In the drama version of "Know It or Not", Aunt Kang died, and she wanted to murder the tuan ge'er who was producing, Gu Tingye arrived in time and stabbed Aunt Kang to death. After Aunt Kang died, Old Lady Wang did not spare herself, beat a rake, colluded with Xiao Qin, and framed Gu Tingye, while the emperor happened to be singing with Gu Tingye to deal with the empress, so she took the opportunity to dispose of Gu Tingye, who was the lord of gong and zhen, and tricked the empress dowager and Liu Guifei.
However, in the original work, Aunt Kang did not have the opportunity to assassinate Sheng Minglan, and before Mrs. Sheng was poisoned, Brother Tuan was already born. In the original work, Aunt Kang did not die, but her ending was a hundred times more painful than death, and she was more relieved, that is, she lost her freedom for life, was imprisoned in the Prudential Discipline Division, served a lifetime of hard labor, was beaten and bullied, and no one could help her.
Although her mother, Mrs. Wang, loved her daughter and tried her best to save her daughter and let her daughter retreat, but it was difficult to scream alone, at the insistence of Sheng Changbai and Sheng Minglan, Mrs. Wang had to send her daughter to the Prudential Discipline Division, paying the price for her unconditionally spoiling her daughter and being reluctant to discipline her daughter.
When Aunt Kang learned that she was going to be imprisoned in the Prudential Discipline Division, instead of regretting her evil deeds, she confronted her mother, making Old Lady Wang sick and completely offending her brother.
Aunt Wang picked up her hand and sighed, "Auntie's hands are extremely well maintained, this is old, still like a little girl, tender white and smooth." Alas, in the future, I will have to chop wood, wash clothes, do rough work, and grow frostbite and calluses... Sigh, what a pity. ”
The reason why Aunt Wang was able to send off the eldest sister-in-law was not because she cared about family affection, but because she came to beat up the falling water dog, came to taunt Aunt Kang, and by the way, showed off with Aunt Kang, and counted the grievances between them.
Wang's aunt has two sisters-in-law, one is Aunt Kang, the other is Wang Ruofu, for the latter, Wang's aunt does not have much feeling, although Wang Ruofu speaks straight, not very likable, but also did not go with his sister-in-law, for the former Kang aunt, Wang Aunt can be described as hated to the bone.
01. Once upon a time, she really made plans to treat her sister-in-law as a sister;
Being able to marry into the Lanxi Wang family, The Wang Aunt was full of expectations at the beginning and felt that she was very blessed. After all, the Lanxi royal family is famous, the father-in-law is a generation of Taishi Three Dynasties elders, the mother-in-law is the Lady of the Commandments, and everyone praises.
Long before getting married, Wang's aunt knew that she would have two sisters-in-law, and Wang's aunt was also a kind person, because she had no sisters, she decided to treat the two sisters as sisters after marrying.
If Aunt Kang did not cause trouble, did not harm her sister-in-law, and with the generosity and benevolence of Aunt Wang, if Aunt Kang really encountered things, would she not support her husband to help Aunt Kang? Unfortunately, Aunt Kang was too vicious, not only hurting many innocents, but even her own sister-in-law.
Aunt Kang did 4 stupid things, each of which stepped on the bottom line of her sister-in-law, so that her sister-in-law could not forgive her behavior.
First, provoke the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, create contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and make the sister-in-law very miserable.
From the moment I entered the door, you moved in front of your mother, changed the pickiness of the law, told me to make rules, and provoked in front of your brother. You when I don't know... Hmm, I know. But I couldn't do anything, so I had to try my best to please you, even the handmaidens around you, the mother-in-law.
How vicious is Aunt Kang's intentions? You know, she is the pearl in the palm of Mrs. Wang, Wang's aunt is just a daughter-in-law who is not related by blood, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along with, very delicate, if the sister-in-law provokes dissension, then the mother-in-law will trust her own daughter, or daughter-in-law, obviously.
What's more fatal is that the era in which the wang aunt lived was strictly religious, and the mother-in-law could find trouble for the daughter-in-law at any time, but the daughter-in-law could not be satisfied, otherwise, a hat of filial piety would be buttoned down, and the daughter-in-law would lose a layer of skin if she did not die. Therefore, Aunt Wang did not dare to resist, and could only go to please her sister-in-law, hoping that she would stop embarrassing herself.
Second, to stir up the feelings of brothers and sisters-in-law, trying to shake the marriage of the sister-in-law and the status of the hostess of the family;
"That year, I just gave birth to Brother You and his eldest sister, you threw your mother to Xiang Gong's second room, how many times did I cry secretly, and I woke up in fear at night, fortunately, your brother was gentle and gentle, and your mother was also reasonable, so I didn't listen to you."
In that era, the in-laws gave their sons concubines, called normal, and men were weeded, also called normal, but your sister-in-law, who was not yet married, took care of the affairs of her brother-in-law's room, and even the most temperamental sister-in-law could not stand it. Such behavior is undoubtedly provoking the feelings of brothers and sisters-in-law, trying to shake the sister-in-law's marriage and the status of the hostess of the family.
Third, it is wrong to mess with the brother-in-law, constantly causing trouble to the brother-in-law, affecting the interests of the brother-in-law;
Thinking of finally getting rid of this curse-like scourge, the husband no longer had to whisper to plead for the aftermath, nor did he have to save silver every year for her to squander, that is, the hot sun in the middle of summer shone directly on her face, and he did not care.
Aunt Kang was in trouble outside, she had several lives in her hands, she went to find her mother, Mrs. Wang, as soon as she broke into trouble, Mrs. Wang would ask her son to find a way to settle the peace for her daughter, for her sister, Uncle Wang spent money and licked her face and pleaded, and she was tired of her career, and the son of The Tangtang Wang Taishi was mixed up in the end and did not have a high official position.
Husband and wife are one, interests are shared, honor and disgrace are shared, therefore, Aunt Kang is angry, involving her husband, but also harming the interests of Wang's aunt, affecting the life of Wang's aunt, making Wang's aunt feel even more disgusted.
Fourth, rob your sister-in-law of her beloved things, and even want her sister-in-law's life.
"Thousands of hopes, you are finally out of the cabinet, who knows..." Wang's aunt looked at her sarcastically, "You look at my white jade statue of Guanyin, which my mother asked for from Fengxia Mountain in three steps and one kowtow." You said you wanted it; you said you wouldn't marry otherwise, and I would have to smile and offer it with both hands. Thankfully, I still had a brother later. But since then, I have hated you so much in my heart. ”
In order to make herself stand firm in the Wang family, the loving mother asked to send her son Guanyin, which was also her own hope, but when the sister-in-law snatched love with a horizontal knife, she not only could not refuse, but she had to smile and hold it with both hands, what a humiliation.
What is even more hateful is that Aunt Kang robbed Sheng Rulan of her marriage and gave her daughter Kang Yuan'er Xu to the son of Wang's aunt, hindering her mother-in-law, And Wang's aunt had to promise that if Kang Yuan'er was sensible and well-behaved, Wang's aunt would naturally treat her kindly. However, after Kang Yuan'er entered the door, she was not big or small, disrespectful, and Aunt Kang also instigated her daughter to let her daughter kill Wang's aunt.
Her own marriage and status sister-in-law wants to be shaken, her own things are to be snatched away, and in the end, she still pits her own son and wants her own life, which sister-in-law can endure such a sister-in-law?
Therefore, Wang's aunt beat up the falling water dog, first to Kang Yuan'er, the daughter of Aunt Kang, so that she lost her fertility and was locked up, and then gave benefits to the people of the Prudential Discipline Division, and gave Aunt Kang the opportunity to see her mother again, so that she completely lost the hope of coming out.
02. If you are so kind to your sister-in-law and sister-in-law, you really have no mother's family.
The writer Yi Shu once said: "No matter how far you marry, the girls please keep a return ticket for themselves." ”
After a woman gets married, how to maintain the relationship with the mother's family is very important, if you have a generous mother's family, when running a marriage, there is more support, more confidence, just like Sheng Hualan, although she is highly married, but with the development of the Sheng family, Sheng Hualan's life in the in-laws' family is much better.
However, there is a premise for women to get the support and support of their mother's family, that is, you must be able to handle the relationship with them.
Women must handle the relationship with their brothers and spouses well, and respect their sister-in-law or sister-in-law. Women must not think that they do not matter, as long as there are parents, even if they offend their sister-in-law or sister-in-law, brothers cannot ignore you.
Sister-in-law or sister-in-law is the hostess of the family, if your parents ignore their feelings for you, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions are sharp, what should you do in your parents' later life? If your brother lost his happy little home because you didn't respect their wife, could your brother not resent you? The palms of your hands and the backs of your hands are all meat, so why force your parents to choose between your brother and you?
Zhou Guoping once said: "The sense of proportion is a sign of mature love, interpersonal communication, to know how to abide by the necessary distance between people." ”
Respect your brother's spouse, both for yourself and for your parents.
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