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"Perfect Partner" is about to end, and the female compatriots around them have lost their good feelings for the middle-aged woman and man Sun Lei, but they also vaguely want such a good man who takes care of the family. To the overlord Lin Qingkun, hate and like, the love and hate of human nature is really not absolute!
But if you have to choose one of them as a husband, I think it is better to choose Lin Qingkun, because Lin Qingkun is saltable and sweet, and Sun Lei? It can only be sweet, not salt.
No one is perfect, everyone understands, but in life, we still need to be husbands and have some career responsibilities for the family.
There are many problems in Lin Qingkun's body, but compared with Sun Lei, it is still many times stronger, not because I am a yan control, too like Wang Qingyao caused, allow me to pull out one by one than to compare with you, you will be clear.
01. Lin Qingkun is willing to fight, while Sun Lei only wants to relax
Lin Qingkun's hard work allows Wu Min not to worry about money. At this point, it is already much better than Chen Shan,losing her job while pregnant with her second child.
Finally, when Chen Shan found out that Sun Lei had quit a high-paying job of 2 million yuan and secretly went to work at the family planning station, she was angry and aborted.
Sun Lei is used to mixing up the days, there is no bit of professional ethics, as soon as there is something at home, he will wander when he goes to work, and even several family planning supplies can make mistakes many times.
Some people say that Sun Lei was not originally quite powerful? Yes, with that aura of the past, we say that Sun Lei at that time was able to retreat in a rapids, just to complete Chen Shan's career, which is a pattern, but the premise is that you must have the strength to go up to the top now! When the wife can't do it, when you let you go up, you have to go up!
Even though Sun Lei may be used to a comfortable life, he will not be able to change it for a while and a half, but he can't always change it, from Sun Lei's repeated unemployment later, you can see that Sun Lei really does not have much ability, and at the same time does not have the most basic self-motivation.
Therefore, Chen Shan desperately did not even dare to rest when pregnant, 2 million yuan of mortgage Chen Shan repaid, the car Chen Shan bought, even sun Lei lent out the money is also earned by Chen Shan, poor Chen Shan, once felt that his success is dependent on the completion of her husband, Sun Lei is very indebted, in fact? In fact, Sun Lei likes not to work and work as a family cook.
And Wu Min in the play, the reason why she thinks Sun Lei is good, is that she did not live with such a man, and so really lived together, when even the children's tuition can not be paid, she knows Lin Qingkun's good.
Lin Qingkun, one second and Wu Min quarreled, the next second after the phone rang, he was immediately able to switch states, emotionally stable to get the tedious work, such a man, really like a wolf in the workplace, you follow him, there will always be meat to eat.
And the boss let go of the pigeons, he did not give himself the opportunity to be depressed, quickly looking for the next customer, even if hungry, he also had to accompany the customer to play golf and pull feelings.
This dare to fight the heart, so that Wu Min can have leisure to think that he is happy or unhappy, think Lin Qingkun has not put her in the eyes, from Wu Min's point of view, that is just needed, but the women off the screen, but they all think Wu Min is too pretentious, a husband, there is no outsider in the eyes, the money earned is given to you, to this home, you also want him to be able to earn around you every day, to provide you with emotional value, are you not too greedy?
Speaking of Sun Lei, when he has not yet earned money, he dares to buy a luxury car that exceeds the family budget, and also pats his chest to let Chen Shan raise a fetus at home, saying that he will fight in the future.
As a result, I lost 2 million jobs in only 3 days, how unreliable it is! For the sake of face, in order to fight for a breath, they consume things that they can't afford, but they can't afford the pressure brought by such an economic position, and later they still use coaxing to deal with their wives, such men, do not break up and still keep the New Year?
Venus said:
"Love can be talked about without life, but marriage is not, marriage is life." 」
Yes, no strong woman can tolerate a man who can't stand up for a lifetime, and being with Sun Lei is not only tired, but also tired.
Not only to give him the basket to clean up the aftermath, but also to desperately earn money to ensure the family's expenses, while carefully taking care of his self-esteem, thinking about it is a headache.
Women marry, do not want to be rich and noble, at least to ensure that they are worry-free, open their eyes is a bunch of trouble caused by men, that is really not as good as a person!
02. Lin Qingkun has a strong ability to solve problems and can carry clearly; Sun Lei is too emotional
At work, Lin Qingkun does not need Wu Min to worry, when encountering marriage problems, Lin Qingkun does not have the confidence of the fans of the men, or simply ignores his wife.
After having a conflict with Wu Min because of the small sugar pill, Lin Qingkun first arranged the work and immediately bought gifts for Wu Min to atone for his crime.
Years of housewife life have made Wu Min sensitive and worried, and she can't see Lin Qingkun's dedication and tolerance.
Knowing that Wu Min wanted to run a custody class, Lin Qingkun mobilized resources and handled the certificate for her. I have been in the office, I know how troublesome it is to get a certificate, and when I see this, I am very envious of Wu Min.
Sun Lei, the subordinate made a mistake, he backed the pot, but let Chen Shan pay money to plug the hole. After carelessly blowing up the laboratory, for the sake of face, he promised the company's sky-high compensation.
After Chen Shan lowered the compensation for him, he not only was not grateful, but also blamed Chen Shan for not saving face for him and for losing his temper and wanting a divorce.
When encountering things, Sun Lei is like a helpless child, not only has no ability to solve problems, but also acts as a wrongdoer for the dead ghost over and over again. Chen Shan can't make any more money, and she can't stand him so hooray!
After Wu Min miscarried, he roared for divorce, Lin Qingkun agreed in a negative mood, and after his son was lost, he took the initiative to say that he was unwilling to give up his family.
If Wu Min has half of Chen Shan's perception, he can also comfort Lin Qingkun when he digs his heart, and then guide this man who has lacked love since childhood, maybe Lin Qingkun will become better.
Also suffering from divorce, Lin Qingkun did not wander during the work like Sun Lei. He knows how to stop losses in time and continue to work seriously. Even if the stomach pain was so bad that he couldn't stand up straight, Lin Qingkun didn't want to take a break.
And Chen Shan's father was hospitalized, Sun Lei did not tell the leader clearly and left the post without authorization, resulting in the loss of the work of the family planning station, so dedicated to his father-in-law, Sun Lei's realm is indeed high, but there is no need to lose the job, there is no need to be close to everything! You can ask the nurse!
After giving Wu Min's sister Wu You as a driver, Sun Lei could not grow a wisdom when he ate a trench, and only had children in his mind. If it were not for the problem of the spirit of the experts Wu Youzhao, it is estimated that Sun Lei's driver career would have been cool.
There's a quote in Divorce Lawyer that says it rightly:
"To fall in love is to fall in love with a person's strengths, and to talk about marriage is to live with a person's shortcomings."
Marrying a man with fatal flaws is tantamount to asking for pleasure, but sadly the other party can't see his own problems and change them without changing!
Minglan said:
"After staying with people for decades, we still have to see if we can bear it at the lowest place."
Sun Lei's lowest point is that there is no man's responsibility, which is too deadly.
Compared with Lin Qingkun, Sun Lei's biggest problem is: emotional things. People in this world want to talk about feelings, but they must also talk about priorities, they can't be emotional, and the blood in the brain is gushing upwards, in that case, things may not be done well, and if they are not done well, they will be complained about.
To tell the truth, Chen Shan's father was seriously ill, and Chen Shan's mother was not in a hurry, so how could it be Sun Lei's turn? And Sun Lei and Chen Shan are in the divorce period, Sun Lei can visit ah! Even if he wants to help, someone will have to ask him, and it is not too late for him to contribute! No matter how busy Chen Shan is, her mother doesn't care, she can also find someone to handle it! There is no need to let him rush ahead! Therefore, you can say that Sun Lei is a good person, but you also have to see his problems, he regards the emotional needs of every relative around him as his unshirkable responsibility, such a person will really make people feel that he is irrational and has no self.
03. Mei Niang said
I know that there is a problem:
Why do most women want to marry rich men?
At the bottom, a high-ranking answer pointed out the truth:
"It's very important for a man to have money, not because of the money itself, but because of the qualities he possesses as a rich man."
A rich man will never use his work as a pastime like Sun Lei, leaving his family exhausted and dragged down for a lifetime.
And marrying someone like Lin Qingkun, the excellent quality behind him is more precious than money itself! While providing a stable life for the family, it can also bring promotion and assistance to the partner, and the cost performance is the highest!
Don't think that mentioning money is a blasphemy of love, a long-lasting win-win relationship, and let both parties enjoy the pleasure of emotional flow.
Anyway, I chose Lin Qingkun, no doubt, if you choose, which of them will be your husband?
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