An 80-year-old man in Nanyang, Henan Province, braved the cold wind and used a small piece of transparent plastic sheet to block the wind and rain, pulled a scooter every day, hiked for miles, and sold peanut oil to feed a family of 5.
The old man's son-in-law died of cancer last year, leaving behind three young children, one of whom is autistic, and rehabilitation costs a lot.
The daughter takes care of the children at home, the old man earns some money by planting land and selling grain, and now that the weather is cold, he can't stay at home for the winter.
This video has cried a lot of people, if the old man's family conditions are better, he can also enjoy his old age, and now, how long will it take for such a day, you can't see the head, you can also know the ending.
Recently watched the TV series "Xiao Min's Family", in which Wang Sumin chose to live in a nursing home, and the life of this old man and Wang Sumin is very different.
This contrast also reminds me of a sentence: the face of an adult is supported by money.
1. Unable to repay debts, they can only hide in Tibet
Li Yaping played by Tu Yansong before, which makes people hate to itch their teeth, many people say that men like Li Yaping are not suitable for marriage, and they can live with their parents for a lifetime.
In "Xiao MinJia", jin bo and Li Yaping, who he played, also had a fight, although the roles were different, but the two roles had one thing in common: poor.
Jin Bo owed a lot of debts in his hometown, and in order to escape the debt collectors, he ran to Beijing, but he did not expect those people to run to Beijing.
The conditions of Jin Bo's family were good at the beginning, and Wang Sumin let Xiao Min marry him, also because his family conditions were good. Now, he was in debt, and no one could look down on him, not even Wang Sumin.
Although his debts are self-inflicted, if he succeeds in his investment, even if he is a former son-in-law, Wang Sumin's attitude towards him will definitely be different.
When he first arrived in Beijing, he couldn't even afford to pay for the hotel, and he also let his son earn money to help him pay off his debts, so that the audience shouted: Jin Bo, you go offline!
Jin Bo went to the nursing home as a cook, and the money earned was enough to spend, and everyone's attitude towards him was obviously much better, at least people were willing to look at him.
2, rich, you are a "quality man"
Among boys of marriageable age, especially when it comes to blind dates, good conditions are indeed a very plus.
Xu zheng is pursuing Liu Xiaojie, does Liu Xiaojie really like him? At least at the beginning, I didn't like it, but Xu Zheng's luxury sports car, big screen confession, expensive takeaway... These things really made Liu Xiaojie look at him differently.
The boyfriend drives a sports car downstairs to pick himself up, which must be a very face-to-face thing in the eyes of many girls. The kebabs that Qian Feng bought for Liu Xiaojie and the chicken soup that Xu Zheng bought, few people will resist this temptation.
Liu Xiaojie's colleagues ate with Xu Zheng, they didn't know anything about Xu Zheng, just because he had money, everyone began to envy Liu Xiaojie, there was such a rich husband, the standard of living rose sharply.
Although acting depressingly in his feelings, in front of a stranger, the title of "rich second generation" is enough to make him sparkle.
This is the reality, in today's marriage market, the cost of marriage is also "rising", and those "high-quality men" are more likely to find a satisfactory marriage partner.
3, divorce can also love children in another way
Li Ping is a character I like more in this drama, she is really good, is a good mother, but also a good wife, very atmospheric in the world, living very freely, really admired.
Although Li Ping is divorced from Chen Zhuo, her love for Chen Jiajia is not less, although she does not live together, her concern for Jiajia is the same as before. Therefore, Chen Jiajia is not at all like a child of a divorced family, more positive and optimistic and sunny than most children.
If Li Ping didn't work and didn't earn money for Hong Wei, could she still spend so much money on Jiajia? Even if she wanted to spend money on Jiajia in her heart, she had to restrain herself.
She is very capable, and she has done a good job of "being able to become an education" with Hong Wei, and she can also make a lot of money for Hong Wei. Therefore, she spends money on Jiajia, even if Hong Wei is not happy, he will not say it explicitly.
Many divorced parents, why do they have less love for their children, no money is a very important reason, they will put limited money in the new family.
Those couples with good financial conditions divorce, most of them will raise children together, because the material foundation is good, they will have more energy to take care of the children.
4, can not afford to lose the middle-aged uncle
Chen Zhuo and Qian Feng rented 6 workstations in a shared office area, and such a small company is regarded by many as a "leather bag" company. If no one invests, their products are useless no matter how good they are.
After Hong Wei was imprisoned, Chen Zhuo's capital chain was also broken, and the company collapsed. However, he and Qian Feng were not willing to give up and wanted to fight, so they chose to work at Chen Zhuo's home for half a year, and if they couldn't do it, then completely extinguish the fire.
Chen Zhuo is 47 years old, he really can't afford to lose, but he still wants to jump again, if the business is successful, he and his father will not have to worry about the future pension, and they can also provide better material conditions for their daughters.
In addition to thinking about himself, Chen Zhuo also took risks to start a business at this age, and there was another reason, that is, for Liu Xiaomin.
Liu Xiaomin's income should be higher than his, and she is also very stable, she broke through Beijing alone, bought a two-bedroom apartment, or fine decoration, her income level must not be low.
After separating from Liu Xiaomin, he wanted to do something, and if he succeeded, he would have more courage to pursue Xiaomin.
The role of Chen Zhuo is particularly real, a middle-aged man, living on a fixed salary, hungry and rich, and does not dare to resign easily.
Once the business fails, his previous savings are gone, and it is even more difficult to find a job. Therefore, when you can fight, you should work hard, and when you regret not seizing the opportunity you once had, it is futile to be annoyed.
5. Aunt Su Min lives in a nursing home
Wang Sumin is a clear stream in the play, she is the most sober person in the play, and in her old age, she lives freely and freely, which is even more enviable.
When she was young, she worked in a factory in Jiujiang, and her retirement salary should not be enough to pay for the nursing home, and Liu Xiaomin must have given her a part.
In addition, she has a house in her hometown, she can collect rent, her two daughters can earn money, and she does not have to help her children and grandchildren, so she is still in the elderly group, the economic conditions are still OK.
Aunt Su Min lives in the nursing home, the living room conditions are good, the light is sufficient, the facilities are complete, in addition, the entertainment activities of the nursing home are also rich, and the diet is also very balanced and nutritious.
Many people feel very rejected when they mention living in nursing homes, because in the impression of many people, the conditions of nursing homes are not good, and they eat and sleep every day, which is very boring.
The kind of nursing home where Wang Sumin lives, I am afraid that many people want to live, but the cost must not be low, and the retirement salary of ordinary people is not enough. If you still need to subsidize your son, don't want to live.
6, not in a hurry, not slow Liu Xiaomin
Xiao Min came to Beijing from her hometown alone, she studied hard, and eventually became the chief nurse, which sounded very powerful.
Jin Bo is very satisfied with Liu Xiaomin's house, he said that this house is too good, yes, from the decoration and layout point of view, Liu Xiaomin's house is really good.
Before meeting Chen Zhuo, she was single, but she was not alone. I think this confidence is because of her good economic conditions, she does not have to worry about life.
A person's life is more comfortable, and you can choose to be middle and upper class in terms of food, clothing, and living. When she is old, she can also live in a nursing home with good conditions.
Liu Xiaomin is not in a hurry to find a boyfriend, because what men can give her, she can earn herself, she only needs someone who can chat and relieve boredom, so she is with Chen Zhuo and does not want to get married.
She does not want Chen Zhuo's money, because she has her own, she can come and go freely in her feelings and do not owe each other.
In today's society, many people say that women must be economically independent, which is really true, although it is too difficult to take care of family and career, but with economic conditions, the difficulty of other things will be reduced by more than half.
epilogue:
Liu Xiaomin and Li Ping, both of them are strong women, economically independent, they can live the life they want to live, love and hate decisively.
The characters in "Little Minjia", except for Jin Bo, who is like an ordinary person, the living standards of others are good. They don't have to worry about chai rice oil and salt, even if Hong Wei is in prison, Li Ping still can't see the 100,000 yuan that Jia jia gave.
Some people say that some people do their best to stay alive!
The brilliance of adults is really supported by money. However, there is another saying that is more important than making money, earning conscience money.
Yes, the life of ordinary people is like this, but it is also content, ordinary and ordinary happiness. While living the present well, we should also seize the opportunity to work hard to provide a better life for our children and make our lives easier.
Author: Muzi
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