Story: "My parents are in debt, you let me go and ask for money" Married a poor husband for seven years, she finally proposed divorce

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The second time, Tang Wei and her husband Shu Wei, because of the money thing, had a diaphragm response.

In love for four or five years, married for seven years, the relationship between the two people has been stable.

Tang Wei was very affectionate and kind, and when she first studied, Shu Wei fell at a glance because of her generosity.

Shu Wei is an engineering man, there is no special romance, but he is sincere, real, and puts Tang Wei on the tip of his heart.

Shu Wei's family was poor, and there was an older brother and two brothers on top, and his parents had planted land in the countryside for a lifetime, so it was easy to give up two college students and send them out of the countryside.

Tang Wei's family is relatively well-off, three suites in the city center, her father and mother are doing business, and they have been pampered since childhood, at least in the matter of money, she has not suffered anything.

The feelings of the two people, like glue and paint, have been smooth sailing along the way, and have been blessed by everyone.

When the two children got married, Shu Wei's parents and Shu Wei's two brothers, together money, bought a three-bedroom and two-hall government fund-raising house, and simply his brother settled in another province, and they could still live together.

The location of the community is very remote, no greenery is secondary, the roads inside are still semi-finished products, when Tang Wei first went to Shu Wei's house, a pair of small white leather shoes, raw and covered with a layer of ash.

But Shu Wei saw it, and as soon as he entered the door, he wiped her little leather shoes to shine, and Tang Wei's heart, because of the bad environment, the only bit of unhappiness that was there was also vanished.

The most important thing is that Shu Wei took the initiative to make a promise to Tang Wei, and within three years, he will definitely buy her a new suite, a room with the same supporting facilities as their mother's family.

Tang Wei smiled and nodded, she didn't care if Shu Wei wanted to buy a house.

Because her mother said, Shu Wei is a good person, the best room in the family, but if not, there are two more suites in the family, one set belongs to her, one set belongs to her sister.

How poor is Shu Wei's family?

When it comes to getting married, his mother can say cheekily, "Xiaowei, you are married, we have no money." ”

Tang Wei was stunned when he heard this, "You have money or no money, is there any problem?" ”

Look, Tang Wei at that time did not understand at all, marriage to the bride price, the man to prepare three gold, as well as wedding banquets, wedding celebrations, these places, all aspects of money.

But Tang Wei, who is trapped in love, where does she want to get that?

As long as she marries Shu Wei, she chooses the cheapest restaurant, finds the most affordable wedding, even the wedding dress, she is willing to wear wedding photos to send...

All of this is her and Shu Wei's hard-earned wages, little by little, simply, a small wedding, which is finally completed.

The mother-in-law's family married a car, and the little two temporarily lived in the in-laws' house, and the small family was slowly standing up.

The marriage of two people, at the beginning, that little day was as sweet as honey.

Even in the economy, it is not as good as when he was in his mother's house, but Shu Wei's thoughtfulness, the meticulousness and thoughtfulness of his mother-in-law, and the family's life can be regarded as peaceful and beautiful.

Tang Wei began to feel that money was more important, after the birth of her son.

It also happened that in the year when Tang Wei was pregnant with her son, her mother's business was hit hard, and Tang Wei's father owed a bunch of debts.

Shu Wei was angry, and when he really bought a school district house, Tang Wei proposed that her parents sell the house for her, at least to solve the urgent need first.

Shu Wei's attitude change seemed to have started at that time, when it came to selling the house, he did not object, but he was also silent. It's just that he has no right to speak, although the house is said to be for Tang Wei, after all, the name is still Tang Wei's parents, the family has a debt, it must be used to pay off the debt, always can not be held in the hand, dragging down the life of parents, right?

When his son was born, Shu Wei waited for Tang Wei for a month and took eight thousand yuan to Tang Wei.

"This is the money my parents gave to my grandson, Xiaowei, we have it in our hands, but that's all."

Tang Wei reached out to pick it up, but was taken back by Shu Wei, "It's not convenient for you to sit in confinement, I'll take it and save it first." By the way, your parents' side, what do you mean? ”

Tang Wei looked at Shu Wei in surprise, and vaguely felt that Shu Wei's words were a little strange, and his heart was a little uncomfortable.

"Shu Wei, you know, my parents have had a hard time in the past two years, my father transferred 10,000 pieces, and I confiscated them."

This was the first time Tang Wei saw Shu Wei's face, changed and changed, black and black, the emotions in his eyes were hidden and hidden, and it took a long time before he "Oh" a sound.

Having become a husband and wife and having children, Tang Wei did not want to speculate too much about Shu Wei's thoughts, but it was only a matter of a moment and a half, and Shu Wei's expression returned to normal.

After giving birth to a son, Tang Wei's relationship with her in-laws was also more harmonious, but she slowly felt poverty...

The son has 100 days and feasts on guests.

Tang Wei's body was fat, and the clothes in the closet did not fit.

"Shu Wei, I want to buy a set of clothes, I've gained a lot of weight recently, and those clothes can't be worn." Tang Wei held the child, seeing that tomorrow was going to be a banquet, according to her past habits, even if it was not because of fat, just because of hospitality, then she also had to buy a body from top to bottom.

This was the first time she had to buy clothes because she couldn't wear them.

Shu Wei was stunned, and then nodded again, "Well, go buy it!" ”

After saying that, he dropped the mobile phone and took the child, "I'm at home with the child, you go by yourself." ”

Tang Wei's face, fiery, Shu Wei did not go?

Since she became pregnant, she quit her job, just a little money, and spent it clean when she was pregnant and had a baby.

Shu Wei knew all this.

He did this because he didn't want to let himself spend that money.

They are all people who want face, and if Tang Wei takes the initiative to ask Shu Wei for money, she really can't open her mouth.

The matter of buying clothes can only be ignored, Tang Wei does not go out, Shu Wei does not ask, the two people are at home with children, each with a heart.

The next day's centenarian banquet, Tang Wei really couldn't find clothes, so she could only wear a set of college uniforms.

Before the feast was over, her mother's little aunt and grandmother took her to the cottage next to her and stuffed her with two thousand yuan.

Tang Wei refused, she saw that her aunt had already given Shu Wei a piece of money, and she did not want to take it again.

Who knew that the aunt looked sharp, "Hold, listen to the words of the aunt and grandmother, the female doll, married, also have to dress themselves." If you don't have money, you can't always make yourself face, it's not good-looking! ”

In an instant, Tang Wei was almost unable to control her tears.

"I told your parents at the beginning that a female doll can only marry up, where can you run to that family to help the poor?" Grandma's face was not good-looking, and she did not speak mercilessly, and sighed heavily.

"Alas, now that the babies are all born, they are all vain, thinking of the way, living their own lives well, if your mother-in-law mother does not have a job, you will throw the baby to her, I look at the family, it is also rare for your son, and it will not be treated badly." You go out and find a job yourself, even if you earn a thousand and eight hundred, at least you can wear clothes that fit, right? ”

Tang Wei couldn't cry, nodded her head and nodded, she wanted to maintain her dignity again, but without that strength, after all, it was all vain, and clear-eyed people could see clearly when they looked at it.

Sure enough, just like her grandmother said, Tang Wei found a job and began to take money from home, and Shu Wei seemed to change back to her original appearance.

It's just that both people are office workers, and there are only so many people coming in and out every month, and as their son grows up, this day seems to be slowly fermenting again.

Kindergartens, interest classes, food, clothing, housing and travel...

If two people want to support a family, the salary can only be regarded as barely enough, and it seems that there is a shortage of money to add to the cost of the son.

Tang Wei suggested that Shu Wei come out to do things on his own, and has been working for people, and there is not much way out.

Shu Wei said again and again, "First, I have no money, and second, if I quit my job, your salary can support the family's expenses for at least half a year, right?" ”

Tang Wei was dumbfounded every time, and no matter how many excuses she had, it was just because she didn't want to act.

Seeing that her son's cost was getting bigger and bigger, Tang Wei increasingly felt that she could not make ends meet, and her desire to start her own business was getting heavier and heavier.

In the night, Tang Wei pulled Shu Wei over, "Husband, I think well, I'll go and start a business." ”

Shu Wei smiled, and his eyes did not move away from the phone, "Well, if you want to go, just go." ”

It's another sentence, as if it doesn't matter to you.

This time, Tang Wei was not so thin-skinned, after all, she was for this family, the business became, and she did not benefit alone.

"So, how much money do you have there?"

This time, Shu Wei turned his head directly.

"What money do I have?"

"Have you not made a deposit for so many years?"

In Tang Wei's heart, Shu Wei is thrifty, the salary is not low, in the past two years, he has been promoted to supervisor, how should he have some spare money?

After all, the son's various expenses were hardly paid by him.

Shu Wei looked at Tang Wei with a straight hook, "I will give you a back, the mortgage is six thousand, the property management and water and electricity are one thousand, the living expenses for the mother are four thousand, the fuel fare is at least one thousand a month, not to mention the family's occasional expenses, the hard expenditure here is twelve thousand." I have only risen from last year to an annual salary of 200,000, Xiaowei, how much do you think you can have left? ”

Tang Wei was looked at by Shu Wei's heart hairy, yes, she five or six thousand yuan a month, so easy to save a little, was taken away by her son's various interest classes, not to mention the occasional other expenses, Tang Wei did not share the family's expenses, she could not save money, let alone Shu Wei?

The chat between the two people ended like this, and everyone's heart, more or less, had some ideas.

But the more embarrassed you are, the more you have to think about change?

This first fund, husband and himself here, is gone, Shu Wei's family is already poor, and there is no need to look forward to it.

"Or, will you go to your parents to borrow some money?"

The lights had been turned off, the bedroom was air-conditioned, and it was already a bit hot.

As soon as she heard Shu Wei's words, Tang Wei instantly lost her temper, "What is the call to borrow something from my parents?" Shu Wei, what is the current situation of my parents, don't you know, how do you want me to say the exit? ”

Shu Wei was in the dark, making people unable to see the expression, "As the saying goes, the skinny camel is bigger than the horse, your parents did so much business before, it is impossible for you to open a small shop, can not get out, right?" ”

The tone of his voice was not alarming, the words were reasonable, and Tang Wei kicked over angrily.

Shu Wei fell to the ground with a bang, got up at once, turned on the light with a bang, and stared at Tang Wei, "What are you crazy about?" ”

Not to be outdone, Tang Wei stood on the bed and glared back at him, "Shu Wei, how much money have you shaved from my parents over the years?" Are you an idiot when we are all? How did you mean to ask me to get the money when they were already in debt? What the are you doing? ”

Tang Wei was not a very good character, for so many years, she has just been hiding her emotions, just like her mother said, be a daughter-in-law, not a daughter-in-law, everything can be tolerated, and the days can be long-

Shu Wei was about to say something when the bedroom door was opened by his mother, "What's the noise?" The dolls have all been woken up by you, and there is something to say well, to quarrel out! ”

Shu Wei calmed his mother back!

Tang Wei sat on the bed, for a moment she thought of her current situation, when she was naïve, only when money was not important, love was greater than the sky, and now she actually lived her life, only to know that all the beautiful superstructures were actually determined by the economic foundation.

Now there is no money in the hand, you can only slowly survive, no matter how hard it is, you always have to save a little capital, so that you can do things yourself and earn more money, that is the right thing.

The idea of wanting to do business was stranded for two years, and the days were still searched and searched, and Tang Wei's already restless heart was finally pressed.

Tang Wei decided to take out a loan and do business at a time when the family had a disagreement over the issue of their children's primary school enrollment.

Tang Wei means to go to the best school in the city, a year's tuition costs a little more, but the quality of teaching, that is notoriously good, although not necessarily to ensure the future of how much achievement, but at least, their own efforts to be a mother.

But Shu Wei's parents are a sentence, "Wherever you read, it is the same, and those who can become instruments can become instruments when they are born." If you can't become a tool, you just read Tsinghua Peking University from a young age! ”

After saying that, he said again, "Why spend that money in vain?" I didn't have many children in my hands! ”

Tang Wei didn't speak, only looked at Shu Wei to see what kind of words he was talking.

Shu Wei chewed and chewed the rice in his mouth, unable to avoid Tang Wei's eyes, and did not want to upset his parents.

"Let's talk about it later, if you have money to study better, you can study better if you don't have money."

This time the conversation made Tang Wei suddenly have an idea: the ancients often said that the door should be right, in fact, it should be right.

The Shu Wei family does not have any major vices, but it is poor, and sometimes, poverty is really a wrong thing.

Because of poverty, it can really make people have no more opportunities, see more things, and be more likely to be insecure.

Take Shu Wei, his ability is not bad, so many years of experience accumulation, out of their own work, only afraid that there will be achievements early, but can not put down such a small supervisor position, and even dare not move the year-end of the year issued by the unit every year, a word, keep just in case.

In the long run, the future can see the head at a glance, can not jump out of the current comfort zone, can not earn more money, and can only grievance themselves, grievance children.

Tang Wei comforted herself many times, feeling that Shu Wei was stable and for the stability of a family.

But only now did Tang Wei understand that Shu Wei was poor and afraid, so he didn't dare to move, the little bit of blood and sweat that he had come so hard, even his son, couldn't take away the "stability" he had so hard to get.

The husband was unreliable there, and the parents could not go back to nibble on the old, Tang Wei gritted her teeth, and acquaintances in the bank, made a small entrepreneurial loan, two hundred thousand, five years to pay off.

Tang Wei thought well, his son was his Shu family, but he was also his own, no matter how tired he was, he could not let his son have no chance.

The shop was open, but for three or four months in a row, it was losing money, and Shu Wei's face was already rotten.

After paying the English tuition fee to her son, Tang Wei couldn't even get out two hundred yuan.

Seeing that the day of repayment was approaching, there was always no way to break the credit, there was no other way, Tang Wei once again asked Shu Wei for help.

"Otherwise, you will close your shop, go to work according to the rules, and continue to lose so much, and our family will be empty."

Tang Wei was a little frustrated, "I think, wait, now summer is the off-season, and when the winter peak season arrives, let's take a look at it again."

Shu Wei snorted heavily, "How much do you want?" ”

"Four thousand six hundred and thirty-two"

In less than a minute, Tang Wei's card had an income, 4632, and there was no more than one point.

Tang Wei squeezed that sum of money, and she didn't know what it was like in her heart, this marriage seemed to have slowly changed its taste...

Tang Wei was in the shop, boiling some rice brought from home, eating kimchi, eating with relish, occasionally customers saw, Tang Wei only joked that she was losing weight.

Until Tang Wei's mother walked to the store, stared at Tang Wei's food, looked at it, and couldn't help but burst into tears in her eyes.

"Mom, how did you get here?"

Tang Wei was a little cramped, but she also tried to behave naturally.

"Eat this at noon?"

"Well, I've gained a lot of weight lately, and I want to lose."

Mother Tang did not speak, only looked at Tang Wei's shop, "Business still can't get up?" ”

"It's better than it was at the beginning, at least, the monthly rent is coming out."

Mother Tang no longer asked more, at this time, she was actually weak in heart.

"Child, if it was before, why did your mother let you suffer all this?"

Tang Wei's eyes were sour, and she smiled again, "Mom, I'm an adult, where is there anything bitter or not?" It doesn't matter. ”

"Vivi, do you think your mother didn't give you a good pass?"

"Huh? Mom, what do you mean? ”

Tang Wei didn't know much about her mother's words, but she only divorced Shu Wei yesterday, and today her mother came, which made Tang Wei have to feel that her mother was called by Shu Wei.

"Shu Wei this child is honest and thrifty, this is his merit, sometimes the speech is not necessarily good, but at least he did not bend his intestines, bent on your little family, Wei Wei, you should not be willful."

Tang Wei's mother did not bend over backwards, Tang Wei sneered in her heart, "Mom, between husband and wife, cold and warm self-knowledge, you do not understand." ”

This means that I hope my mother will stop worrying about their business.

Mother Tang sighed, "Mom is a person who comes over, seeing people will always be more accurate than you, Wei Wei, when you got married, your mother asked you to give money to Shu Wei to manage, that's because you didn't have a number of money from childhood."

Shu Wei is steady, so many years, hasn't he taken good care of it? Look at how many peers around you, without parental support, have bought a house and supported a family? To put it bluntly, most people, can not nibble on the old, is already good. ”

Mother Tang is Shu Wei's lobbyist, Tang Wei is angry, and the idea of divorce is thought and thought, and it is easy not to waver.

Tang Wei no longer spoke, over the years, she was fed up with Shu Wei's search, just like her grandmother said, when she first found a family with a better family, how was it not good?

"Vivi, you are your mother's child, your mother will tell you so, this person has been poor and rich all his life, step by step, as long as he is not lazy, now in this society, there is always no starvation." It's just that you have a high heart, in Shu Wei's family, there is always a sense of superiority, this is your fault, you and his parents are not at the same level of thought, Shu Wei is not a person who is very ambitious, so you always feel that sometimes everyone's concepts are inconsistent..."

"Mom, Did Shu Wei tell you?" In short, I am a word, I just don't eat or drink, I also want to send Hao hao to xx school, it is impossible to make him worse than when I was a child. ”

Tang's mother looked at Tang Wei, "No one will not let you send, then you will not send, I will also call your father to think of children, just children, this marriage is not a child's play, this child is not a toy, you can't do something without a smooth heart, you have to divorce." If you divorce, you may not be able to find the harmonious family you have today. ”

"Mom, don't you say it, in short, Shu Wei and I have this life, that's it, even if we don't divorce, then we can only go our separate ways."

Mother Tang knew that Tang Wei was stubborn, and the more she said it, the easier it was to be counterproductive.

"Vivi, for so many years, your decision mom basically did not oppose, this time, mom did not oppose, but you wait, wait until your business rises, you look again, and then say that you can't leave the line?"

Tang Wei looked at her mother in disbelief, the business rose and then divorced?

Isn't it time to divide the store equally?

Mom, are you my mom or? You know, once this shop is in a profitable state, ours belongs to the joint property of husband and wife, and when the time comes, it is reasonable that my hard work will score half of his Shu Wei! ”

Mother Tang frowned, "In short, Vivi, in a family, don't divide the money too clearly, it will be meaningless!" ”

Tang Wei grew up, where was her mother said this?

Tang Wei, who was angry, directly took out his mobile phone, and as soon as Shu Wei connected, he immediately roared, "Shu Wei, what did you say to my mother?" You hold me in everything and guard against me in every way, do you mean to say that I can tell the difference between you and you? Do you fucking want a face? ”

"Vivi, what's wrong with you?"

"You roll me over!" My mom is here, let's make it clear in front of my mom! ”

Mother Tang looked at Tang Wei and hung up the phone, sighed, "You are all mothers, why is your temper still so similar to your father?" So grumpy? ”

"Mom, Shu Wei before and after marriage, two looks, now he still runs to you to complain, why?" What does he rely on?! ”

Tang Wei completely broke out, now she can see clearly, Shu Wei this person, not only search, no vision, but also like to provoke right and wrong, she has made great concessions, the house, the car, are left to him, she only needs her son, why does he still have to find his mother?

When Shu Wei came, Tang Wei almost involuntarily gave Shu Wei a slap, followed by Shu Wei's mother, who also followed, watching her son being beaten, and her eyes were full of pain.

Tang Wei was iron-hearted, did not go with Shu Wei, and did not even give Shu Wei's mother a good look.

The four of them froze in the shop, and it was Shu Wei's mother who opened her mouth first, "Wei Wei, this matter today, no wonder Shu Wei, my own mother, I found it." ”

Tang Wei was surprised, and Tang's mother nodded, "Your mother-in-law doesn't want me to say, worried that you think she is troublesome." ”

"Yes, originally you two little people, we should not intervene as parents, but now when it comes to divorce, this is not a matter for the two of you, Bao'er is still young, we can't let him go..." As he spoke, Shu Wei's mother began to cry.

He took a breath, Shu Wei is not good at words, since you said that you divorced, he couldn't beg you, these two nights, he hid in the bedroom and cried, this, how not to be distressed? Vivi, you are not cruel, or you will consider it again? Our family, what is wrong, you say it, we will change, do you see it? ”

Tang Wei was stunned in the same place, Shu Wei's mother was crying there, and Shu Wei also stood by the side with tears in her eyes.

"Change? Can the innate poverty change? ”

"Vivi, your words hurt people!" Tang Wei's mother scolded, but she didn't know, how did her daughter become so bitter?

"Am I snarky? Mom, when our family conditions were good, Shu Wei collected money from our family in various ways, and our family encountered something, and I didn't see him help, you know, before opening this shop, he also encouraged me to come back and borrow money.

Forget it, in the past few months, I can't make ends meet, the loan is not enough, ask him to transfer some money to me, he actually transferred to me, not more than a penny. Mom, this kind of person I don't divorce, why should I keep it? ”

"Vivi, wasn't that what you said at the time, turning so much?" Shu Wei was a little aggrieved and looked at Tang Wei to defend.

"I'm just talking about the amount of the loan, how can you be so stupid?" This month, I don't take the car? Don't eat? Doesn't it cost? You say you love me, Shu Wei, what is it about you that makes me feel like you're loving me? ”

Tang Wei almost said with a roar, over the years, she has been aggrieved enough, all said, poor couple Pepsi mourning, now, she can be considered to have truly experienced.

"My parents are in debt, you let me go and ask for money" After marrying a poor husband for seven years, she finally proposed divorce

As early as before getting married, Tang Wei's mother warned Tang Wei not to be estranged from her in-laws because of money, and try to suffer some losses herself.

Over the years, she has suffered losses, but she cannot lose her son.

Shu Wei suddenly realized, "Wei Wei, I don't know, you don't even have living expenses." ”

"Hmm, you pretend, keep pretending, you check my bank card every three to five minutes, you won't know?"

"Really, Vivi, I thought you were gone, and you'd tell me, as long as you say it, I'm definitely going to give it to you." Shu Wei kept arguing, but Tang Wei was unmoved.

Gradually, someone came to the door, after all, it was open to do business, and seeing that the time for the children to finish school had arrived, Shu Wei could only send his mother to pick up the baby first.

Leave Tang Wei's mother in the shop to advise Tang Wei!

"This matter, it is not your mother helping Shu Wei, Wei Wei, your personality is too similar to your father, spending money like water, and there is no special plan." When you first got married, your mother told Shu Wei that he would try to manage the money, as long as you didn't open your mouth to ask for it, don't give it to you easily.

Children, people live in this world, there are too many places to spend, you never know, risks and tomorrow, which one comes first. Shu Wei is a sincere child, this matter, in the eyes of the mother, has not yet made a fuss to the point of divorce, what do you have, first communicate with him, everyone will make the words clear, not accurate, the days will be much better. ”

Tang Wei's divorce farce, after all, was in the voice of everyone's opposition, and slowly disappeared...

With Tang Wei's business, slowly on the right track, the mood seems to have improved a lot, Shu Wei's many "searches" seem to be slowly becoming advantages, at least, since that dispute, Shu Wei began to pay attention to Tang Wei's money at any time, at any time There is no card, and he will turn a little as much as he can.

Many times, Shu Wei did not say much, and he could not find anything to do, but as soon as Tang Wei said it, he could immediately act, and over time, the feelings of the husband and wife became more and more stable.

"After being married for so many years, it seems that it is only during this time that I have begun to understand you."

Husband and wife, walking on the way home, Tang Wei suddenly said.

Shu Wei smiled, holding Tang Wei in one hand and the dishes he bought home in the other. "What do you say?"

"You used to say you loved me, but you never offered to give it to me, or that you weren't romantic, gentle, or considerate..."

The more Tang Wei said, the darker Shu Wei's face became.

"Look, I also like blackface, and I always frown at every turn."

Shu Wei hurriedly adjusted his emotions and suddenly stopped, "Tang Wei, I actually, really love you..."

Tang Wei nodded, "I know, now I understand, sometimes I really think too much myself, too many people say, you were looking at our family's money at the beginning, and now I know that you are really, a very good husband." ”

Tang Wei was somewhat glad that she had not been so determined before, and she must divorce her.

There are really not so many people in this world who can see what you need through a little performance.

Especially for someone like Shu Wei, if you want, you can directly say that he may not be able to fully satisfy you, but at least within his ability, he will not treat you badly.

Marriage is a matter, everyone is just hugging each other for warmth, supporting each other, understanding each other, is the right thing. (Original title: "Marriage Episode")

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