At that time, I was doing garment processing at home, and my sister-in-law often came to play. I was working, she said this and that, asked this and that, I couldn't hear clearly, I had to stop the machine, should talk to her, answer her. I'm a lot slower.
After staying for a long time, it was time for her to go home to cook, and before leaving, she said: I won't play with you, there is still a lot of work to be done at home.
What she meant, I have to thank her for coming to talk to me - obviously she couldn't stay at home, so she came to talk to me and join in the fun, but she accompanied me.
I didn't want her to come at all, she distracted me and I was working a lot slower.
It was actually she who bothered me, and she felt like she was giving me alms.
Every time she said "I won't play with you", she raised her leg and left in a hurry. I looked at her with a smile and admired her clever mouth.
Later, I heard that she said the same thing when she played with others, as if others took advantage of her.
She is hypocritical, and others will reciprocate her for hypocrisy. met and laughed, just acting on the spot.
Let's talk about the old father.
My father said it many times, saying that he took medicine and exercised every day...... Try to be better, don't go to the hospital, and lighten the burden on us – you don't have to wait for us.
I didn't think anything at first hearing, indeed, good health of parents is a blessing for children. My father said it a lot of times, and I muttered in my heart: You are in good health, we are worry-free, aren't you comfortable yourself?
No wonder my father offended many people because of his words, he always said that he was in good health for us, and I was a little unhappy.
When I saw my father, I ignored it and treated him well, this is the magic of blood relationship. My father didn't realize that what he said was heartwarming and displeased. He really has no heart and eyes, and if he says something unpleasant, he is stupid.
In fact, everyone knows who is good and who is bad in the village, and no one talks about it every day. As for my father, every day this is not good, that is bad, and it reaches people's ears, and the offense is transparent.
As children, we treat our father as an old child and tolerate him infinitely. But people didn't tolerate him, and when they saw that he didn't have a good face, his father was angry again...... I can't persuade him to go in his heart, alas......
My father was a cultural person in the village from a young age. Every year during the Spring Festival, I wrote Spring Festival to my relatives and neighbors, and I wrote it until the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve. People buy a roll of red paper, come and put it down and leave. My father cut paper, bought pens and ink, and on the floor of the house, on the vegetable cupboard, on the pancake basin, on the bed in the middle, and on the cabinet, there were Spring Festival couplets with ink not dry. On weekdays, I read letters to old men and old ladies and write back letters......
When I get old, my father complains, this is bad, and that one is unreasonable...... Offend people everywhere. The sister-in-law of my own family I mentioned earlier is also like this, she is angry every day, and it is all someone else's......
If they can reflect on themselves and empathize, they will calm down and have no worries.
These two things are difficult to do.