Went to see "I Want Us Together."
When I first read the original story of the movie, I was still in high school, and when I saw the big words "My girlfriend who ran for ten years is going to get married", I felt very ironic, and I had already made up the routine plot of the roughly derailment separation.
To my surprise, there is no such clichéd dog blood plot, just the sadness revealed in the words of true feelings everywhere, helpless and real.
It is an incredibly true illustration of how reality defeats love.
In fact, I have brushed up on many couples who have been together for many years but still break up, and I have also seen couples who have been married for decades and are still resolutely divorced, of course, there is no shortage of men and women who know each other and enter the palace of marriage in half a month...
So there is always a question, what exactly can be counted as love?
Lu Qinyang and Ling Yiyao went from love to sometimes like strangers, and after ten years of leaving Gu Pan to hear each other, they finally fell silent in the past time.
This story seems to say that I love you, it is better to be together.
People are always more willing to believe in an ending that is close to their inner expectations and ideals.
At first, I was very inclined to the first happy ending, Ling Yiyao did not marry anyone else, and lived a full life with Lu Qinyang.
But when I opened it again, I felt that the ending of the cultivation of positive results was really difficult for the public to convince the public, because it was separated by a layer of reality.
After seeing the endings of many idiot men and women, the ending of Lu Qinyang's death in Xinjiang is more and more real.
Before, I attributed the source of the tragedy to Ling Yiyao's parents, who felt that they were unreasonable and refused to give the young boy who was struggling a chance.
If you look closely, you will find that in fact, it is essentially a contradiction in the ideas of the couple.
Lu Qinyang always feels: give you happiness, in order to be together.
Ling Yiyao felt: We are together, is happiness.
For a while, I also discussed this kind of problem with my boyfriend.
The boyfriend always paraphrases Gu Li's famous saying: Love without material is only like a scattered sand, no wind blowing, two steps will disperse.
Boys always use realistic rational analysis and feel that bread is the guarantee of love.
Of course, I don't deny this indisputable fact, it is really rare that girls are willing to suffer in love, but the love in bread seems to have deteriorated.
Just like Lu Qinyang in the story, he said: This golden hoop, I wear it first.
So he ran away from home and escaped again and again under such harsh conditions, just so that he could earn money to go back and marry his beloved girl;
But she didn't think about how her girl would endure the pressure step by step until she collapsed, just to wait for him to fulfill his promise.
This is the pain of lover separation, you don't know how much she needs you, and she doesn't know how much you hurt her, both of them in their respective worlds thinking they are the forgotten ones.
Most contradictions are born in this separation, and if they are close at hand, the contradictions of heaven can be resolved with a hug.
In the end, you can't protect you without wearing a golden hoop; you can't love you without wearing a golden hoop.
The reality is sometimes so helpless, loving you but not giving you what you want, and when you can give what you want, you can no longer love you as before.
Love needs companionship, and it is not advisable to seek bread without companionship.
Occasionally on TikTok brushed a girl, she said: "I am a little afraid of marriage, until once I found out that I have crow's feet, and then I sent him WeChat, he quickly replied to me: 'Oh, good coincidence, I also found out that I had a head tattoo today.' ’
He didn't judge me, he didn't say anything I didn't care about, you look good, he just accompanied me.
At that moment, I understood that the essence of love is actually companionship.
So no matter what the ending, even if I break up, I don't feel regret it, only gratitude, because he has made me a better person. ”
So what exactly is the way to love?
Some people think that love is giving each other material pleasures.
Some people believe that love is a comfort to the heart.
And I am willing to believe more girls to say, if you love me, as long as you stay by your side, single-mindedly, then all the difficulties, all the resistance girls are willing to be brave for you.
I am willing to believe that more and more girls are willing to fulfill their wishes to win the hearts of one person, and the white heads are not separated.
I prefer to believe that girls in the world just want to hold the hand of their children with their lovers and grow old with their children.
But what about reality?
The reality is that the boy thinks that with money, love will become more and more natural.
Ling Yiyao is dead, she once lived;
Lu Qinyang was dead, and he never woke up.
People always habitually throw out the word regret in the face of tragic endings to make a judgment.
So which is more regrettable, having never been together or not being able to be together in the end?
Probably never been together regrettably failed to participate in any of your joys and sorrows, failed to start, and there is no story;
In the end, they could not be together unfortunately, they had obviously integrated into each other's world, but in the end they still insisted on separating and withdrawing from each other's world.
In contrast, I hope that when Lu Qinyang and Ling Yiyao first met, they would just smile and no longer have deep friendships.
If life is only like the first sight, it is the most perfect love in the dream.
I hope that all Lu Qinyang can understand the importance of accompanying his girl, and I hope that all Ling Yiyao can also understand the boy's intentions.
And this movie is also dedicated to "every lu qinyang and Ling Yiyao who have fought against reality because of love".
I hope true love can overcome the ups and downs, a sentence I love you, it is better to be together.