The phenomenon of "son preference" still exists in today's society, and perhaps there are such people around everyone, parents force them to have sons, and if they can't be born, they will continue to have children. They don't care about the woman's opinion, it seems that the other person is just a tool and doesn't matter at all.
Two days ago, the Internet celebrity "4-child mother" was on fire, she had 3 daughters before, all of whom looked very cute, just like dolls. "Four-child mothers" often share their daughters on the Internet, and it can be seen that she really loves these children.
The husband of the "four-child mother", a Chaoshan native, is 44 years old this year, while she is only 26 years old. The two spanned 18 years of distance before they finally came together, and if they don't consider their respective family backgrounds, it is indeed a good story.
The couple has been married for 5 years, which is a long time for young couples, but for the two of them, it is just the beginning. In 5 years, the wife gave birth to 4 children for her husband, and the fourth child was born the day before yesterday, which was a boy.
After the birth of his son, the child's father sent a message: only great moms, no proud dads. In his description of his wife, the other party is a person who often "shocks" him, and this time he actually got himself into the delivery room alone.
The child's father emphasized "one person", which suddenly made people feel a little uncomfortable, and by the time he finished all kinds of preparations, his wife had been in the hospital for 10 hours. The wife said that the child would not hurt when it was born, and he felt a pang in his heart, and he seemed to be very distressed.
He stressed that he did not feel proud at all, but felt guilty, and that his mother's eyes were only children, but his eyes were full of wives. Through the description of the child's father, it can be known that their family must prefer sons to daughters, otherwise why let the wife continue to give birth?
The "mother of four" is only 26 years old, and in the 5 years of her marriage, she has been having children almost seamlessly. Not long after the first child was born, the second one was renewed, but the husband's friends were still praising him and did not feel that there was any problem.
Netizens have said that the man must have a son, Chaoshan is like this, he has a friend is Chaoshan people, her mother gave birth to 10 children. The idea over there is: if there is no son, there is a son, and if there is a son, there is a second.
Many netizens echoed that they do have such a concept that the family must have at least 2 sons. After listening to it, I suddenly felt that this girl's suffering was not over, and the birth of 4 children was not a relief for her, but another hell.
Let's not talk about the national policy, only allow a couple to have 3 children, and childbearing is very harmful to women. One child and two children may be the crystallization of love, if the in-laws ask to continue to be born, it is not love, but a responsibility and obligation.
For the "mother of four", childbirth does not seem to be a stress, and she also enjoys the process of welcoming the arrival of the child. Therefore, some people feel that maybe people have 4 children, really because of love, who does not want their own children to be complete?
Perhaps she has already accepted that the family will let her have more children, so she will take the responsibility that others have imposed on her as a kind of happiness. After all, many local families require their daughter-in-law in this way, and since they have chosen, doesn't it mean that she can accept it?