I don't know if you feel the same way, I have seen too many of these around me: basically the spouse died of illness, the uncle remarried in half a year or a year, and the relationship between husband and wife was okay before his death.
In the journey of life, marriage is like a bridge, connecting the hearts of two people. However, when the bridge breaks for some reason, it leaves behind not only emptiness and loneliness, but also a deep nostalgia for the good old days.
For middle-aged uncles, the pain of widowhood is even more indescribable. But what is surprising is that many middle-aged uncles often choose to remarry quickly after experiencing the pain of widowhood.
So, the question is, why do middle-aged uncles remarry quickly after being widowed?
When it comes to this topic, netizens are very touched, sharing their personal experiences and observations, which makes people feel a lot of emotion!
Some netizens even said that her own cancer has not yet been "lost", and her husband has already begun to be remembered! [Shocked] [Shocked]
That's true, my mom is an oncologist, and I've seen so much over the years. I have seen many female patients who are still alive, and some people rush to introduce them to the patient's husband. Therefore, the most important thing is to cherish yourself and be good to yourself, so as to leave as few regrets as possible. The second is to arrange the property and fight for the children as much as possible, after all, people's hearts are unpredictable. I always thought that if I got seriously ill one day, I should first think about transferring the house to my child's name
Actually, not marrying is not necessarily the best. It's really hard to live alone, and the family members who have passed away don't want to see the half of their loved ones have a hard time. There are two kinds of remarriage. One is for this family, and the other is to find a little wife and children, don't just be happy.
My uncle too, my aunt has been dead for half a year, and she has remarried
There are many examples of this, and I think women should reduce their emotional needs and increase their pursuit of self-happiness in marriage. Hard-working, thrifty, can only be self-moving, marriage is a partnership model, basically self-interest maximization. There are also people around me whose wives died in a car accident, who got compensation and quickly married a man who refused to pay his daughter's college tuition.
You can rest assured, after you are gone, your husband's resources and care will definitely be shared with future generations, don't take it for granted that he can only find someone to share the sorrow, not to bear the obligation, impossible, can only say, be open-minded, as long as it is not too excessive, the living still have to continue to live.
Although your husband said so, I still think you did the right thing, and a friend like you deserves to be a deep friend.
Men looking for a wife need help in life, and their ability to take care of themselves is really not as good as that of women. Women are looking for a wife for life, or to improve the quality of life.
Of course, we can't generalize, there are also affectionate men, there are the following examples:
It can only be said that the vast majority of men who remarry quickly are begging for benefits. If the middle-aged uncle's own conditions are average, it is definitely more beneficial to get a wife than to be single. There are people who warm the bed, and women who can take care of themselves, and the woman brings another share of her own income in minutes, so you will see many middle-aged widowed men remarrying immediately.
PS: Your university teacher has good conditions, of course he has high requirements, so he is not in a hurry to remarry, after all, he is enough to live well by himself!
The same aunt walked in front of my uncle, and I think this uncle is what touched me. Love is a flower that blooms in life, your own life is a mess, and the beauty of your love is limited. Uncle did not shirk his responsibilities and was facing the reality of being widowed, but he was still thinking and loyal, and this feeling was moving
When you see your wife beside you and greet the newlyweds, you feel that your father is really great and warm. Don't dare to stand on the moral high ground and say that the widowed will wait a little longer before getting married. But there are really people who can't wait and I am dumbfounded.
You are lucky to have such a caring father.
I don't agree, most of the widowed women will not look for it in a short time
Really, when a particularly important person dies, it will not be sad at the moment, but it will not be able to come out for a long, long time. Because the brain will subconsciously block it in order to protect us
epilogue
Hey, let's be honest, I've seen quite a few of them. The uncles around me whose spouses died of illness, the speed at which they remarry is sometimes really confusing. Obviously, the relationship between the husband and wife was very good before their deaths, why did they rush to remarry as soon as the other half left?
I think there are many reasons for this. Some people may be lonely, after all, suddenly from the life of two people to one person, the sense of disparity is very strong. In addition, as you get older, finding a companion to chat with and take a walk can also reduce your loneliness.
Some people may think about it for the sake of their children. If you feel that it is too hard to take care of your children alone, finding a companion to share the burden can also make your child feel a more complete family atmosphere. Or maybe they feel that their children also need a new "mom" or "dad" to take care of them.
Of course, it cannot be ruled out that some people really like each other. Although I have a good relationship with my previous spouse, I always have to look forward to life, meet a new and suitable person, and be willing to enter the palace of marriage again.
But then again, it varies from person to person. Some people just need time to heal, and they may not want to think about remarrying for a year or two, or even longer. But in any case, it's a personal choice, and we don't need to judge too much. After all, everyone has their own way and rhythm of dealing with feelings.
What do you think about this? Do you have any relevant examples or experiences around you?
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