"How do you remember me, with a smile or a lot of silence", for those we loved, how will we remember them in the days to come; with a smile, or with tears, or silence?
In fact, many times, it is not that we do not love, but some reasons that are powerless to resist, so we give up love and abandon our original intention.
For those who once loved each other unforgettablely, many things are slowly forgotten with the passage of time. But there is one thing that most people can't forget, and that is the day when we share a bed and mingle with each other. In this life, we have loved, slept, and forget it. The inability to resist and struggle will only make us more miserable with each other.
Loved, slept is worth it, from now on two wide, no longer cling to the yesterday that can not go back.
Some people say that if you want to read a woman's heart, just look at Jia Pingwa's "Temporary Sitting", which writes twelve women, representing twelve personalities, they are all bright and beautiful in appearance, but in the face of interests, they have become indifferent, are they hugging for warmth, or are they dirty inside? Eva is a Russian innocent and lively, Xia Zihua is handsome and graceful, Ying Lihou owns 23 properties, typical of a rich woman.
Xu Qi and Si Yinan have homosexual tendencies, but they are willing to degenerate, Yu Benwen, who opened a hot pot restaurant, lost himself in the left and right hopes, Yan Nianchu, the owner of the medical device company, also became a chip in the hands of men for the sake of interests, the owner of the car store, Xi Lishui, also fell into the whirlpool for love, the story of opening the terahertz energy cabin made people sigh, the rebellion of Xin Qi, the cowardice of Feng Ying, and the female boss of the tea house, Hai Ruo, the most heart-wrenching and sad.
The twelve women are known as the Twelve Nobles of Jinling, but they cannot escape the shackles of fate. They gathered in the tea house, seemingly hugging each other for warmth, enjoying free high-end tea and drinking Coca-Cola without money. You can also recognize the elite of the upper class through your connections, and sell your dignity and self through trading. The most important thing they need when they get together is money, and the reason why they are separated is also because they are running for profit.
What tests people's hearts is never because of loneliness, but the trade-off of interests. A change is like a fuse, the attitude of twelve women, too real, let people really overwhelmed after watching. What about the sincerity of the good feelings? What about good solidarity? Vulnerable to interests and reality, what destroys them is not because of accidents, but the indifference of people's hearts.
Jia Pingwa's "Temporary Sitting" has written out human nature and written the inner demons of women, in fact, everyone's life is like a temporary sitting, you come, I am gone, are all passers-by in life. Even if you swear an oath and have a deep affection, you can't escape the mistake of fate. Loved, slept, what can you do? Life is a journey, it is a temporary sitting.
Life is short, no one can get rid of the shackles of fate, why not open your heart to meet the imperfections in life? Why not look open and get out of the quagmire of life? In fact, there are you and me in "Temporary Sitting", it is recommended to look at this book, everyone will have something to gain. While understanding the true meaning of life, it allows you to improve the pattern and broaden your mind. Don't let your mind be buried in the dust and have time to sit down.
The above story comes from Jia Pingwa's second classic novel with the theme of modern cities, "Temporary Sitting". Based on the ancient capital of Xi'an, the book depicts the group portraits of twelve urban women in Xijing City. This "Xijing Twelve Jade" is dying and struggling in real life, facing the stereotypes and pressures from male society, they snuggle up to each other spiritually for warmth, but they are forced to calculate each other, and in the end, the birds are thrown into the forest, leaving the love affairs of men and women in the trance realm alone, which is elusive and emotional.
The inspiration for the book "Temporary Sitting" comes from Jia Pingwo's personal experience, when Jia Pingwo went out to find inspiration after achieving great success with the "Shang Zhou Literature Series". By chance, he walked into a tea house called "Temporary Sitting", the owner of which was a single woman with a variety of styles, and she had eleven caring sisters.
Jia Pingwo had inspiration, and in order to have a deep contact with these twelve women, he often visited this tea house. Gradually, Jia Pingwo found that although these women were bright and beautiful on the outside and the sisters had deep feelings for each other, in fact, they all had their own secrets that they were ashamed to talk about, and they also used each other to calculate each other.
They will sell their bodies and souls for profit and vanity, and they will also sell their "good sisters" in order to maintain their material lives. Jia Pingwo saw from them the sense of emptiness and numbness brought by the flashy big city, and he felt more deeply how terrifying the dark side of society and human nature was. After that, the tea house was closed due to some unknowable secrets, and the 12 women scattered away, their whereabouts unknown.
Jia Pingwa felt a lot of emotions in his heart, he began to write this "Temporary Sitting" with a pen, this book from an unexpected creative spirit felt that it took a total of 12 years to write a book, 10 years for social exploration with women in the tea house, 2 years of retreat writing, before and after refining 4 times before finally publishing and distributing.
When you read "Temporary Sitting", don't be blinded by the superficial phenomena of materialism in the book, and you can't just look at the unsightly carnal desires and rebellions described in the book. This is a microcosm of society: single rich women, small white-collar workers, operators, and small people in the city seem to be immersed in a sea of wandering desires, which are mixed with countless trading transactions, male and female delusions, and they are all written by Jia Pingwo's pen.
As soon as "Temporary Sitting" was released, in just three months, it won the annual sales championship of novels, and also won the "Monthly Good Book List" for many consecutive times, and also won the title of "Best Novel of the Year".
People's life is very short, and the things that seem to be very concerned are actually not important, the so-called life does not bring death and does not bring.
I have watched "Temporary Sitting" many times, and every time I watch it, I will have a different feeling. When I first watched it, my heart did beat faster; when I looked at it again, I saw the depths of the women's hearts; after reading it a few more times, I felt as if I was in the book.
If you think about it, life is only a few decades, it is just a "temporary sitting", when you are confused, you can follow the original intention.