1. In the hustle and bustle of the entertainment industry, the definition of marriage does not seem to be as ordinary as the outside world imagines
On this unique and eye-catching stage in the entertainment industry, the meaning of marriage seems to have its own differences. Many celebrities choose to enter the marriage hall with the rich party or people who are much older than themselves because of the pursuit of the so-called "true and pure love", which has aroused widespread attention and heated debates from all walks of life.
One wonders if their decision was made with sincerity or if they had other intentions. Are you confused by financial gain, or do you have a beautiful vision of romantic love? There are many opinions, and it is difficult to give a definite answer.
However, for these artists, their choices may be a reflection of their true voices from the depths of their hearts. As mentioned in the article, each person's actions have a specific motivation behind them, and no matter what their innermost thoughts are, as long as they can feel happiness and contentment, then all this is enough.
For example, after Gong Li broke up with the famous director Zhang Yimou, she once lost confidence in married life, but after adopting the deaf child Gao Xin, she rekindled her desire for love, and at the age of 54, she resolutely chose to marry the 71-year-old French musician Jean-Michel Jarre.
For another example, Li Zi, who is known as the "peerless beauty", could easily marry into a wealthy family with her beautiful appearance, but she chose Ma Yanqiang, a wealthy businessman who is 15 years older than herself. It was precisely because Ma Yanqiang reached out to her in the most difficult moment and funded her brother's medical expenses that Li Zi was deeply moved and let go of the shackles of age.
Therefore, for these artists, there may be an untold story behind their marriage choices, but as long as it comes from the deep desire of the heart, then it is too subjective and one-sided to evaluate from the perspective of a bystander.
Second, Wei Wei, who is in his prime, fell into "forbidden love"
Looking back on the 80s of the last century, Wei Wei, who was in his prime, emerged in the music world, and won the championship and runner-up of the National Singing Competition and Youth Song Competition in one fell swoop with his sweet and beautiful singing voice, and since then he has embarked on the road of professional singers, and his career development is in full swing.
However, in 1989, just when Wei Wei's career was in full swing, she met the married cross talk master Hou Yaowen, and the two quickly fell in love and started a vigorous relationship.
Although this relationship has been questioned and criticized by the outside world, and Wei Wei has even been labeled as a "third party", she and Hou Yaowen still firmly choose to show the public the deep affection between them.
In order to be able to stay and love Wei Wei with dignity and integrity, Hou Yaowen moved forward with determination, and even did not hesitate to turn his back on his responsibilities and leave his wife and children.
Seeing Hou Yaowen make such a sacrificial move for himself, Wei Wei's heart was full of emotion, and she became more determined and serious about this emotion.
However, in the social context of that era, this relationship, which was regarded as a "taboo", was bound to cause people's incomprehension and rejection. The insurmountable moral and ethical gap between the two people, as well as the accusations from the outside world, shot at them like a sharp sword.
In the end, in the face of huge pressure, this unpopular relationship finally ended in a breakup, and Wei Wei could only be sad.
3. Wei Wei fell into the dilemma of "old husband and young wife" again, and finally separated
The twist of fate came in 1992, when an unexpected encounter led Wei Wei to meet the Swedish musician Smith. Despite the 25-year age gap between the two and the fact that Smith is married and has children, they have come together without hesitation.
Faced with the call of love, in order to be able to spend the rest of his life with Wei Wei, Smith had to take Hou Yaowen's old path again on the road of marriage, chose to divorce his wife, and gave up his original family.
Wei Wei saw that this man who was 25 years older than himself made such a resolute decision for himself, and his heart was moved beyond measure.
However, this equally controversial marriage did not last long. Although the love between the two was warm and sincere, due to the huge difference in age, conflicts and frictions inevitably occurred in the process of getting along.
So, just ten years later, the "old husband and young wife" chose to leave separately in 2002, and Wei Wei returned to China with their common child to start a new life journey.
Fourth, the sophisticated and intelligent Deng Wendi achieved a brilliant life with marriage
Another example that deserves our attention is Wendi Deng. This shrewd, capable and intelligent woman has gradually reached the pinnacle of life through the skillful use of marital relationships, which can be said to give full play to the value of marriage.
The story began in 1968, when Wendi Deng was born in Jinan, Shandong. During her college years, she received generous assistance from the Jake couple in the United States to successfully study in the United States, thus starting a unique chapter in her life.
During that period of pursuing a U.S. green card, Wendi Deng went all out and did not hesitate to establish a close relationship with his sponsor Jack, so that he was able to successfully obtain U.S. status. However, despite this, she was not grateful for the illustrated, but resolutely ended her short marriage to Jack, and threw herself into the arms of another rich man, David, and has lived a veritable "backer" life since then.
Wendi Deng's unwavering determination to climb upwards makes people can't help but foresee that she is by no means satisfied with this. As expected, once she seized the opportunity she dreamed of, she did not hesitate to abandon Davy, and returned to her homeland as quickly as if she had cut off carrion.
On the flight back to China, she unexpectedly met the Hong Kong media magnate Mercado. Wendi Deng was quick witty and impressed Mercado with his excellent social skills. Soon after, she was successfully promoted to Mercado's personal assistant, and the relationship between the two gradually warmed up, and finally entered the palace of marriage.
However, after marriage, Wendi Deng was not satisfied with the status quo, but let himself go, and frequently reported various scandals, which undoubtedly angered Mercado, made him deeply humiliated, and finally decided to divorce her, but had to accept the reality of dividing up to $1 billion in property, drawing a perfect end to her life journey of "the leftover is king".
In contrast, Gong Li and Li Zi's marriage is more pure and flawless, closer to the "true love" that people yearn for in their hearts.
For Gong Li, she has experienced emotional twists and turns with Zhang Yimou, and once lost all expectations for marriage. However, the god of fate did not give up on her after all, and life still gave her new hope.
In 2011, in a TV show, Gong Li bravely publicly admitted that he had a son Gao Xin, who had been hidden for 30 years, and this naturally deaf child rekindled the fire of love in Gong Li's heart with his innocent existence.
Since adopting Gao Xin, the responsibilities of a mother and the needs of her children have prompted Gong Li to rediscover her desire and longing for a better love. Until 2019, Gong Li, who was 54 years old at the time, finally announced the good news that she was about to enter the marriage hall, and the groom was Jean-Michel Jarre, a Frenchman who was over his prime.
Their encounter originated from a chance meeting, and despite a certain degree of cultural differences, in the process of getting along, Gong Li found that there was an amazing tacit understanding and mutual appreciation for each other.
For Gong Li, the most important thing is to have such a loving partner by her side, and age is no longer a problem.
However, Lai Zi's marriage story undoubtedly adds more touching colors to this world! This acclaimed "peerless beauty" could have easily entered a wealthy family and married a young and energetic rich man with her outstanding looks.
However, unexpectedly, she finally chose Ma Yanqiang, a wealthy man who is 15 years older than herself. This miraculous marriage originated from a deep heart-to-heart collision - Ma Yanqiang generously donated money to fund her brother's medical expenses during the most difficult time for Lai.
This incident greatly touched Li Zi and made her feel deeply grateful to Ma Yanqiang, so that she let go of the worry about the age gap in her heart, and the two finally came together.
Now, they have children of their own and live happily ever after.
In the traditional view, such a "peculiar" marriage can be confusing or even unacceptable. After all, the huge age gap and entanglement of interests make it easy for people to see it as a "money transaction" rather than "true love".
However, each person's understanding and interpretation of love is unique. Although some people pursue passionate passion, some people look forward to plain and warm companionship, and some people see love as a bridge to success, either way, as long as both parties truly love each other, then everything becomes impeccable.
Therefore, we should abandon narrow prejudices, accept the diversity of the world with a broad mind, and use compassion to understand the unique definition of love in each person's heart.
Love gives humanity endless courage and strength, and we should celebrate it, not blame it.