When the marriage comes to an end, facing her who is about to become an ex-wife, what else can we say that night? Is it a regret, a blessing, or a deep attachment?
My name is Zhang Wei, I am 35 years old, and I am an ordinary engineer. Growing up under the care of my parents, I have always felt that my life has been smooth sailing. However, marriage has become a hurdle in my life.
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My wife Xiaoling and I met when we were in college, and she was beautiful, kind and considerate. We walked through the youthful campus time together, and after graduation, we entered the palace of marriage. However, as time went on, the relationship between us gradually cracked.
Xiaoling is a teacher with a busy and stressful job. Due to the nature of my work, I often need to work overtime. Our lives are beginning to become more and more monotonous, lacking the passion and romance of the past. There was less and less communication between us, and more and more quarrels. Eventually, we decided to divorce and give each other a chance to start over.
Tomorrow is the day of the divorce, and tonight is our last night in this house. I sat on the sofa and watched Xiaoling busy in the bathroom, with mixed feelings in my heart. I remembered the good times we used to spend together, and I remembered the quarrels and conflicts between us.
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With a "bang", the bathroom door opened. Xiao Ling walked out wrapped in a bath towel, her hair wet against her cheeks, looking a little haggard. She walked up to me, sat down, and whispered, "It's the last night, do you have anything to say to me?" ”
I was stunned for a moment, looked into her eyes, and suddenly felt a pang of heartache. I took a deep breath and tried to make my voice sound calmer: "Xiaoling, we have come to this point, and I know that there are many things I have not done well enough. I didn't give you enough care and companionship, and I didn't communicate in time to solve the problems between us. I really regret it. ”
Xiaoling didn't speak, just looked at me silently. I continued, "But, I also hope you understand me. I'm really busy at work, but I'm also always trying to give for our family. I know I have a lot of shortcomings and shortcomings, but I hope you can give me a chance to correct these mistakes in the days to come. ”
Xiao Ling's eyes began to redden, and she nodded lightly: "Zhang Wei, in fact, I have a lot of things wrong. I'm too headstrong to take your feelings into account. I am also responsible for our marriage. ”
Hearing this, I couldn't help but cry as well. We hugged each other tightly, as if to release all our emotions. At that moment, I suddenly realized that the love between us had not disappeared, but was only overshadowed by the trivialities and quarrels of life.
That night, we talked for a long, long time. We talked about our past, present, and future; We shared each other's dreams and expectations; We are also honest about each other's mistakes and shortcomings. We decided to give each other a chance to start our married life anew.
When I woke up the next morning I found myself still lying on the couch, and it turned out that everything that happened last night was just a dream. But that dream made me deeply aware of the problems between us and how we really felt about each other.
I decided to take action to change the status quo of our marriage. I began to care more about Xiaoling's feelings and needs; I began to take the initiative to communicate with her to solve the problems between us; I also started to struggle to balance work and family.
After a period of hard work, our married life gradually returned to its former warmth and happiness. There are fewer and fewer quarrels between us, and more and more understanding and support for each other. We rediscover the love and passion we once lost, and we also redefine our marriage and family.
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Married life is like a long road that needs to be maintained and managed by both husband and wife. When faced with difficulties and challenges, we should not give up easily, but should actively seek solutions to problems. Only by being honest with each other, supporting each other and understanding each other can we overcome every obstacle and usher in a better future. I hope that every couple can cherish the love and affection between each other, and let the road of marriage go wider and wider!