#Meizhou headlines #Pressing old money such as practice questions, how to do it? Director Zhou encountered a problem and asked me for advice... The world's guest capital, longevity Meizhou. Pressing the age of money is a problem, and every household has it. Twenty-nine years old

#Meizhou headlines #Pressing old money such as practice questions, how to do it? Director Zhou encountered a problem and asked me for advice...

The world's guest capital, longevity Meizhou. Pressing the age of money is a problem, and every household has it.

Year 29, it rains. After playing table tennis in the arena, Director Zhou wanted to drive me home. Sitting in the co-pilot's seat, I pondered, the driver is in charge, then the chief is me, according to this cost performance, convert it, what level is my official rank equivalent to at this time?

I remember that many years ago, when I was also twenty-ninth year old, There was Hu Zhengtuan, who had been transferred from the army, riding a bicycle to take me, and told me that Mao Jiawan was the deputy commander to guard the door, and the rank was the level of the main battalion.

I'm spinning it over. Zhou Ju interrupted the train of thought and said, something to ask me, he sent an 800 yuan red envelope (now no one said to press the old money) to the uncle, the other party only received 200 yuan, returned 600 yuan, to forward my parents, I confiscated his money, right?

I replied without thinking, yes, yes! May be influenced by traditional inertial thinking, the leader has always been correct, such a small matter, the director can still deal with it wrong? Right! He asked, again, why? You explain.

Yeah, it's uh-huh, uh-huh, so, so. Ma's, I only remember at that time, I explained the head of the Tao, Director Zhou, he was also convinced. Looking back now, how I explained it at that time, I was completely unimpressed ha.

I thought about it in hindsight, no. The director said that you gave 800 yuan to your uncle, your mother's brother. Your mother's brother, filial piety to his sister 600 yuan, you did not ask your mother to do the decision for her, refused, do not want. What's going on here?

Your mother's brother wants to be filial to his sister, and you don't help him fulfill this wish. Wrong. Your mother could have gotten a warm affection and happiness, and you embezzled it. Wrong. Good order folklore, human affection, you rudely do bad things, destroy it, not close to human feelings. Not good. Let's be more serious, the impression to my uncle, your nephew who is an official, there is money under the bed in the closet cabinet. Not bad money, there is a situation, not good.

Of course, the above words were the result of my thinking after getting out of the car, and I did not speak to Director Zhou. Why did I come up with such a strange idea, to make the small amount of money come to such an important point? It's because I have a similar experience and experience.

Since my mother's death in 2009, the brothers and sisters have returned to their hometowns in the countryside for the New Year. Suddenly, I found that there were seven or eight brothers and sisters-in-law, and they were all over sixty years old, and they could be called elders. It's time to enjoy the same treatment as the little ones. So from that year on, I gave them red envelopes every year, from the first one hundred yuan to two hundred yuan, packed in red packets, and respectfully handed them over to them. What impressed them most was that their happy expressions when they received red envelopes were very useful. Moreover, their praise for me was also very useful.

After a few years, the brothers and sisters-in-law gathered less and less. Since the beginning of the previous year, I used WeChat to transfer the red packets, because they did not use smart phones, I had to call the red envelopes to the next generation to hand over, and instructed me to help me convert them into banknotes, and the novices handed them to your parents.

The first time I played the red packet, several nephews and nephews seemed to have a meeting to discuss it. Say the same thing. "Uncle, no! I have money, and I usually give money to my parents. Thank you! ”

Listening to their unified strange theory, I was a little angry at the time. You, and who else, don't know the truth! Uncle knows that you have money, and he believes that you are filial to your parents. But you don't understand your uncle's intentions, your money, and my intentions, are two different things, irreplaceable, just like high-speed rail and bicycles, different tracks, different roles, irreplaceable. Reason, I won't say more, you think about it. In this way, unceremoniously, in Hakka, dit carved them.

I don't know if they understood the reason, or if they didn't argue with my stupid people, anyway, after the fight, they were very obedient and did as I asked.

It is said that the pressed old money began in the Han Dynasty, also known as the pressure victory money, and the copper coin is cast on the front with auspicious words such as "Long live the thousand autumns" and "go to the disaster". Pressing the old money is a traditional culture, public order and good customs, and the customs have been passed down to this day, and they have their own significance. The meaning is to be auspicious, not to send more than who pays money.

From this point of view, it can be said that pressing the old money is a practice problem that everyone has to do. How to do it, there is no unified answer, and sometimes there will be a little annoyance. For example, sending a red envelope to the other party, how much is appropriate, is a problem; the other party sends a red packet, whether to return, is also a problem; how much to return the gift, it is another question; the pressure of the old money parents unified custody, or the child's autonomy, or a problem. The list goes on and on.

In recent years, people of insight have written a total of 10,000 articles, calling for not to let the money be suppressed to change the taste, the red envelopes are getting bigger and bigger, and the atmosphere is getting worse and worse. WeChat company also advocates a good atmosphere, do not let the pressure of the money to change the taste and deteriorate, that is, light money is heavy meaning, the New Year red envelope set 0.88 yuan to 8.88 yuan, quite popular with the masses, more or less, help to solve some problems.

Of course, after all, social consciousness is diversified, each person has different cognition, the three views are different, the situation is different, and there is no need to embed the pressure on the old money into a formula. Take us, my nephew in Guangzhou, sent a 900 yuan red envelope to my son. After the Spring Festival, my son reported that I had two children, and he had two children, so after I accepted it, I sent him a 600 yuan. If I give him back $900, then I'm not doing it right. After I listened, I agreed.

Back to what I said earlier in the article, in fact, it is what I said, just a family word, write it out and share it with you, for your reference, and also add some fun to the New Year.

To press the old money is to show love or respect. I would like to receive one and accept it happily. Sometimes when I look at the object, I will add two words: accept the luck, do not accept the tiger bite, pass by the zoo, and escape with the tail between the legs.

Well, Honyama is right, not everything is used for education, here is to talk and laugh. Let's have fun.