In "Please Give More Advice for the Rest of Your Life", Gu Wei transmitted the correct concept of love to people. He said: "Now more and more young people advocate timely fun, but I think we should be cautious about this matter, wait until a suitable time, wait until the water is clear, we still have a long future, we have to go through it together." Gu Wei's extreme love, respect and restraint for Lin Zhixue were really heartwarming.
His love for Lin Zhixue slowly bloomed like a flower, and it has been carefully watered and carefully cared for. He does not advocate short-lived passion, and his firm and long-lasting love can go longer and farther. Such a concept of love is too moving.
Nowadays, after "Please Give More Advice for the Rest of Your Life", the concept of love in "Wishing Qing Hello" also resonates. It can be said that in "Wishing Qing Well", Shen Yan's 3 views of love are the finishing touches of the whole play. Moreover, after reading Shen Yan's 3 views of love, you will understand why Liu Leng is dead set on Shen Yan.
1. Identifying one person is a lifetime
Mu Xin said: "Once upon a time, the carriages and horses were very slow, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime." Ordinary words, but love is so unique. But now, people are moving too fast, they are tired of running for their lives, but they are no longer so pure about love.
Especially after the current fast food love has become the mainstream, the kind of love that "identifies one person is a lifetime" has become a luxury. In the TV series "WishIng You Good", the "pure" love is interpreted to the fullest.
Shen Yan said to Liu Ling: "Shen Mou is not a casual person, once he has identified the county lord, he will be a lifetime and will never be separated." This sentence made Liu Leng instantly "instigate" - although Liu Leng always took the initiative to attack Shen Yan, at this time, Liu Leng could not see his own heart.
For Shen Yan, if you like a person, you must be together forever, and the white heads are not separated. Even if the days are long, we must accompany each other and never abandon each other. In fact, Shen Yan really did this. No matter under any circumstances, Shen Yan would grab Liu Leng's hand and never let go.
2, love you, will desperately protect you
Wang Xiaobo wrote such a book "Loving You Is Like Loving Life". People who truly love you will cherish and protect you as much as their own lives. Because you are all he is, he is reluctant to put you in any danger.
In "Good Wishes to Qingqing", when Lu Mingshan was about to put Liu Leng to death, Shen Yan said such a sentence: "Just use my life to exchange her life."
Shen Yan was obviously a cold-faced Yama king, but he would even want his life for a woman. In the end, it was because Shen Yan loved too much.
Love you and you will protect you. Therefore, he will protect his beloved woman in a critical moment. Even if one of the two people had to die, then he would definitely protect you behind you, while he himself went forward without hesitation.
3) Love you, but don't lose yourself
Many people think that to love someone, you have to change yourself and become what the other person wants. Even Liu Ling of "WishIng Qing Well" is the same. In Liu Leng's view, the best way to love someone is to do a lot of things for each other.
She even said to Shen Yan, "As long as you open your mouth, no matter what, I am willing to do it for you." Shen Yan replied, "I don't want you to turn your back on your own heart and become less like yourself in order to satisfy my heart."
In the relationship, in order to satisfy the other party, they unconditionally change themselves. In this way, it may not be possible to gain the appreciation of the other party. So, instead of pandering to each other, be your true self.
In Heartbeat Signal 4, Orange says, "If you love someone again, don't lose yourself." Love is the cultivation of two people, the efforts of one person, can not be exchanged for the happiness of two people. Even if you love someone again, don't lose yourself. Good love is the mutual achievement of two people. Therefore, don't love each other and wronged yourself.