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Marriage is not a child's play, you must carefully consider it to make sure that person is the other half you are looking for. Otherwise, the result of hasty choice is mostly regrettable.
Marriage should be pure, emotionally based, and fit for each other. If you are mixed with too many material things, such a marriage may not be solid.
Moreover, since you are getting married, you must be honest with each other, do not hide anything, and you must not deceive each other on important things.
Liao girl is in her forties, once had a failed marriage, and lived alone for several years. Because I have been busy with my career, my feelings are blank.
When her career was doing well, Ms. Liao began to think about her love life, and she longed to have a normal family and a husband who loved her.
So Ms. Liao began to solicit marriage online and met her future husband, Mr. Gan.
Mr. Gan is almost thirty years old, and due to poor family conditions, he has not found a suitable partner. When I first met Ms. Liao, he was also a little hesitant, feeling that the age gap between the two sides was a bit large, afraid that others would gossip.
But Ms. Liao took a fancy to this handsome guy at a glance, talked about how big her career was, and wanted to show her excellent side.
Mr. Gan was attracted by Ms. Liao's advantages, and after the two people met, they had a good feeling for each other, and Ms. Liao was generous and appropriate to the image of a strong woman.
Mr. Gan persuaded his mother to accept Ms. Liao, as long as the two people have feelings, age is not a problem. So, two people met for two months and then flashed marriage.
However, after only three months of marriage, after seeing the unknown side of Ms. Liao, Mr. Gan could not stand it, clamored for divorce, and cried and begged his wife to let him go.
It turned out that Ms. Liao no longer hid herself after getting married, which exposed a lot of problems.
Ms. Liao had a strong woman image before marriage, but after marriage, she moved with her husband to live with her mother-in-law, and said that it was to facilitate the care of the elderly.
As for the big house she lived in before, Ms. Liao admitted that it was rented, and the money was used in her career, which could bring more income to herself.
After living with her in-laws, Ms. Liao interfered in family affairs very strongly, even using water and electricity to point fingers, so that her mother-in-law could save her life, take food from the refrigerator to think well, take it at once, and don't open it for a while.
This made the mother-in-law feel very uncomfortable, originally thought that the son married an older wife, can fight for a few years less, but who knows that the daughter-in-law is not like that at all.
There is also the fact that Ms. Liao feels that she is old, anxious to have a child, and always pesters Mr. Gan.
Two generations live under the same eaves, the sound insulation effect of the house is not good, plus two people do not get up three times a day, which makes the mother-in-law very unaccustomed.
Mr. Gan was raised by his mother alone, very filial piety, the mother always said in front of her daughter-in-law is not good, over time, he also had an opinion on Ms. Liao.
Once, Because Ms. Liao was too wasteful of gas for her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a fierce quarrel, which later developed into a scolding, and the mother-in-law let Mr. Gan beat Ms. Liao, and Mr. Gan really started to do it.
This made Ms. Liao confused and ran away from home in a huff. Mother and son summed up, changed the door lock, and said that they would get rid of Ms. Liao.
Feeling unwell, Ms. Liao went to the hospital for an examination before she realized she was pregnant. But at this time, her husband insisted on divorcing her, saying that she had deceived herself and that she could not live by.
As for the child in Ms. Liao's belly, Mr. Gan also thought that she was deceiving herself and did not admit it at all.
In order to give her children a complete home, Ms. Liao begged Mr. Gan to forgive herself, but Mr. Gan was iron-hearted and did not change her mind even if his wife pleaded outside the door.
Ms. Liao is very sad, she only had a child at the age of forty, she is definitely going to give birth, but now she is at odds with her mother-in-law, and her husband is also divorcing her, and she does not know where to go in the future.
The editor has something to say:
In order to marry Mr. Gan, Ms. Liao lied a lot, but when the lies were always exposed, Mr. Gan could not accept the deception, and even if Ms. Liao was pregnant, she resolutely decided to divorce.
Such consequences are what Ms. Liao should be able to think of, and it is also what she has to accept, and she is responsible for her words and deeds. But Mr. Gan is not without responsibility, his love is based on material things, and once it is found that this is not the case, he cannot continue to maintain the marriage.
Therefore, the treatment of marriage must not be childish, let alone lie and deceive, after all, it is a choice to spend the rest of your life together, how can it be reliable on the basis of lies?
Sincere heart for sincerity, false feelings for false intentions, marriage events must be treated sincerely. If the other party can't accept the real you, don't force it, otherwise there will be no good results.
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