The article | short and long
The image | from stills from "The Perfect Partner"
Emotional types | love/family/friendship
It's another day of irresistible dog blood plot for Perfect Mate. Two families, two children, two couples.
Chen Shan and Sun Lei are a couple outside the female protagonist and the male protagonist. Two people, there is a small pet to large, lively and cheerful, outgoing daughter jumping.
Lin Qingkun and Wu Min are a couple with a male protagonist and a female protagonist. Two people, one who has been overprotected by his mother since childhood, Wen Jingmune, and an introverted and timid son JingJing.
Children are good friends, and the other half of each other, because of work and children, often keep in touch with each other's other half.
Watching Lin Qingkun send messages to Chen Shan in the middle of the night, Wu Min sent a message to Sun Lei. Chen Shan said goodnight to Lin Qingkun, and Sun Lei said goodnight to Wu Min.
Chen Shan suddenly fell ill and fainted, and it was Lin Qingkun who sent her to the hospital. However, wu min encountered difficulties and asked for help, but it was Sun Lei.
The intricate relationship between these four people is constantly rational and chaotic, and it is extremely tangled to see the melon-eating masses.
Otherwise, the four of you pull together in a group, and there is something to talk about directly in the group.
It is not only bright and upright, but also ensures the timeliness of news exchange. If there is any problem, there is also an additional bystander on the side to give advice, which can be described as a lot of work.
Otherwise, it is the current situation. Is it so difficult to let this one by one in the play stay away from other people's husbands and wives and maintain the sense of boundaries that adults should have in their interactions?
Because Chen Shan and Lin Qingkun are both focused on the workplace, they are relatively rational. Neither partner showed friendship beyond the border until the parties divorced.
When it comes to the sense of boundary, the first to bear the brunt are Sun Lei and Wu Min. One is a warm heart that has nowhere to stay, and the other is a beautiful woman who needs to be relied on.
Not to mention the first meeting, Sun Lei handed Wu Min paper towels, bought water, and twisted the bottle cap. Maybe it's just because of Sun Lei's helpfulness and gudao hot sausage.
Not to mention that Sun Lei and Wu Min took the children to the swimming pool together, in addition to teaching the children, they also personally taught Wu Min to swim.
After all, there are many other children's moms and dads too.
However, when the respective partners are visibly dissatisfied with the fact that two people are too close. Whether or not, due attention should be paid to the distance and sense of proportion to each other.
When the kindergarten encountered Wu Min's son who was unwilling to go home with the nanny, he could not call his father and let the child pick him up by himself.
It's no problem to help send your child home, you can't just send it and leave. I had to take advantage of the fact that other people's husbands were not at home to boil brown sugar water for other people's wives who were small-born.
In fact, for Sun Lei's enthusiasm, Chen Shan has always known and supported it.
Therefore, as long as Sun Lei maintains a sense of boundaries and informs Chen Shan, there will not be too much of a problem.
After all, when the two people met Wu Min together in the cold wind downstairs waiting to pick up their son and take him home. It was Chen Shan who proposed to send a warm little blanket to the other party.
Wu Min, who encountered a hypoglycemic attack outside the school, also Chen Shan took the candy and went to help Wu Min relieve her discomfort.
Wu Min's side, because he has been alone with his son for many years, has never asked for help from her husband. Meeting the warm-hearted Sun Lei is like encountering a life-saving straw.
When running a custody class to write an enrollment brochure, I did not ask for help from my husband, did not ask for help from my sister, but went to find Sun Lei, because the success rate was the highest.
After all, the first two people will reject her because they are too busy at work, while Sun Lei will not.
When choosing furniture did not know how to choose, obviously her husband went home, and he did not want to consult with him, but chose to ask for Sun Lei's opinion.
Don't look at the yellow calendar before moving, don't look for a regular large moving company, and don't even look at the weather forecast.
I had to move on a rainy day, and I was put on a halfway, trapped on the road, and almost delayed the time to pick up my children from school.
In this case, instead of calling your own husband for help, you call someone else's husband. Thanks to Chen Shan's good temper, this must be replaced by someone else, and it is not allowed to scold.
Wu Min and Sun Lei are not people with corrupt moral character, as parents of students, they have become ordinary friends with each other, and there is no problem in helping each other when necessary.
But it's important to understand that we are both people with families. When you come into contact with your other half, you still have to pay attention to a sense of proportion.
It is difficult for a clean official to break the housework, whose wife is distressed, do not participate too much in other people's housework.
It's okay to help, but don't overstep your bounds. It's okay to come up with ideas, but don't make decisions for others. Good intentions can also be bad, and it is too late to be careful.