Han Cheng, the third son of Princess Qingchang, is also the most prominent and promising person among the brothers.
Not only is the relative of the emperor and the state, but also knows how to be self-motivated, study hard, want to have a job, the character is not bad, meet such a husband, the woman is actually quite blessed, do not worry about a good life.
However, as the saying goes, marrying a good woman can prosper for three generations, and marrying a bad woman can ruin three generations, and Samuel also said: "The success of a marriage depends on two people, and one person can make it fail." ”
Unfortunately, Han Cheng married a wife who could ruin three generations, that is, Gu Tingcan, the daughter of Xiao Qin.
Gu Tingcan is the daughter of Gu Yankai and Xiao Qin, and is the only concubine of the Gu family in Gu Tingye's generation, with a very high birth. Great Qin clan beautiful Ruo Qiuhe, Jing Ji Shengyan, as the daughter of her own sister, Gu Tingcan is naturally almost where to go, the original also mentioned that Gu Tingcan is a beautiful girl with a melon face, bright eyes, three points of agility, three points of modesty, four points of reservedness, quite a bit of talented woman's pride.
The reason why Han Cheng married Gu Tingcan was not because of his parents' fate, but because he had a heart for Gu Tingcan. However, he did not meet the real person, but because of a poem.
Since he was a child, he was afraid of such a powerful and powerful woman as Princess Qingchang, and he was impatient with the poverty and boredom of the gentle woman, and when he read the poems of the seven girls of Gu Fu at the Qiuju Poetry Conference that year, he was already very moved, and when he heard that this beautiful person was beautiful, he begged his mother to propose to him.
It is true that Gu Tingcan is very beautiful and talented, but he is not suitable to be a wife.
01. Gu Tingcan's life was ruined by selfish parents;
As the only concubine of the Marquis of Ningyuan, why was Gu Tingcan unworthy of being his wife? It had nothing to do with her selfish parents. Her life was ruined by her parents.
First of all, in the eyes of her father Gu Yankai, she was a substitute for her father's favorite Great Qin Clan.
In the beginning, Gu Tingcan did not look like the Great Qin clan anywhere other than the Great Qin clan. However, children have very keen instincts, they naturally want to get more attention, Gu Tingcan found that the more he imitates the Great Qin clan, imitate her every word and deed, you can get the favor of her father Gu Yankai, even with the mother Xiao Qin can benefit, naturally will imitate the Great Qin clan.
And Gu Yankai? He regarded his daughter as a substitute for the Great Qin clan, and for his own selfishness, he connived at her daughter, and even encouraged her behavior, and did not stop it at all.
You know, the Great Qin clan is not liked by the in-laws, and cannot be a clan wife, but only married to him who lacks heart and eyes, so that he can live well. However, he also didn't want to think about it, if his daughter became the second number of the Great Qin Clan, would he still meet a man like him who was willing to hold her for a lifetime? Isn't he worried that his daughter can't marry?
However, he only had himself in his eyes and did not think about his daughter at all.
As for the Xiao Qin clan, she was even more pitted, and she used her daughter as a tool to obtain benefits and encouraged her daughter to learn from the Great Qin clan, so that she could ask Gu Yankai for more benefits. As for the future of his daughter, Xiao Qin only had a knighthood in his eyes, not his own daughter.
Gu Tingcan was his last child and the most beloved. In fact, in addition to appearance, other habits and even mentality, she is not very much like the Great Qin Clan, but under the intentional or unintentional expectations of her parents, she unconsciously imitates a person who has died.
Children have very keen instincts, they naturally want to get more attention, for Gu Tingcan, the more like the Great Qin Clan, the more her father loves her, responds to her needs, and even benefits from her mother. Sometimes, mrs. Tai wants to do something, let the little daughter go and talk to the old Marquis, almost a hundred hairs.
As parents, they all had selfish intentions, allowing Gu Tingcan to imitate the Great Qin clan and learn a lot of skills that could not be accepted by the in-laws, and Gu Tingcan not only did not stop it, but also got a reward, and naturally thought that these were all right.
02. Marrying a bad woman will really ruin three generations;
Gu Tingcan imitated the Great Qin Clan for a lifetime, but she did not have the good life of the Great Qin Clan, met Gu Yankai, who lacked heart and eyes, and met Gu Tingye's parents, who were kind and could swallow their voices.
Although Gu Tingcan's husband Han Cheng likes her, he also values his future, and he wants a soul mate who supports himself with Qinse and Ming, not a wife who has been holding and growing up.
Gu Tingcan's in-laws, not to mention, especially the mother-in-law, who was the emperor's sister and the princess of the imperial court, was she the kind of mother-in-law who would be pinched by the daughter-in-law?
If Gu Tingcan keeps to herself and lives honestly, her ending will not be too bad. Princess Qingchang was not an evil mother-in-law, she endured her for a long time and gave her a chance, but what did she do?
First of all, she had a kind of learning, imitating the Great Qin clan everywhere, not filial piety to her in-laws, and soon offended her in-laws.
"To be offended, my second sister-in-law and I both have sons, and if Tingcan's sister is a daughter-in-law like this, I am afraid that I will not be angry." All day long, let the little sex child not say, just say filial piety. The first two daughters-in-law of the princess had given birth to children, and she still had to make rules, so she only served for two days, and she was so sick that she was too weak to see a doctor and take medicine. The aunt said two words to her, and she cried into a tearful person, saying that the uncle did not sympathize with her, did not pity her..."
When the Great Qin Clan entered the door and served his mother-in-law and ate half a meal, he fainted in public, so Gu Tingcan came to learn a trick.
Secondly, Gu Tingcan was not only willful, but also did not listen to advice, and at every turn he compared his father Gu Yankai with Han Cheng, so that Han Cheng could communicate with her, and the words did not speculate for more than half a sentence.
"Dare to love that you are the only one under the heavens who is a great filial piety, not only do you have a mother, but also a wife!" My father is older than you can, and he knows that he hurts my great aunt and is willing to do anything for his wife. After a hundred years of cultivation and sleeping together, I am the person you should hurt the most. I only know that blindly filial piety, but also do not care about the pain of my wife, what a man you are! ”
"When your father met the daughter of the Qin family, it was the blood mold that had fallen for eight lifetimes!" Almost made no heirs, not to mention, at the end, almost the family was destroyed, and the old mansion of decades called your good three brothers a fire! Although I didn't come out, I didn't dare to learn from my father-in-law! ”
Yes, but any man who can carry it clearly, who dares to learn Gu Yankai? The Ningyuan Marquis's family was restless and could not be separated from Gu Yan.
In the end, Gu Tingcan himself did not have children, and he was quite jealous and could not tolerate her husband's other children.
In that era when filial piety was not filial piety, Gu Tingcan did not come out after marriage, and this alone was enough to make it impossible for her to stay in the Han family, but for the sake of Gu Quan's face, Princess Qingchang endured and gave her son a second room.
Gu Tingcan was jealous, and instructed his subordinates to push them to the pregnant concubine's room, killing Han Cheng's child, princess Qingchang was angry, and beat the lady to death.
In addition, Gu Tingcan also did a stupid thing and completely destroyed herself, that is, she wanted to put her brother Gu Tingye to death.
The reason why Ming Ming Xiao Qin clan died was because she had committed many evil deeds, plotted to kill Gu Tingye and Sheng Minglan many times, forced her son Gu Tingwei to murder her brother, and calculated that Yu Fangshi had led wolves into the house to kill her own grandchildren, purely to blame herself, but Gu Tingcan ignored the facts, only believing that Gu Tingye had plotted to kill her stepmother, and actually wrote a letter and sent it out to report to Gu Tingye.
If this letter had been sent out, it would not have been Gu Tingye who was unlucky, after all, the emperor had been clear about the matter, and gu Tingye would not be punished for this, but Gu Tingcan's in-laws were unlucky.
Han Was nearly sixty years old, still standing tall, and a slap was thrown in his son's face, shouting angrily: "Contrarian son! You didn't listen to your mother's words several times, and now you're on the verge of causing trouble! Gu Tingye and Wang Shanzhi entered Shu by holy order, one to collect military power, the other to collect the government's money and grain, all of which are the emperor's will, such people, can we offend at will?! ”
Gu Tingcan is the daughter-in-law of the Han family, she will do anything to the head of the Han family, offend the emperor's heavy subjects, and harm the Han family without any benefit, can the Han family tolerate such a daughter-in-law?
In the end, Princess Qingchang made up her mind and locked him up on the grounds that Gu Tingcan was ill, and although Han Cheng couldn't bear it, he thought of a lot of stupid things his wife did after marriage, and he also felt that he had married the wrong wife.
With Gu Tingcan's temperament, she was afraid that she would not live long.
03. Man, marry a wife and marry a sage, don't just look for beautiful women, find the right one, otherwise, be careful of the restless house.
Socrates famously said, "If you marry a good wife, you will be happy, and if you marry a bad wife, you will become a philosopher." ”
Men, marry wives and wives, don't just look for beautiful women, find the right ones, otherwise, be careful of the family is not at peace.
Behind a successful man, it is inseparable from a successful woman. If you marry the right wife, home is your haven, the warmest place, with her, you will feel very comfortable, for her, you will be more motivated.
However, if you marry the wrong wife and come home and there is a storm, you will feel exhausted and there will be no place to rest.
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