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People who want to send you home, southeast, northwest and south are all on the way | Chengyi
Someone said:
The most beautiful love story in the world is not "I love you."
It's "I'm busy, but I'm still free for you."
Deeply.
Whether a person really cares about you depends on whether he is available for you.
Because, only people who truly love you can't help but think of you.
I can't help but want to come and see you, and I want to spend more time with you.
In recent days, I have watched the movie "He Doesn't Really Like You That Much".
And in the process of watching, there will always be some resonance points in one of the heroines, Gigi.
Because, we who are in love, how similar.
In the movie, Gigi is excited by the words "Nice to meet you" from his date, Connor.
He will also fall into distress because of his unannounced calls.
The phone on the desk was looked at by her over and over again.
sometimes
When she has not received a call for a long time, she will always have the illusion that the phone is broken.
But when she takes a shower, just by hearing the phone ringing, she will happily pick up the first time.
Because, she always felt that it was called by Connor, who she liked.
But after receiving it, I found that it was just my mother's daily care phone.
Whether or not Connor called himself back, Gigi was willing to believe that he liked himself.
He didn't call because he was too busy, because he accidentally lost his phone number, because he had something bad happened...
But, although Gigi made up a hundred reasons for Connor that he liked her.
But in the end, he was poked in the heart by a certain sentence said by Alex:
"Connor didn't call you because he didn't want to call you.
If a man doesn't seem to care much about you, he really doesn't care about you. ”
Admittedly, people who don't care about you will not think of you.
Will be willing to let you grieve for him.
In "Red Roses and White Roses", Zhang Ailing once wrote this sentence:
"If a man doesn't have time, it's because he doesn't want to have time;
If a person can't walk away, it's because he doesn't want to go away;
If a guy makes too many excuses for you, it's because he doesn't want to care about you. ”
Around me, my friend Xiaorui and boyfriend Chen Fan are like this.
I remember when Chen Fangang and XiaoRui were together, he was very concerned about her various things.
She inadvertently sent a message, he will always be the first time to reply.
She sent a circle of friends who wanted to drink milk tea three times in the middle of the night.
He would also see it the next morning and quietly buy it for her.
He remembers exactly which restaurants she likes to go to eat at and when she likes to go out for a walk.
But lately, he's always said he's busy.
Xiao Rui sent him a message, he will not reply until a long time;
Even xiaorui had a birthday, he said:
"Busy forgot, another day to make up for her gifts."
Even when Xiao Rui came to menstruation, her stomach hurt so badly that no one answered her phone.
Only afterwards did he explain that he was too busy to look at his phone.
Later, Xiao Rui was so angry that she broke up with him.
She said:
"His so-called absence is just not available to me.
Since he no longer loves him, why should I hold on to it? ”
Yeah, people who don't love you are never available for you.
And the people who love you, no matter how busy, will miss you.
I remembered that when I watched "Please Give More Advice for the Rest of My Life", the male protagonist Gu Wei Mingming was busy doing surgery all day.
But I didn't forget that when I saw a certain help message sent by Lin Zhi's school, I rushed over to solve the problem of Lin Dad's inability to eat for her at the first time.
I knew I was too tired to do it after the operation.
But because he remembered that she was going to the hospital today, he was looking forward to meeting her occasionally.
Ming ming said that he was very busy and might not go to her cello concert.
But in the end, I went to the appointment as scheduled.
In fact, he is really busy, but no matter how busy he is, he also has time to care about the girl he likes, Lin Zhixue.
He would remember to reply to her messages in time after the surgery and would worry that she would hurt her hand by practicing cello for a long time.
True
Only people who really care about you will be available to you all the time.
Just like zhang Ruoyun's previous memorandum to Tang Yixin:
"She loves cherries and laughs sweetly;
She likes to be alone, and she likes birds to be human..."
He kept all of Tang Yixin's preferences in mind and would put them into practice.
No matter how busy he is, he will make time to visit her, and he will also travel with her to favorite places.
After having a child, he was even more fond of Tang Yixin.
Not only did he become a "family cook", but he also made a high-profile confession on Weibo:
"This is my wife, and my child's mother."
I respected her, admired her, and she accompanied me through the difficult years. ”
Those who love you will put you first in everything.
Because in his heart, you are always the person he cares about the most.
He won't have a second choice except to be available for you.
Someone said:
People who want to send you home, east, west, south and north are all on the way;
May the people who accompany you to dinner love to eat sweet and sour;
Those who look forward to seeing you, wading through the mountains and wading can also come;
The person who loves you deeply will always be available for you.
For the rest of your life, love the person who is "free for you."
Even if the mountains are high and the waters are long, he hurts you as much as ever.
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