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I'm a rabbit in April '63, I don't know if you, who swiped this article, are you also the same age as me?
With the precipitation of the years, we have entered the golden autumn season of life. The wise are happy with the water, the benevolent are happy with the mountain, and we, who are over the age of six, will also begin to define our own lives: it is not in the pursuit of chaos, but in the tranquility of indifferent ambitions. In the new chapter, we should learn to let go, not to be burdened by external things, and not to be disturbed by distracting thoughts.
Three regardless:
- Regardless of idleness: As we get older, we learn to respect the life trajectories of others. No more over-meddling, no more endless unsolicited advice. It is a mature self-discipline, an affirmation of the independence of others.
- Leave your children at work: Adult children have the right to control their destiny. Our role shifts from being a direct mentor to a listener and supporter, allowing them to think independently and take responsibility in the face of workplace challenges.
- Leave your child's emotional issues alone: The emotional world is a private realm, and we should respect our children's privacy and give them the space to explore and grow, and to be listening ears, not decision-makers.
Three don't ask:
- Regardless of the future: Let go of unnecessary worries about the future, focus on the present, cherish every moment of the present, improve the quality of life, and cultivate peace of mind.
- Cherish the present moment: Seize every moment of life, enjoy the time with family and friends, and create memorable moments.
- Don't ask about the past: Let go of the shadow of the past, don't let the past bind our hands and feet, and move forward bravely, and let the past become the driving force for progress.
三不碰:
- Don't gamble: Stay away from gambling, keep a clear head, focus on activities that are good for your body and mind, and maintain family harmony.
- Don't touch color: Protect physical and mental health, maintain legitimate emotional and sexual relationships, and convey the values of integrity and respect to society.
- Don't be greedy: Embrace contentment and gratitude, stay away from the temptation of greed, and experience the simple and pure joy of life.
As we enter the year of sixtieth, we learn to understand the true meaning of life. Through the "three nos", "three don'ts" and "three don'ts", we have learned to let go and embrace a more peaceful and fulfilling old age. These principles not only guide how we live, but also serve as a manifestation of wisdom that enables us to make decisions with maturity and rationality when faced with choices.
I hope that every friend who enters the year of the sixtieth year can find inner peace and the rhythm of life. Let us greet the dawn of every morning with a peaceful heart and enjoy the tranquility of every night. In the process, our hearts will become more tranquil and our lives will be more hopeful and vibrant. With a deep love for life, we move on and enjoy this wonderful journey of life.
Author: Lao Pang
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