Kong Rong made the story of the pear well known and was often used to teach young children. The gift of humility that young Kong Rong knew so well was really lovely, and it was indeed worth learning from future generations.
Nowadays, most of today's children are pampered and self-respecting. When distributing pears, there is often a "pear war", so the "act of making pears" should become more popular. Knowing etiquette and etiquette is a compulsory course that we need to study in our lifetime.
Most people's impression of Kong Rong is only fixed on his childhood, but they don't understand what kind of person he grew up to be. When I was young, I had such extraordinary insights, and when I grew up, I naturally had a person who made a difference.
Kong Rong, who is listed as the "Seven Sons of Jian'an", is also a generation of wind and bone scribes, and he does not bend the heart to meet the greeting, but adheres to morality all his life. Repeatedly colliding with Cao Cao, he finally became a thorn in Cao Cao's eye, and Cao Cao only wanted to find a good time to put him in his place and then quickly.
When Kong Rong was accused of several crimes by the Nine Tribes, he only begged Cao Cao to spare his young son, but he did not want his son, who was only nine years old, and said a sentence that made him cry: "There are eggs under the nest!" ”
The child intended to tell his father that he no longer had to intercede with Cao Cao, and that he knew that he would not be able to escape death. It can be seen that the wisdom of the child is like the four-year-old Kong Rong. Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and if Kong Rong's son is raised and raised, he will certainly become a rare talent.
The Book of later Han records: "Kong Rong, Ziwenju, Lu Guoren, Confucius XX Sun Ye." ”
Kong Rong was a descendant of Confucius, the founder of Confucianism, after the famous door, so he was indoctrinated by Confucianism since he was a child and was known as a neighbor for filial piety.
When he was four years old, he shared pears with his brothers and ate them. But he chose the youngest one, and the elders asked him why, but he said that because he was young, he should take the smallest pear.
Kong Rong's move has attracted the praise of many people, and he not only knows courtesy, but also has a deeper filial piety.
At the age of thirteen, his father died of illness.
The young Kong Rong was very sad and needed to be helped by others to walk. So his filial piety became more prominent, and it was also after the death of his father that he and his mother and brother depended on each other.
At the age of sixteen, another thing happened. One day, Kong Rong's brother Kong Rong went out with something. At this time, a panicked-looking man came to him, because he was wanted by the government, so he wanted to seek Kong Zhao's protection and avoid the limelight.
However, Kong Rong was not at home, Kong Rong thought twice, because this man was his brother's friend, so Kong Rong still took him in for his brother, but he did not want to, there was no impermeable wall in the world, and the government soon knew.
Kong Rong was charged with harboring criminals and arrested. But he took all the blame and said he had nothing to do with anyone.
In the end, because this man was a friend of Kong Bao, he was convicted of the crime. However, Kong Rong's name is therefore more distant.
Kong Rong was born in Shuxiang mendi, and was gifted and studious from an early age. After Emperor Xian of Han succeeded to the throne, he was reused. He was not afraid of the powerful, and often recorded corrupt officials in the register, thus offending a group of people from aristocratic origins.
He also once quarreled with Dong Zhuo, who was in charge of the officialdom, and was finally hated by Dong Zhuo and joined forces with a group of ministers to demote Kong Rong. It can be said that Kong Rong is not suitable for dealing with the officialdom, he threatens the "piece of cake" of the noble officials and eunuchs, and invisibly announces his future fate.
To put it nicely, Kong Rong is a clear stream of officials and eunuchs and aristocrats who dare to speak out. To put it mildly, he is like a "second son" in the official arena who hides the killing machine. Kong Rong's "dare to speak" laid the foundation for his future ending.
"Holding the Son of Heaven hostage to order the princes" refers to Cao Cao's abduction of Emperor Xian of Han, and his move caused Kong Rong's dissatisfaction and disdain. As a result, Kong Rong often impeached Cao Cao above the court, so that Cao Cao could not come to the table.
Cao Cao once issued a prohibition order, so Kong Rong immediately wrote an article satirizing Cao Cao. In the article, it is written that there is not a single person who wants to achieve great things who do not drink alcohol, and Cao Cao's prohibition of alcohol is a very foolish act.
When Cao Cao found out, of course, he was furious and hated Kong Rong so much that he gritted his teeth.
Later, Cao Cao and his son Cao Pi simultaneously fell in love with Yuan Shaomei's daughter-in-law Zhen Ji. Kong Rong immediately wrote another article to tease Cao Cao. This undoubtedly incited the anger in Cao Cao's heart.
It was said that the curse came out of the mouth, and Kong Rong's repeated actions gradually awakened the hidden killing heart in Cao Cao's heart. Cao Cao had been struggling to find a reason to kill this unscrupulous Kong Rong, eager to kill him quickly.
So how did Cao Cao finally kill Kong Rong?
It is said that Kong Rong once put forward a "theory of parental unengiving", and also said that there is no grace between parents and children, and children are only the product of parents' pleasure. He would rather give food to strangers than to his parents.
Whether this absurd statement is kong Rong said or not, there is no way for future generations to verify. People couldn't believe that Kong Rong, who had known righteousness and filial piety since childhood, could utter such a disrespectful word. Whether it was cao cao who forced him to commit the crime, we have no way of knowing.
Cao Cao grabbed Kong Rong's pigtails, believing that his remarks were no different from killing his father and mother, and violated traditional moral concepts. So he executed Kong Rong on the charge of "filial piety.".
Before Kong Rong's death, he had been working against Cao Cao and had asked Cao Cao to spare his young son. But the child said, "There are eggs under the nest!" Kong Rong burst into tears.
I don't know if Kong Rong was remorseful in his heart at this time, his family and bloodline were destroyed overnight.
When we look back on Kong Rong's life, we will always be surprised by his wise words when he was four years old, and we will be amazed by his filial piety and righteousness. However, he was really not suitable for being an official in the imperial court, in that era, the officials and eunuchs were the core forces in the imperial court, and who was really clean.
Compared with Qu Yuan, who was "turbid in the whole world and I am alone", Kong Rong's fate was nothing more absurd and worse. However, if we look at his life, the failure of his life is still attributed to the word "evil comes out of the mouth".
As an official in the DPRK, he did not know how to restrain his own cool words, he was not in a high position, and there was no backer behind him to rely on. Still fearlessly offending the powerful and powerful, really when they have nine lives?
Perhaps at the moment of his death, his heart was full of remorse, because his own cool words finally killed the family. In the chaotic world, even if you are not accustomed to being a dynasty, you should know how to protect yourself and think about protecting your family.
Whether Kong Rong, who has read poetry books, has forgotten a truth, everything should be thought twice before action, and the disaster comes out of the mouth. Future generations should also learn from his life's lessons.