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Between husband and wife, whether they have been poor or rich, what they are most afraid of is centrifugation!
After the separation between husband and wife, it will bring unpredictable harm and impact to the party who is still looking forward to marriage. The most common are varying degrees of psychological trauma. These psychological traumas can be broadly divided into the following types:
(1) Anxiety caused by a loss of security;
(2) self-consumption from hope to disappointment to despair;
(3) self-blame and sadness caused by self-questioning;
(4) Self-abandonment caused by indifference and estrangement from one's lover......
These traumas continue to erode the emotions and mentality of the original partner, making people unable to redeem themselves all day long in the emotional counterattack!
I'm afraid, I'm obviously tormented by emotional backlash, and I still have expectations for people who have changed their minds!
Why bother?
Some people's hearts go astray and can be straightened, and some people change their minds and will never look back! Redemption and anticipation are all forced by their own wishful thinking!
Between husband and wife, if there are these 3 disgusting concealments: centrifugation, it is useless to force it!
1: Invest privately, and don't say a word to the person next to you
Private investment between husband and wife is to secretly invest funds without the consent of the other half!
This kind of behavior is often because it involves the private retention of property, economic risk control and other principled contact issues!
However, people who are separated from their lover only do their own investment projects behind their backs, earn their own small treasury, and if they lose, they will let their lover bear the responsibility with themselves......
This kind of selfishness with deception and concealment shows the human nature, a selfish, self-interested and vicious person, who distrusts and disrespects his lover.
In the face of such a lover, if you still have expectations, then wait for the following 3 endings:
(1) Being taken advantage of by a loved one;
(2) After your lover ascends to heaven in one step, find someone to replace you;
(3) My lover has nothing, so I think of you as a safe haven!
Either way, you're the best proof that your head is bigger! In that case, what more do you want?
2: Saving money and storing property in the name of other people without permission
Generally speaking, when a person decides to divorce, in order to get more self-interest, he will plan in advance:
In a state of ignorance and unawareness, transfer property and savings, save money and property in the name of others!
When the time is ripe, with a certain amount of savings and sufficient property reserves, you will immediately coerce your lover to divorce or force your lover to file for divorce!
Because, in the property after marriage, I can finally divide it with confidence!
This kind of behavior is not only a violation of the lover's trust, but also an insult to the lover's personality.
Faced with such a situation, it is often useless to force the other person to explain or confess, because the act itself says too much.
In other words, in the face of this situation, whether you are soft or hard, the other party has already decided to divorce you, and the probability of winning the lawsuit is also very low!
Unless, you drag on not getting a divorce first, and then calmly and quietly look for strong evidence of your lover's transfer of property, otherwise you will admit it!
3: Secretly give other members of the opposite sex a promise to stay together for the rest of their lives
It can be said that the promise to other members of the opposite sex about staying together for the rest of their lives behind their backs is the betrayer's complete denial of the current marriage and the complete abandonment of the original partner!
It's just that when the marriage and the original partner are still useful, the betrayer will postpone the divorce and tell his lover:
You wait for me, and I'll completely pull away from the disgusting man in due time!
Moreover, in the process of promising the rest of his life, in order to make his lover feel at ease, the betrayer will continue to make material and economic satisfaction for his lover to create a sense of steadiness for his lover!
In the face of such a situation, remember to calm down and don't leak your emotions to startle the snake.
As long as you calm down and collect evidence slowly, you can recover all the expenses that the betrayer gave to your lover through legal procedures, and you can also stay away from the betrayer in the best interests of the law under the state of legal protection!
After experiencing a betrayal of a marriage, only the actual self-interest in hand is a real thing, and I advise you not to be stupid and still thinking about relationship repair, it is really meaningless!
Finally, just want to say:
Once the husband and wife are separated from each other in the case of touching the principles and bottom line, remember to stay calm and rational and do self-interested things as soon as possible!
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, the right time and the right person can achieve positive results!
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