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Guo Lianwen
Guo Lianwen is a well-known special actor loved by the audience, playing the great man "Liu Shaoqi" for dozens of times, starring in film and television dramas such as "Comrade Shaoqi", "Long March" and "Ode to Yan'an", which have won wide acclaim.
Guo Lianwen's wife, Guo Yiduan, is an ordinary woman who sacrifices her career again and again for her husband and family to achieve her husband. In the long journey of marriage, she and her husband shared joys and sorrows, and shared hardships and tribulations. After repeated contradictions and frictions, Guo Lianwen and his wife found a new fulcrum for a happy life...
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Guo Lianwen and Guo Yiduan were married in May 1979. At that time, the China Children's Theater rehearsed a large-scale children's musical "Ma Lanhua", Guo Lianwen played the male protagonist Ma Lang, and Actor Guo Yiduan, who was seconded from a Literary and Art Group in Beijing, sang harmony behind the scenes. Guo Lianwen is talented, 1.78 meters tall, and looks big and dashing. Guo Yiduan is gentle and quiet, elegant temperament, and the two fell in love at first sight.
Born in Qinhuangdao, Hebei Province, Guo Lianwen joined the China Children's Theatre after graduating from the Central Academy of Drama. Guo Yiduan grew up in the coastal city of Qingdao and graduated from the Department of Music and Dance of the Central University for Nationalities. Because both families were out of town, in March of the following year, Guo Lianwen and Guo Yiduan held a simple wedding in Beijing, and the couple settled their homes in the two-bedroom apartment that Guo Lianwen had given to him.
In June 1981, Guo Lianwen and Guo Yiduan's son Guo Chao came to life. With a child, the couple suddenly had a heavy responsibility and burden, and Guo Yiduan made sacrifices in pain, gave up his thriving acting career, and went to the CCTV Social Education Center as an ordinary staff member.
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In this way, Guo Yiduan shouldered the two burdens of family and children, allowing Guo Lianwen to be fully engaged in his career. At that time, guo Lianwen and his wife's monthly salaries did not add up to more than 80 yuan, although they were actors, but there was no remuneration for the performance at that time, and Guo Lianwen's hard work in a drama was only a dime and a half cent subsidy. Originally, the income was low, and Guo Lianwen had to send a part of the money to his hometown every month to subsidize the lives of his parents and siblings. In this way, Guo Lianwen's own small family life is stretched. Guo Yiduan is a generous and virtuous woman who never cares about her husband helping her family.
Although the economy is not rich, Guo Yiduan does not want outsiders to see the dilemma of the family, and tries to make the family dress decently, so as to strive for the whole family to eat a meal of meat in two days. In this way, Guo Yiduan could only calculate carefully and break a penny into two halves.
In the mid-1990s, TV dramas flourished in the mainland, and Guo Lianwen ushered in development opportunities. From 1996 to 1998, in just three years, Guo Lianwen has played important roles in many film and television dramas such as "The Great Turning Point", "Tibet Storm", and "Zhuge Kongming". However, because of his general popularity, Guo Lianwen's film remuneration was very low, and the couple saved money frugally and painstakingly accumulated 200,000 yuan in 1999.
With this huge amount of money, Guo Lianwen plans to buy a house and improve the living conditions of his family. Guo Yiduan saw her husband squeezing the bus to work and filming, which was very hard, and decided to use the money to buy a car for her husband. The couple disagreed.
Once, a crew negotiated with Guo Lianwen to let him play an important role in the film, but when the performance contract was signed, the other party temporarily changed his mind and rejected him. Guo Lianwen was very depressed, thinking that over the years, he was often picked and chosen by directors and producers, and his fate was in the hands of others, and his heart gushed with unspeakable troubles. Guo Lianwen thought that if only he had his own position, so that he could control his own destiny.
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Guo Lianwen had the idea of starting a business, but what to do? Once, Guo Lianwen had dinner with Shi Guangsheng, a fellow Qinhuangdao resident and then minister of foreign trade and economic cooperation. During the banquet, Guo Lianwen talked about the confusion of entrepreneurship, and Minister Shi reminded him: "We Qinhuangdao people are brilliant and have a strong cultural atmosphere, why should you use your celebrity effect to establish an art school in your hometown?" This can not only increase income, but also cultivate some good seedlings of literature and art. ”
A remark reminded Guo Lianwen that yes, starting an art school is the most suitable way to start a business. When he returned home in the evening, Guo Lianwen told his wife about the idea of investing in the school. But Guo Yiduan felt that the investment risk was very large and did not agree with her husband to start a business. Because of the disagreement, the couple had an argument.
During that time, Guo Yiduan painstakingly persuaded Guo Lianwen to give up the idea of running a school, but Guo Lianwen could not listen to half a sentence, and he began to carry his wife to Qinhuangdao to investigate the school site, run the school license, and print and distribute the enrollment brochure.
Subsequently, Guo Lianwen turned over his family's passbook and went to Qinhuangdao to pay the rent of the rental school. Guo Yiduan leaned out of the kitchen, saw her husband walking out with his passbook, and quickly chased him out: "Lian Wen, you can't be too impulsive!" Guo Lianwen didn't have time to explain, and hurried away...
The husband is too disrespectful to himself, such a big thing, he has no power to act arbitrarily! The more Guo Yiduan thought about it, the angrier he became, packed his bags and moved into his sister's house. The next day, Guo Lianwen rushed back to Beijing from Qinhuangdao and learned from his son that his wife had gone to his sister's house, and he hurried over.
Guo Lianwen patiently persuaded his wife: "The reason why I insist on running a school is to find a platform for my career, and at the same time to improve our living conditions and let the family live a better life." Then, he told the complex in his heart, every time he returned to his hometown, the local leaders warmly welcomed him, expecting him to use the celebrity effect to do something for his hometown, and he felt that running a school was the best return to his hometown. As he spoke, tears poured out of the corners of Guo Lianwen's eyes...
The sister-in-law on the side listened to Guo Lianwen's inner monologue and was deeply moved, and she seriously said to her sister: "Running a school is a good thing for merit in the contemporary era and benefit in the thousand autumns, and you should support him!" Moreover, even Wen wen is also for this family! Guo Yi was dumbfounded. At the urging of his sister, Guo Yiduan followed her husband back home.
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Late that night, Guo Yiduan woke up and saw her husband around. She got up in her clothes and went into the living room, and the scene in front of her made her heart ache: her husband was sitting on the sofa with a gaunt face and red eyes, spitting out a thick smoke ring... Guo Yiduan understood how painful her husband's heart was! She walked over gently, and Guo Lianwen did not say a word before shedding tears: "Yiduan, since you are so opposed to running a school, I listen to you, and the school will not do it." Guo Yiduan wiped the tears from the corners of her husband's eyes: "No, Lian Wen, I figured it out, what you want to do, just let it go!" If we fail, we don't have to start all over again. Guo Lianwen held his wife in his arms in his arms and burst into tears...
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Soon, Guo Lianwen solved the problems of school site, teachers, and student sources, and asked the highly respected Wang Guangmei to write the name of "Lianwen Film and Television Art School". At this time, Guo Lianwen had played the great Liu Shaoqi of a generation twice in "Tibet Storm" and "Comrade Shaoqi", and after Wang Guangmei saw the film, he greatly praised his acting skills, saying that his appearance, language, form, and actions were almost the same as Comrade Shaoqi. The two developed a deep friendship.
On September 1, Lianwen Film and Television Art School officially opened, and Guo Lianwen was appointed as the principal. In order to save money, Guo Yiduan resigned from the editor of China Television News to become the school's vice principal, responsible for the management of the school. The school covers an area of 30 acres, located in the beautiful scenery, pleasant sea breeze on the Beidai River, with film and television performance, broadcast hosting, vocal music and dance and other majors, students are 12 to 15 years old in Hebei Province with literary and artistic talent, the state recognizes secondary school education.
Guo Lianwen not only personally taught students, but also hired some professors with social influence from the Central Academy of Drama and the Beijing Film Academy to teach students. Private schools are destined to have difficult steps, with tens of thousands of yuan in fees for opening the door every day, as well as many unexpected expenses such as superior inspections, media interviews, and hospitality observation groups. Guo Lianwen and his wife are under tremendous financial pressure.
In order to maintain the normal operation of the school, Guo Lianwen invested in the school every time he got a piece of remuneration. The family cut back on food and clothing, saving every penny of running a school. From Beijing to Beidaihe for classes, Guo Lianwen was reluctant to take a taxi, but squeezed long-distance buses; Guo Yiduan never bought clothes, and the cosmetics he used were 5 yuan a box of "big treasures"; 18-year-old Guo Chao, who was in high school, used the winter and summer vacations to go to McDonald's to work, and gave all the money he earned to his parents.
Nevertheless, at the end of each month, in the face of a large amount of school bills, Guo Yiduan was helpless. The winter of 2000 soon came, and the property company asked the school to pay a large amount of heating costs, but there was no money on the school's books. At that time, Guo Lianwen was filming in other places, and Guo Yiduan had to ask her sister for help, and her sister quickly sent 20,000 yuan to her account to solve her urgent need. When Guo Lianwen learned about it, he was moved to tears...
One day, in order to broaden the students' horizons, Guo Lianwen and his wife organized 15 students majoring in acting to go to the Beijing Children's Drama Theatre to watch a drama performance. To save money, they rented a van. When the car drove to the Beijing-Shenyang Expressway, it suddenly stopped, and it could not start no matter how to repair it. Guo Yiduan and a large group of children huddled on the side of the road shivering, and more than two hours later, a kind passing bus driver carried them to Beijing.
Long-term fatigue coupled with cold, so that Guo Yiduan fell ill, high fever to 39 degrees. Guo Yiduan was depressed to the extreme. Guo Lianwen felt a deep remorse for letting his wife live such a miserable life! He carried his wife down from the third floor and went to the hospital in the community to do some drip. During this period, Guo Lianwen has been with his wife, holding her hand tightly and guarding her all night.
The next morning, Guo Yiduan's condition improved, and Guo Lianwen seriously said to her: "Yiduan, I asked another person to manage the school, and you can rest at home." Guo Yi looked at her husband's bloodshot eyes and sighed: "Now the school is in the most difficult time, I am your wife, I don't help you who will help you?" After saying that, she rushed to the school with her bag. Watching his wife's back disappear into the shadows of the trees, a feeling of dependence on each other filled Guo Lianwen's heart, and complex tears unconsciously poured out of his eyes: Although his wife is ordinary, she is great!
Years of hard work have finally paid off. As the school is on the right track day by day, the talents of the children of Lianwen Film and Television Art School are gradually revealed, they are not only the backbone of Literature and Art in Qinhuangdao, but also have won awards in the Hebei Provincial Literary and Art Show many times. In August 2002, the first batch of students graduated from the art school, and 80% of the students were admitted to famous art colleges such as Chinese Opera, Beiying, and Beijing Broadcasting College; some students also played roles in film and television dramas such as "The Age of Passion" and "Rushing Ocean" under the recommendation of Guo Lianwen. Lianwen Film and Television Art School became famous, and students from all over the country rushed to apply for the examination, and the number of students reached more than 300.
After a few years, the school not only recouped all its investment, but also had a surplus. Guo Lianwen and his wife breathed a long sigh of relief, and there was a sense of happiness that came from bitterness. At this time, Guo Lianwen's acting career also entered a golden period, and he played Liu Shaoqi more than a dozen times in film and television dramas such as "Long March", "Founding Leader Mao Zedong", "New Fourth Army", "Yan'an Song" and became a famous special actor.
Although Guo Lianwen's family was not very rich and wealthy at this time, their living conditions rose several steps, they bought a three-bedroom apartment in Beijing, and also bought a car, and the family lived a comfortable life.
At this time, Guo Lianwen was preoccupied with his acting career and handed over all the affairs of the school to his wife. Guo Yiduan has to manage students, arrange teaching courses, logistics, and worry about the safety of students, which makes her mind often in a state of high load, feeling tired all day. Every time Guo Lianwen rushed from the crew to the school to visit his wife, the couple could not say a few words, and Guo Lianwen hurried back to the crew.
In this way, Guo Yiduan has been "stationed" in Qinhuangdao for many years, his son Guo Chao is studying at the Beijing University of International Business and Economics, Guo Lianwen is filming in other places all year round, and the family of three lives in three places, not only is it difficult to eat a reunion dinner together, but also even the New Year's Festival has to endure the pain of separation. This is not the life That Guo Yiduan wants at all, he has not seen his husband and son for a long time, and what is the meaning of living conditions no matter how rich he is?
That year's Spring Festival, Guo Chao interned in Hong Kong, Guo Lianwen filmed the TV series "Eighth Route Army" in Shanxi, and Guo Yiduan took students to record the Spring Festival Gala in Shijiazhuang. After the program was recorded, Guo Yiduan rushed back to Beijing and saw that others were reunited with their families and enjoyed their harmony, while his own family of three was on each side of the day, and the boundless acid was in Guo Yiduan's heart...
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One day, Guo Lianwen returned to the school from the crew to teach. Days of intense shooting, coupled with the hard work of lecturing, made Guo Lianwen tired and had no strength at all. In the evening, Guo Yiduan gave him a basin of hot water to soak his feet, and Guo Lianwen snored evenly on the sofa as he washed it. This scene made Guo Yiduan sour, and her husband was too tired!
In the evening, Guo Yiduan had a long conversation with her husband: "Lian Wen, you are so busy filming, I am not only stressed to manage the school by myself, but also too tired, or we will close the school!" Guo Lianwen can understand his wife's mood, and he has witnessed his wife's difficulties and difficulties over the years. Moreover, as his popularity grew, he simply did not have the energy to take care of the work of the school, and he feared that in the long run, he would mislead people. Thinking like this, Guo Lianwen agreed with his wife's idea.
In July 2005, the Lianwen Film and Television Art School, which had been in operation for several years, was officially cancelled, and all the children were transferred to Beijing Nationalities University. On the day they left the school, Guo Lianwen and his wife clinged to each other, and this school witnessed their hardships and glory, and left the footprints of their struggle. Before leaving the school gate, Guo Lianwen and his wife looked back and saw the children standing on the playground brushed together, their eyes full of tears, watching them. Guo Lianwen and his wife burst into tears on campus...
After years of busyness, Guo Yiduan finally returned to the family and became a housewife. At this time, his son Guo Chao had graduated from the University of International Business and Economics and entered the headquarters of China Cosco Corporation. Guo Lianwen still shoots outside all year round. In this way, as a housewife, Guo Yiduan actually does not have much housework to do, in addition to wiping the floor, washing and cooking, Guo Yiduan will hide at home and read books, occasionally go to the beauty salon to do beauty, and the days are leisurely and comfortable. After working for so many years, he could finally control his own life, and Guo Yiduan enjoyed this leisure time very much.
But after all, he was busy and used to rest at home for more than half a year, and gradually, Guo Yiduan was not satisfied with this life of doing nothing all day. She said seriously to her husband, "Lian Wen, I want to go out and find something to do." Guo Lianwen persuaded: "When you managed the school, you were bitter and tired; now that you are relaxed, you can enjoy life at home." He didn't take his wife's words to heart.
At this time, the only son Guo Chao had already married and moved out to live another life, Guo Lianwen often performed and filmed outside, and only Guo Yiduan was left alone in the empty home. Every day after simply eating breakfast, Guo Yiduan sat depressed in front of the window, not knowing what to do to pass the long day.
In order to make the family more alive and popular, Guo Yiduan asked his son to come to the house for dinner every day at noon. Guo Chao was very puzzled. Guo Yiduan choked and said, "Child, your mother is too lonely, if you come home at noon, your mother can do something and talk to you." ”
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A pain in his heart spread in Guo Chao's heart, and he sadly told his father all this. Guo Lianwen's heart was completely shaken. The wife is only 50 years old, the closest husband and son are not around, the loneliness and coldness of the natural cone is bone-chilling, he did not stand in the wife's point of view for her to consider it. Thinking of this, Guo Lianwen's heart was full of guilt.
After returning home from filming the TV series "Peng Xuefeng", Guo Lianwen seriously said to his wife: "Yiduan, I'm sorry, I ignored your feelings. He told his wife that if she was willing to go out and work, he would give her his full support. The husband's understanding made Guo Yiduan have mixed feelings.
For many years, Guo Lianwen has been an art consultant at the Beijing Film and Television Art Training Center. At the beginning of 2007, when she learned that the training center was going to recruit a class teacher, Guo Lianwen recommended Guo Yiduan to the school, and the school welcomed her to join. In this way, Guo Yiduan rides a bicycle every day, coming and going between school and family. Managing a class, Guo Yi is handy and does not feel tired at all. Life was full, her mood was much better, her face was rosy, and she looked several years younger. Because of his excellent work, Guo Yiduan was soon promoted to director of the Art Training Center and deputy secretary-general of the China Artists Association.
By 2008, Guo Lianwen had played a generation of great liu Shaoqi in film and television dramas more than 40 times, and although the film and television dramas starring him had won the "Golden Eagle Award" and "Feitian Award" of Chinese television many times, he himself did not win any awards, and Guo Lianwen felt deep regret. In order to make up for the shortcomings in his heart, Guo Lianwen put all his energy into the acting career, in 2008 alone, he starred in 4 large-scale TV series such as "Defending Yan'an", "Dongfang Hong" and "Liberation", and only rested for more than 20 days in a year.
In June 2009, Luo Jing, a well-known announcer of CCTV, died of lymphoma due to overwork. Guo Yiduan and Guo Lianwen were deeply saddened. Guo Yiduan felt more and more the importance of health, and sincerely advised her husband: "Lian Wen, you are 56 years old, there is no need to work so hard!" "Luo Jing's death touched Guo Lianwen a lot, yes, his wife is right, for a person, reputation, status and money are all passing clouds, only health and affection are the most precious wealth!
In this way, Guo Lianwen slowed down the pace of his career, decided to only take over one or two TV series a year, took time to accompany his wife, shared the joy of the world with his son's family, and ended his life of gathering less and more with his relatives. In mid-November, Guo Lianwen's TV series "Liberation" was broadcast in a prime time on CCTV, on the occasion of his father's 84th birthday, and Guo Lianwen took his wife back to his hometown to congratulate his father. A big family of people together has talked and laughed, and it is fun.
Looking back on the marriage process between himself and his wife, Guo Lianwen sighed with emotion: the amount of wealth is not directly proportional to the index of happiness. No matter who, for the sake of career and wealth overdraft physical health, alienated from family affection, will gain more than they lose, there is no happiness to speak of. Having a career, having a harmonious family relationship, and being able to find a balance between career and family is the most wonderful and successful life!
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