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The public knows that Jia Pingwa is good at writing men, and many novels written from a male perspective are straightforward and thorough.
As everyone knows, Jia Pingwo is better at writing about women, especially after his experience has grown, he has portrayed all kinds of women's images in his pen vividly and abnormally.
Just as Jia Pingwa's "Temporary Sitting" focuses on more than a dozen female characters, each of them is different, but there are some commonalities, and from the stories that happened to them, there are always many beneficial views.
Whenever I mention attractive women, as the name suggests, I mean those women who are full of attraction. They may have outstanding appearances that can make people fall in love at first sight, or they may have feminine and moving postures that people will never forget.
But in Jia Pingwa's works, these characteristics are too easy to obtain and are not scarce values, so this superficial attraction is like a multicolored smoke cloud in the evening, ethereal, and soon dissipated.
There are more than a dozen sisters in "Temporary Sitting", who make a living from the business of tea houses, but most of them also own their own real estate, in addition to a few other postures, at least have the advantages of economic independence.
But even so, their fate is still covered with dark clouds, and even some of them go straight downhill, until they go astray and are overwhelmed by water.
Such a woman is obviously not attractive, and only men with low vision will be attracted to this kind of woman. Men who really have a pattern will only look at whether women have the following three top charms.
One: Keep a clear head, have your own principles and bottom line, and cannot be violated
In this world of random flowers and charming eyes, keeping your mind clear is a very important and very difficult thing, especially for those young and beautiful women.
After all, they face too many temptations every day, and they receive ten times more tests than ordinary people.
In the novel "Temporary Sitting", the eldest sister of more than a dozen sisters is named Hai Ruo, who often imagines a better future with everyone, they are not satisfied with the status quo, and look forward to living a life of gold and jade food as soon as possible.
In order to make his fantasy come true as soon as possible, Hai Ruo and his sisters gradually lost their principles and bottom lines.
Every day in the tea house, Hai Ruo carefully observes every customer who comes and goes, afraid of missing any opportunity. When she finds men who are rich and powerful and have use value, she will use her beauty to get closer to men.
Over time, Hai Ruo already has a strong enough force behind her, she uses all her connections to collude with others to do things that violate principles, but she did not expect that in the end, the deeds were leaked, and Hai Ruo ended up with a missing end.
Looking back at Hai Ruo's half life and her life trajectory, she originally had a medium-to-high wealth accumulation, as well as objective financial resources, and the income of the tea house could fully ensure that she had no worries about food and clothing.
But people's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, Hai Ruo thinks that what she has is far from enough, so in order to get more, she personally destroys her bottom line, does things against her conscience, and buries her own life with her own hands.
As Jia Pingwo wrote in the book:
"The more desire you have, the heavier your body is, and your feet are stained with mud, and you can't fly into the sky."
Women must remain sober in this society and stick to their principles and bottom lines in order to gain respect, otherwise the more greedy they are, the easier it is to fail.
Two: Maintain spiritual independence, do not cling to and flatter men
If a beautiful woman only wants to live dependent on a man, then this woman loses all her luster and becomes dim at that moment.
In the eyes of well-informed men, beauty and youth are the most attractive things, and they are also the most devaluable things.
Mature men, necessarily realistic enough, they will not invest too much in things that are easy to depreciate, often they are good at the harvest, and the women who can make them spend a lot of effort to chase must be able to maintain spiritual independence.
They have their own dignity and confidence, and they are never willing to cling to and flatter men.
Xin Qi in the story is a woman with a lot of small calculations in her heart, and from the moment she stepped into the city of Shanghai, she was thinking about how to take root here. When she entered the tea house, she began to think about how to meet more powerful people so that she could ascend to the sky one step at a time.
Xin Qi believed that the first step to staying in Shanghai completely was to turn herself into a person with a Shanghai hukou, so she waited for the opportunity and finally met a local public official.
Although the man's income is not high, his status as a public official is enough to help him fulfill his first dream.
Xin Qi married the man as she wished, becoming a shanghainese through and through, and then she began to plan her next step. Introduced by the other sisters, she met a well-known local rich businessman, and in order to climb the other party's relationship as soon as possible, Xin Qi became pregnant with the rich businessman's child.
However, life is not like an idol drama, and the rich businessman did not marry Xin Qi to enter the door because of a child, but still ruthlessly cut off the relationship between the two.
Xin Qi divorced her husband, was abandoned by a rich businessman, and finally left empty-handed and did not catch anything.
How could Xin Qi understand that the rich businessman looked down on a woman like her from the bottom of his heart, and that successful men were surrounded by many warblers and swallows, and he would only regard them as a pastime.
Women must have their own independent personality spirit, do not try to attach to anyone.
Three: Maintain the maturity of the three views, and will not easily lose yourself
Women must have mature three views of blessing, so as not to go the wrong way, the three views of mature women, will have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, will live according to their own insistence.
The sisters in the tea house just don't have their own discernment and live a life of going with the flow. Seeing that other women are trying their best to live a luxurious life, and doing the same thing themselves, they have no ability to predict the future, nor do they envision the consequences of doing so.
The correct three views are like high beams lit up in the fog, helping you to guide the way forward and so that you will not lose yourself.
If Xin Qi understands that there is no white pie in the sky, he will not go to a fallen life; if Hai Ruo knows how to be full of happiness, he will not lose everything because of greed.
The sisters in the tea house, if they had the guidance of the mature three views, could have lived a rich and happy life by their own ability.
After reading Jia Pingwa's "Temporary Sitting", you will have a new understanding of the charm of women, attractive women are not only advantages in appearance, but inner spiritual wealth and mature soul.
And all this must start from reading, the more you read, the more transparent you live.
Recommend Jia Pingwa's work "Temporary Sitting" to everyone, after reading, you will have a new thinking about your life.
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