In 2017, a plastic surgery hospital in Chongqing welcomed a special woman, she has been bowing her head and not even daring to look at people, but a young man standing next to her is very handsome, and the two have formed a strong contrast.
They listened carefully to the doctor, and suddenly the young man excitedly said to the doctor, "Is what you say true?" Can my wife's nose really be saved? ”
After receiving an affirmative answer from a professional, the woman covered her face and cried bitterly, this day, she waited for 21 years, in the past 21 years, she has been ridiculed, abused, and experienced a failed marriage, all because of her unusual appearance.
The woman is Xu Qinqin, she was just born by the rat bite off the nose, the skin around the right eye was also seriously damaged, it can be said that almost disfigured, when she was born less than a month, and now with her to the hospital is her husband Lin Zhouqiang, she said, lin Zhouqiang gave her a second life.
Ignite hope
In January 2017, Qinqin, who had experienced a failed marriage, spent all day in a fog, did not communicate with outsiders, and even wanted to end her life at one point, and slowly she found that going online could make her feel better, so she chatted with others on the Internet almost every day.
One day, Qinqin received a friend application on QQ, the other party said hello very politely, Qinqin gladly accepted his friend application, this person is Lin Zhouqiang.
After the two talked for a while, Qinqin found that the boy on the other side spoke softly, very much for people's sake, Qinqin told each other about his experience one by five and ten, Lin Zhouqiang did not feel afraid after learning that Qinqin did not have a nose, but comforted Qinqin, telling Qinqin that the appearance was not important, Lin Zhouqiang was very distressed in his heart, Qinqin, proposed to meet, but Qinqin refused.
QinQin at first thought that Lin Zhouqiang was like everyone else, she was afraid that she would be hurt again, and she was also afraid that her appearance would scare Lin Zhouqiang, she could not take that step, but Lin Zhouqiang constantly comforted Qinqin, and finally Qinqin agreed to meet.
On February 10, 2017, the two met, Qinqin was dumbfounded when he saw Lin Zhouqiang, Lin Zhouqiang was tall, very handsome and handsome, and Lin Zhouqiang proposed a relationship with Qinqin as soon as they met, promising Qinqin that he would be good to her in the future, Qinqin was touched by Lin Zhouqiang's sincere tone, agreed to communicate, and the two officially became boyfriend and girlfriend.
Lin Zhouqiang is the only boy in the family, his parents are very opposed after knowing this matter, the attitude is very resolute, the attitude towards Qinqin is also very bad, Qinqin knows that ordinary people can't accept her, and she has never complained to Lin Zhouqiang about anything.
Lin Zhouqiang knows what he cares about, what he likes is Qinqin's understanding, and under his repeated insistence, his parents agreed.
On February 21, Qinqin and Lin Zhouqiang got married, there was no bride price, no dowry, the two only had a marriage certificate, but Qinqin at this time was happier than anyone.
After the people in the village saw Qinqin's appearance, they all laughed at Lin Zhouqiang's incompetence and married an ugly daughter-in-law, but Lin Zhouqiang was not at all in the eyes of an unexpected person, what she cared about was the hurt in Qinqin's heart, Qinqin had been too bitter before.
It's been a lot of tribulations
In 1996, Xu Qinqin was born in Zhonghe Town, Anyuechi County, her parents are ordinary farmers, the income is meager, but the family atmosphere is very harmonious, Qinqin was born when she was born, she looked very well-behaved, her eyes were watery like a doll, several brothers and sisters were very fond of this little sister, her mother said that Qinqin was the most beautiful of the 6 children when she was born.
Due to the poor conditions at home, Xu Qinqin's mother, Lin Guangzhen, did not have time to raise her body, and she went to the ground a few days after giving birth, and the task of taking care of her sister fell on several children.
When Qinqin was 29 days old, her mother settled the qinqin as usual, picked up the hoe and went to work in the field, and several of Qinqin's brothers and sisters played in the yard while listening to the movement in the house.
Just when Qinqin's mother was away from home for more than an hour or so, Qinqin in the house suddenly cried loudly, Qinqin's eldest sister rushed into the house to check, the scene in front of her made her sit on the ground in fright, and the rat quickly flew out, and the vibrant Qinqin's face was full of blood, and her face was already a blur, and she immediately went to the field to call her mother back.
Lin Guangzhen heard the news and threw down her hoe and ran home, holding Qinqin to the nearest hospital.
The doctor immediately treated the wound urgently, at this time everyone saw Qinqin's injury, Qinqin's entire nose was gnawed off, revealing white bones, and there was also a serious injury to the right eye, the doctor sighed continuously, and even told Xu Qinqin's parents that there was no need for treatment.
Qinqin's parents clasped the doctor's hand and almost begged: "Please, you must save the child, how much money we are willing to come out, she is not yet a full moon." “
The doctor said to Qinqin's parents, "I tried my best, but even if I were to save her, her nose would not be able to recover." ”
The doctor changed the medicine, disinfected, and sutured the wound of the violin in the swaddling, and the qinqin was already a little weak at this time, and the nurses around looked at the dying qinqin and prayed in their hearts.
Because the medical level of the mainland at that time was not developed, there were only general anti-inflammatory drugs, and the wound area of Qinqin was too large, and Qinqin's age was relatively small and it was impossible to fully cooperate, and the doctor was most afraid of the later wound infection, as long as it survived for three months, you can rest assured.
In the next three months, Qinqin's parents often rushed to the hospital, every time Qinqin changed medicine, she was very well-behaved, did not cry or make trouble, she seemed to know that these nurses were helping her, Qinqin's ignorant eyes made the adults feel very unhappy.
Fortunately, during these three months, Qinqin's physical condition was very good, but unfortunately, she did not have a nose, which may be a bit cruel for a girl, and Qinqin, who is less than half a year old, does not know what she will face in the future.
Qinqin's family gave her enough love, Qinqin was still relatively cheerful before going to school, but since she went to elementary school, her personality has completely changed, the ridicule of her classmates has made her breathless, they say that Qinqin is an outlier, insulting her, away from her, Qinqin has no friends, she began to become taciturn, and even finally did not want to go to school.
In the end, Qinqin only dropped out of school after graduating from primary school, hiding in the house all day without going out, nor talking to outsiders, but what did Qinqin do wrong? She was just a victim.
In 2013, Qinqin also understood things, she felt that she was not the way to be at home for a long time, so she wanted to go out to earn some money and help the family reduce the burden, so Qinqin came to the south alone and became an ordinary worker in a factory, although the salary was not high, but for Qinqin, this is a new beginning.
But the good times did not last long, Qinqin soon felt that everyone was avoiding her, she constantly comforted herself not to be in the eyes of unexpected people, but her heart was always unable to pass the hurdle, and after working for a few months, she left this sad place.
After returning home, Qinqin's parents and relatives advised her to find a good family to marry, Qinqin did not want to let her family worry, so she agreed, after being introduced to marry a man who was nearly thirty years old, at this time Qinqin was not yet twenty years old, so she was confused and married.
After marriage, Qinqin did her best to manage the family, but her ex-husband was always dissatisfied and suppressed her all day, and the marriage ended in failure.
After the divorce, Qinqin was depressed for a long time, she did not know what she had to do to make others satisfied, until she met her current husband Lin Zhouqiang on the Internet, she once again ignited the hope of life.
Qinqin only experienced the feeling of being hurt after marrying Lin Zhouqiang, and her personality began to become cheerful, but her mutilated appearance accompanied Qinqin every day, and Qinqin almost never looked in the mirror.
Keep the clouds open to see the moon
By chance, Lin Zhouqiang saw the advertisement of the plastic surgery hospital on TV, and thought of consulting, Lin Zhouqiang immediately took Qinqin to the plastic surgery hospital, and the doctor said that it could be repaired after learning about the situation of Qinqin.
Lin Zhouqiang and Qinqin hugged together excitedly, but the two were not happy for too long, because the doctor said that the medical expenses needed more than 100,000 yuan, at that time Lin Zhouqiang's monthly income was only less than 3,000 yuan, and more than 100,000 yuan was too much for the two, Qinqin comforted Lin Zhouqiang and said that it was okay, pulling Lin Zhouqiang to leave.
Lin Zhouqiang's mood suddenly fell to the bottom, he told the doctor about the suffering that Qinqin had experienced, the doctor was deeply shocked after listening, and finally he was also touched by the true feelings of the two, and the doctor decided to apply for a public welfare fund, so that Qinqin could be treated for free.
After hearing this news, Qinqin cried excitedly, and on this day, she had been waiting for 21 years.
On March 13, 2017, the hospital held a meeting to determine the final surgical plan, and Qinqin entered the operating room under the gaze of everyone.
From March to September, in a seven-month period, Qinqin has undergone four major surgeries such as implanting a dilator in the upper arm and reconstructing the rib cartilage nose, and there are many large and small needle eyes on her arm, but these are nothing for Qinqin.
On September 11, Qinqin already had a full nose, and she smiled in the mirror, which was the first time in 21 years that she had laughed so happily, and she was ready for a new life in the future.
In 2021, Xu Qinqin returned to the plastic surgery hospital again, she thanked the former attending doctor, accompanied by her husband Lin Zhouqiang, the husband and wife are very affectionate, you can see that the two are now very happy, I wish their lives better and better.