1. There are three views of a certain degree of fit
Seek common ground while reserving differences, and become the most perfect and suitable person in each other's eyes in the process of continuous understanding, acceptance, running-in, and co-construction. And a truly long-lasting and intimate relationship definitely requires a certain degree of spiritual fit as a basis.
2, see the right eye
Looking up to each other and looking up to each other, there is no filter of "lover's eyes out of the West", but a like in the eyes of the heart, with the characteristics of mutual appreciation.
3. Run in both directions and can cherish and respond to each other's efforts
Everyone's way of giving and judging standards are different, so you can't use your own standards to measure and ask others, and truly long-term and healthy love can see, cherish each other's efforts, and respond in time.
4. Mutual understanding
Life is not smooth sailing, everyone has unsatisfactory, bad mood times, and the two people who really love each other can understand each other, when they see each other's bad emotions, the first reaction will not be "head-on confrontation" or "ignore it", but take on the role of "listener" and explain each other.
5. There will be no delay in the occurrence of contradictions, and in-depth exchanges will be carried out after the quarrels
Don't want to be crooked, it's normal to have a deep chat. The longer two people are together, the easier it is to expose shortcomings and contradictions, and the more exposed they are, and it is very normal to quarrel, but after the quarrel, they will open their hearts to communicate, pour out their needs and grievances, point out each other's shortcomings, reflect on their shortcomings, and avoid repeating the same mistakes next time.
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6, all want to make each other happy
While you are happy, you want each other to be happy. Pay for the other party from the heart, willingly do something for the other party, rather than because of the other party's requirements, and truly achieve the same joy and sorrow.
7. Strive to improve yourself
There will be no jealousy or inferiority because the other party is better than themselves, but at the same time, encourage the other party, strive to improve themselves, and complete this beautiful life in the pursuit of each other.
8. Know how to exercise restraint
Completely out of my own will, restrain my desires, for the sake of this relationship, for the sake of the other party, such as keeping a distance from other members of the opposite sex, not randomly interfering in each other's lives, and so on.
9. Mutual fulfillment
This refers to the fact that in this relationship, there is no match or not, who is more important, but in front of outsiders, they will think about each other's face and name the brothers who are "strict with their wives" online.
10, do not hesitate to express love to each other
Love is not obscure, two people who really love each other will never be stingy to express their love to each other, nor will they care about the eyes of others, love is a matter for two people, love is when it should be vigorous, it is like a fire, it is like a trickle when it is flat.
Here it is recommended that brothers usually create small surprises and small romances for girls, such as sending small gifts and flowers, making a world for two, eating a candlelit dinner, giving more sweet words when intimate, and so on.