It is not easy for people to live to the age of seventy, of course, at this age, generally speaking, whether it is life or life, there will be a deep feeling.
This is a 70-year-old testimonial from a wise old man, so well written, it is worth reading!
Although not all dreams can be realized one by one, it is not easy to leave regrets if you work hard.
There are many things that we pursue in this life, such as some people want to make more money, some people want to buy a house, some people want to find a satisfactory partner, some people want to have both children and daughters, some people want to be healthy, and so on.
Although not all dreams can be realized, and sometimes even if you work hard, you may not be able to succeed. But many times it is really to obey the destiny of God, we just have to work hard, as for whether this matter has a result, no one can say, but as long as he has put in enough effort, even if there is no result, or it is not successful, he at least looks back and thinks about it later, there will not be so many regrets, anyway, he has already made efforts.
Moreover, in the process of this struggle, it can be regarded as a kind of growth, relatively speaking, you can also gain some experience, and your ability in some aspects will be improved accordingly.
In real life, sometimes you will bend your waist for five buckets of rice. But no matter how stressful it is, be sure to put your health first.
Money has played a very important role in our lives since ancient times. As long as we have money, many problems will be solved, because everything in life can be said to cost money. For example, food, clothing, housing, transportation, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, these things in life basically cost money.
Therefore, many of us have to work hard to earn more money, but no matter how much pressure there is, even if it is for five buckets of rice. We must put physical health in the first place, and occasionally overdraft once or twice is not a big physical problem, but if you overdraft your body for a long time, many people simply can't bear it.
If you exchange your health for money when you are young, you may have to spend money to buy health when you are old in the future, and you may not be able to buy health back after spending money.
It is enough to have a partner for the rest of your life, whether you are divorced or widowed, it is best not to look for it again. If you must look for it, then you must keep your eyes open.
This is not to say that those who remarry are necessarily having a bad time, and it can be seen from these people around us that some people who remarry are also living happily. But there is a problem of probability, which cannot be ignored, remarriage has been good, but there is a high probability that it is not good.
After all, remarriage in old age is a more complex issue, and it is not just a matter between two elderly people. It can even be said that it is a matter between two large families. Moreover, the elderly are in poor physical condition, and it is more expensive to see a doctor. Some elderly people do not have enough pension to spend, and if the wife they find is still sick at every turn, then the money is even more insufficient.
Although a person's life is indeed a bit lonely, but finding another wife, it is generally accompanied by the emergence of certain problems, from a practical point of view, finding another one is often more harmful than beneficial, so this kind of thing, one in this life is enough, if you are single in old age, it is recommended not to look for it.
If you don't usually earn a lot of money, try to get into the habit of saving money.
This sentence seems to be a bit contradictory at first glance, you don't earn much, it's not enough to spend, how can you save it? But in reality, that's not exactly the case.
If we spend lavishly, we can spend even more money, and if we save a little money, we can save a little bit even if we earn less. It's like squeezing toothpaste, and you can still squeeze out a little bit.
Savings are quite important for everyone, because in special circumstances, when there is an urgent need to spend money, a little deposit will not be so troublesome, so that you will not need to borrow money everywhere.
Therefore, if you don't make much money, try to get into the habit of saving money. Of course, if you don't make much, it's impossible to save too much money, so even if you save 180 yuan a month, it's better than saving a penny at all. I believe you also understand the principle that although you only save a few dozen yuan a month, it can be regarded as a small fortune in a year or a few years.
True happiness is sometimes not material, but the ability to be content in one's own heart.
People who are greedy and lack of possession always feel that they are not enough, but they are content people, even if they do not have many things, but contentment can always be happy.
In addition, it is not so easy to cross classes, and some people are destined to be just ordinary people, so it is better to be content as much as possible, and relatively speaking, you can live a happier life.