even more blind to raise "heart disease" behind closed doors, it can be said that during that time, Qin Hailu suffered a lot.
And what about Li Houlin and Li Xiang on the other side? The love affair with great fanfare and the marriage of the feast can be described as red-hot.
During that time, the story of Li Houlin and Li Xiang from acquaintance to decision to get married was only "one month and three days" was spread, and many friends were envious.
However, the injured Qin Hailu seemed to have few people caring, except for her sister Qin Lan, who publicly accused Li Houlin of being "too shameless."
But this does not change the fact, with Li Xiang's popularity and wealth, this bit of gossip is nothing at all.
You think that's the end of it, but of course it's not!
On January 2, 2005, Li Xiang and Li Houlin held a grand wedding in Beijing, but no one knew that the wedding lasted less than 2 years. In other words, this wedding was meant to be a mistake.
33 days of love on the marriage, said all because of love that no one believes, Li Xiang is a woman with a high standard of living, married to Li Houlin is also because of his strong strength, can withstand the toss.
But the problem was that after marriage, she found out that Li Houlin was just like that. Or that Li Houlin is a "pseudo" rich man.
On November 22, 2006, Li Xiang admitted for the first time through his blog that he had divorced Li Houlin. For the reasons for divorce, at one time, countless people were curious.
"Any woman on the street is stronger than Li Xiang!" This is a sentence that diamond billionaire Li Houlin said on the show after divorcing Li Xiang.
It can be seen that divorce is not a small blow to Li Houlin.
At that time, the most rumored claim was that Li Houlin's company had a crisis in that year, on the verge of bankruptcy, and Li Xiang chose to divorce.
Although Li Houlin rebuked Li Xiang so much, Li Xiang said that the reason for the marriage change was very mellow, saying that the divorce was due to too busy work, and surprisingly she also said that Li Houlin was a good person.
Somewhat surprised, but also somewhat ridiculous.
After the divorce, Li Houlin no longer put his energy on the ground and devoted himself to his career.
After several years of hard work, he finally brought his business back to life and regained his own world.
However, at this time, Li Houlin fell into the contemplation of life, completely washed his heart, and became a low-key rich man.
The experience of the past few years has made Li Houlin understand a lot of truths, and everything has come to this day for a reason.
When it is glorious, it is frivolous and hurts others; when it is lonely, it is hurt by women and becomes a lonely person.
Everything is actually the fate that should be there.
Fortunately, Heaven gave him a chance to start over, so he never touched an "actress" again.
Playing with the feelings of others will eventually be toyed with by others.
Since 2008, Li Houlin has fallen in love with public welfare and founded the "I Do Fund", which has helped countless people.
According to legend, Li Houlin once spent 8 years turning the mountain 16 times and became acquainted with the current guru Sawa Hidekura Living Buddha, and the indissoluble relationship in the underworld made him take refuge in Buddhism.
Many people have read Li Houlin's novel "Eight Years of Turning mountains", which let everyone know a different Li Houlin, without the aura of the diamond king, without the honor of a philanthropist, in front of the reader's eyes, is a practitioner who works hard and turns the mountain to refine his heart.
As for taking refuge in Buddhism, Li Houlin said: Cultivating Buddhism makes my inner world more pure.
This life of a person is actually a reincarnation, whether it is injured or injured, it will be destined.
Look at the people who have been associated with him, some have regained happiness, others have lost their reputations.
So, it's not time!
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Original Author: Zuo Xiaocai
A pseudo-youth pretending to be literary
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