The TV series "Speak Well" was launched, the ratings have been high, in addition to a strong cast, the screenwriting content is closer to life and close to reality.
The opening is high energy, the premiere case reveals the current situation of young people's marriage and love, the small couple after 90 flashed away from Oolong, there is no pressure of life before marriage, but after marriage, they quarreled over many trivial matters. Although the two small families reached a bundle of interests under the mediation of the host Yang Guang (Chen Xiao), we can also glimpse the post-90s marriage concept. Post-90s and post-80s different post-90s marriage rate is not high Post-80s marriage concept is relatively traditional, compared with post-80s, post-90s living conditions far exceed post-80s, affected by the concept of marriage and childbearing and changes in material life, the proportion of post-90s marriage has not been high.
On the one hand, some post-90s have more favorable economic conditions, and they are more willing to live a single Buddhist spiritual life like Westerners, such as bungee jumping and traveling around the world. On the other hand, the post-90s generation does not have the heavy pressure of the garage, and they have more time to improve themselves, rather than being satisfied with the status quo of marriage and having children. According to the latest statistics of demographers, since the mainland began to record in 2003, the divorce data of post-90s in 19 years is as high as 56.7%, but this data may be further expanded in recent years. As someone said, the current post-90s generation, half are urged to marry, half are in divorce. Although exaggerated, it also reflects the real situation of many post-90s. The post-90s generation is a spoiled generation Most of the post-90s are only children, and their parents are favored to grow up.
Some are married, the role change is not timely, and the opening of the mouth is "my father said" and "my mother said". Not only is it poor in life self-care ability, but it is also psychologically difficult to take care of itself. Be bold and nibble on the old, spend money in a big way, and don't worry about anything. Anyway, whether it is work or life, house or car, all have a mother. The post-90s generation is a self-centered generation such as the pair of post-90s couples who are clamoring for divorce in "Talk Well", one accuses each other of buying, buying, buying and hoarding goods every day, hoarding so much that the family can't put it down, and the other accuses the other of playing black games behind their backs every day, which is simply a true portrayal of most small couples making contradictions, how can it be so real and so funny.
Post-90s small couples, often self-centered, from a young age in the environment, everything is their own decision, everything is their own reason, how to allow others to point out to themselves, "get by, can't get over" has obviously become their norm. The post-90s generation needs to grow up In the marriage relationship, two people need to run into each other and need to grow up together. But if two people grow at different rates and grow at different rates, it will also bring about the end of the marriage.
One who does not want to be enterprising, can lie down and not sit; one strives hard and runs wild on the road of life. Such a marriage, after a long time, both parties will feel tired.
Some people say that the quarrel before marriage is the run-in of two people, and the quarrel after marriage is the difficulty of two people fighting against life together. Love is sharing, marriage is sharing. The growth frequency is different, and the distance will only get farther and farther. It's easy to write about falling in love at the end, it's too hard to get along. Marriage is sacred, flash marriage flash away, should not become a fashion. Adults should have the appearance of adults, it is impossible to have someone to take care of you forever, or you have to learn to grow up on your own. Marriage requires a run-in, there is no other half of 100 points, only two people with 50 points. There is not only love in marriage, but also responsibility. Flash marriages are risky, and divorce needs to be cautious. Do you agree with the post-90s view of marriage?