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Whether a woman lacks love or not, in fact, it can be seen that she always shows different degrees of inconfidence in her daily life or in the process of interacting with others. Not only do they dare not take the initiative, but they often hold back for a long time because they accidentally say the wrong sentence or do the wrong thing.
Not only that, because they are not loved since they were young, they will be extremely eager for love when they grow up, but when others are kind to themselves, they will easily be grateful, which is why they are more likely to be hurt in their feelings.
From the perspective of psychology, women who lack love from an early age are more likely to form a flattering personality.
They always consider others in everything, it is easy to ignore themselves, obviously they also have needs, but they always put others first, it seems that this is the sense of security, it is possible to be liked.
In addition, they do not know how to refuse, no matter what kind of demands others make, they will always agree to it against all odds, for fear of offending people without hesitation.
In general, women who lack love often have some characteristics that others do not have, and each one is very distressing.
One: not confident enough, dare not take the initiative in everything
The first characteristic of a woman who lacks love is that she is not confident enough. No matter what kind of things they face, they always deny themselves at the first time and think that they can't do it well. Even if the opposite sex likes herself, she will feel that the other party is joking or prank.
Thinking that you are not worthy of everything better is actually a kind of inferiority in the subconscious.
The more a person lacks love, the more obvious this sign becomes.
But in fact, everyone is an independent individual, everyone has a variety of shortcomings and advantages, there is no need to compare their own shortcomings with the advantages of others. The less confident you are, the more likely you are to miss out on more opportunities.
Two: sensitive and suspicious, extremely insecure
In addition to lack of self-confidence, women who lack love are more sensitive and suspicious than the average person. No matter what kind of relationship they are in, they are very insecure and always feel that they are facing loss at any time.
Wang Xiang is still helpless and distressed when he talks about his mother.
Because dad was not at home since childhood, it was always the mother who was alone to handle the affairs of a big family, and then dad made some money, and there were new people, and my mother was not willing to drag on and refused to divorce, so she consumed.
But as time went on, Wang Xiang found that his mother became more and more sensitive and paranoid. Once, after coming home from college vacation for a few days, he felt bored, so he asked a friend to go out on a trip with him to see him pack his things, and his mother suddenly asked him in a loud voice:
"Why go out? Are you going to go away like your dad and not come back? ”
Wang Xiang said that my mother had never felt what love was in her life, and when she was a child, she was rejected by my grandfather as a girl, and she married out early; later she followed my father, who was not home.
When he was a child, he also complained about why his mother was always sensitive and suspicious, did not like him to play with other children, and did not allow him to see his father, and when he grew up, Wang Xiang was finally able to understand his mother.
His wish is to buy a house in the city, and then take his mother to take care of her, so that she knows that the two of them can also be a good family.
Insecure people are like this, always sensitive and suspicious, if you have such people around you, please love them more.
Three: I don't like to socialize, I like to indulge in the illusory online world
In addition to the above two characteristics, a woman who lacks love also has a characteristic: she does not like to socialize, and always likes to hide in the virtual online world to escape the difficulties of reality.
Li Yuan is more than forty years old, married to her husband for nearly twenty years, originally there is no emotional basis, except for the first few years of briefly better, and then really became a partner to live.
Husband buys vegetables, Li Yuan cooks, each washes his own dishes, each washes his own clothes, the child does not have to worry about long-term boarding in school, the two people say no more than ten sentences a day, are some of the content that has to be said, silence is the norm, after dinner they go back to their rooms to rest.
Due to the lack of people to speak, Li Yuan was fascinated by watching TV dramas very early, which channel and when to play what dramas, she is like a number of family treasures, one after another to chase down, after each end, Li Yuan will quickly watch the next one.
She sometimes taunts herself: "If it weren't for the TV series, I wouldn't have known how to survive all these years." ”
People always have to have a little hope and sustenance, and women who have long lacked love, it is difficult to pin this feeling on someone, they can only find another suitable place, MORE AND MORE TV series and novels, there is always something they like to watch, which can make people have fantasies and hopes.
If you have carefully observed, you will find that those women who lack love are often very different from ordinary people, but no matter what, I hope that such people can love themselves more, and you can only be worthy of all love if you know how to love yourself.
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