In the long river of history, there are admirable loyal people, there are despicable villains, there are affectionate and dedicated Confucian men, there are gentle and virtuous intelligent women, there are legends who have made great contributions, and there are also obscure people in the city. Everyone has their own advantages, but also have a few shortcomings, because no one is perfect, we should look at them from many angles, take their essence, and remove their dross.
Speaking of ancient feudal society, the most obvious thing is that women have no human rights status, and the woman we are talking about today is "Women's Training", a book that often appears in costume TV series, so who is the author of this book?
A generation of talented women, two loves.
Li Wan (李婉), courtesy name Shuwen, was a famous talented woman during the Wei and Jin dynasties, with a gentle personality, and was the ex-wife of Jia Chong, a powerful minister of the Western Jin Dynasty. When you first got married, just like other loving couples, when you write, I grind ink, and when you paint, I write. When you play the piano, I dance, what a beautiful picture. If time stops at this second, it is a beautiful picture forever. It was a good time like this for a few years, and I also had two lovely children. The weather was unpredictable, the situation was turbulent at that time, Li Wan's father Li Feng, wanted to unite with Empress Zhang's father Zhang Ji and kill Sima Shi, at that time the Sima family had great power and military power in hand, how could they plan successfully, and later planned to leak secrets, the consequences must be killed. Naturally, he was also tired of his daughter's exile. On the eve of the exile in Lelang County, Li Wan and Jia Chong also made a joint sentence, including the following sentence: "The great righteousness is the same as the glue paint, and the bandit stone is unswerving." People who do not worry about the end, the sun and the moon have a separation. The heart of my heart is reached, and the heart of the son is known to me. If you can not break your word, it is appropriate to be with the king. It can be seen that Jia Chong at this time is still clinging to her and full of affection.
Things are not human, let go of the past.
Later, Sima Yan ascended the throne and pardoned the world, and Li Wan was able to return, but Jia Chong had already married the domineering and powerful Guo Huai, how could Guo Huai let her come back. Later, Li Wan's daughter Jia Zhen was Sima Youzheng the Prince of Qi, and repeatedly pleaded with the emperor, thinking of letting his father take back his mother, and got the emperor's approval, but in the end, because Jia Chong was afraid of Guo Huai, Li Wan could not return to Jia Province and could only live outside. Guo Huai also went to Li Wan's residence many times, warned her not to think anything about her husband, humiliated her, but Li Wan did not care about these, her children were safe and sound, life was happy, she could return to her hometown after exile, she could also read and write articles, it was already very rare, although she met a scumbag who liked the new and hated the old, but fate This kind of thing cannot be forced, it is not a plain life.
Cherish life and write books for women.
In the warm afternoon of winter, boiling a pot of tea, folding a plum blossom, smelling plum fragrance, thinking about the pain he suffered on the way to exile, now life is so comfortable, it is also a kind of happiness to see his daughter and grandson from time to time. In his spare time, he wrote some of his own life experiences, life insights, and from time to time taught his daughter how to be a virtuous woman, over time, he wrote eight "canonical styles" ("Notes on the World" quoted "Women's Collection", also known as "Women's Training"), when Li Wan wrote these mainly for the two daughters to see, let them tolerate the stepmother, do not hate others because she remembers, and run their own family well. Who in history wrote the first women's training is still quite controversial.
The situation is turbulent, the vicissitudes of the sea, the husband who used to love her deeply, has long become her beloved. The figure of frequent copying, the loneliness of writing books at night, who can understand?