Lin Qingxia and Hu Yinmeng
Text: Muxike
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Film and television works often like to amplify people's love and hate, but as everyone knows, real life is even more absurd.
A well-known genius at home and abroad, he personally performed a bloody drama of "how deep love is, how much pain is in hate".
One is the first madman in Taiwan's literary circle, and the other is the first generation of beauty in Taiwan.
Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng
After Li Ao and Hu Yinmeng got married for 112 days, the two walked out of the divorce press conference and took photos with a smile.
Later, Li Ao scolded his ex-wife for 37 years.
What's going on?
Li Ao's "madness" and "absurdity"
How crazy is Li Ao?
Four words, scolded all over celebrities.
How powerful is Li Ao?
It's still four words, tongue battle group Confucianism.
If you look at the evaluations of many celebrities about Li Ao, it is simply rich.
From the perspective of morality, some people scolded him for being arrogant and domineering, having no one in his eyes, and being talented but not virtuous.
Some people also supported him and sighed at him, who was buried until he was 70 years old before ushering in a life opportunity, leaving a strong mark on the historical stage of cross-strait reunification.
He is a supporter of the reunification of the motherland with clear thinking and one enemy against one hundred enemies, and he is also a scholar who speaks sharply and laughs and scolds.
It is indeed rare to have such knowledge as Li Ao.
His "mouth cannon" is not always used to attack others.
I can stand on the podium of Peking University, talk eloquently, laugh and say that I am nervous, and I still need to memorize the script.
can also be at his fingertips, in the face of the impassioned question of the young man "why can't Taiwan become independent through a democratic referendum", he is neither humble nor arrogant, and he is clear and organized, and he has become the best debater who can easily make the other party speechless.
However, these are the images that Li Ao shows in front of the world, in the eyes of his lover, what about him?
And such a person, who fell in love with the heroine of today's story at first sight, got married and divorced in a flash, and still held on to it after more than 30 years, "scolding and scolding", which is really strange.
If there is anything that can add another "incredible" to this story, it is the birthday wishes that the woman sent when she was 60 years old:
"Suddenly looking back, the crowd is no longer looking for her, and Yunshen doesn't know where to go."
It's nostalgia.
Lin Qingxia and Hu Yinmeng both knew Li Ao
The "rebellious" Huin dream
Hu Yinmeng is very special, not only in appearance, but also in character.
This probably goes back to Hu Yinmeng's parents.
Hu's father has a good appearance, and he is also Kochi, and has studied in famous schools at home and abroad.
Hu's mother is not ordinary, her family is not bad, she is also good at dancing with long sleeves, and she can write complaints for relatives when she is a teenager.
One day, when a handsome man breaks into her world, love at first sight begins.
It's just that their love tragedy has already been foreshadowed, and the two were still immersed in the joy of becoming parents for the first time.
The daughters in the film and television regard money as dung one by one, and do not comment on whether this concept is correct or not, but Hu Mu is the other extreme.
Competitive in character, open to money in his bones, and calculating in life.
Trivialities have become the "fuse" of daily parental quarrels, and such a family atmosphere, not to mention what kind of depression.
The relationship between the two broke down completely after Hu's father's derailment.
As a result, his father often did not go home, and Hu Yinmeng spent his chaotic childhood under his mother's "gun and stick".
In the junior high school joint entrance examination, Hu Yinmeng was not admitted to any school.
Fortunately, her father brought her to Taipei, which gave her a new opportunity to study.
Rao is like this, the adolescent Hu Yinmeng, "rebellion" is gradually emerging.
Open the German book she majored in at university, which contains all kinds of horoscopes mixed with Huyin's dreams, and she is also obsessed with philosophy, existentialism is a headache for her, but she can't help but think about it.
More than that, Hu Yinmeng dropped out of school after two years and went on to work for a modeling agency.
Until he was 20 years old, he was excavated by director Xu Jinliang and filmed his first work, and Hu Yinmeng went to the United States for further study.
Not only did she get to see the red light and green wine when she first entered the society, but her time in New York also made her deeply feel the collision of multiple cultures.
This point has to be mentioned again in the trajectory of her future life.
But that's all for later.
At that time, she had an idol in her heart, named Li Ao.
When a beam of light pierces the dullness of the dark room
Rewind the year to 1979.
Hu Yinmeng, who returned to Taiwan from New York, has filmed many works one after another, as if she is already a popular female star of a generation.
No one could have imagined that at a friend's party, she would one day really be able to meet her idol.
At that time, Li Ao had just made a comeback, which shook the Taiwanese literary scene for a while.
Li Ao took her to coffee and took her to his home in Jinlan Building.
Hu Yinmeng was barefoot, just looking at the richness of Li Ao's book collection, he was amazed and speechless.
At that time, Li Ao didn't pay much attention to her reaction, but all his attention was on Hu Yinmeng's feet.
Li Ao may have a "foot fetish".
A girl who advocates wisdom and a mature man who has experienced the world, and their love affair is about to break out.
At that time, Hu Yinmeng was 26 years old and Li Ao was 44 years old.
But in fact, Li Ao had a lover at that time, Liu Huiyun.
accompanied him through the most difficult years, and because Li Ao refused to get married, the two have been living together.
How do you confess to her?
Unexpectedly, the woman's delicate mind saw Li Ao with wandering eyes, and the brand-new love letter in the drawer, she had already understood it.
Perhaps out of uneasy conscience, Li Ao still gave Liu Huiyun 2.1 million Hong Kong dollars as a breakup fee for studying in the United States.
However, no matter how you look at it, this years-long relationship ended too happily.
I don't know if Hu Yinmeng will regret that when he thinks about it in the future, he thinks about love too simply?
Hu Yinmeng, who fell in love, quickly moved over.
Every morning I wake up, and when I open my eyes, the person who is out of reach is in front of me.
Hu Yinmeng felt that just thinking about it, I was afraid that he would laugh out loud even when he dreamed.
The two entered the palace of marriage, and even appeared in the American "Time" magazine for a time, and they were talented and beautiful, which was enviable.
Unexpectedly, on August 28, 1980, just over three months later, Li Ao held a divorce press conference with Hu Yinmeng.
When the afternoon sun was tilting, he took 9 roses and drove the luxury car to Hu Yinmeng's downstairs, and reporters flocked to it for a while.
The latter walked out slowly, took the flowers, and hugged Li Ao, and finally the two said goodbye with a smile.
3 months and 22 days, this marriage seems to be like a dream, bowing his head, but his fingers are pierced by roses, bright and embarrassed.
Paranoid possessiveness
If you talk about the reason, Hu Yinmeng found that liking a person's talent is not the same as liking that person.
If you open Li Ao's long and huge works, you will know that he spends more time at the desk every day than he imagined.
In one day, from the study to the bedroom, it covers almost the farthest distance he travels.
Reading, looking for information, even for ten days and half a month, the curtains will not be opened.
All of this is too different from the enthusiastic and unrestrained Hu Yinmeng.
Occasionally, she would sit on her husband's lap and coquettishly let him accompany her.
Of course, Li Ao could feel that the fresh and hot heart was pounding.
It's just that he is used to suppressing himself.
This is not unrelated to Li Ao's troubled experience.
In 1971, Li Ao was imprisoned for political issues, suffered a lot of warmth and coldness in the world, and also experienced hardships in the world.
is quietly building a wall of heart, stubbornly not allowing anyone, including himself, to cross it.
If this is the case, it is actually human nature.
But he was proud, suspicious, and even often treated others as his own.
not only interfered with Hu Yinmeng, who went out to exercise, but also said that "she is not allowed to make eye contact with other men";
often quarrels with Hu Yinmeng over a trivial matter.
At first, Hu Yinmeng was often quite angry, but later, she slowly remained silent.
Later, Hu Yinmeng reflected that he only knew better how to please himself physically and mentally in the relationship between the sexes.
And these are things that seem to be unconventional and unconventional, but in fact conservative and often self-enclosed, Li Ao can't do it.
It's just that after seeing the equally excellent but so bright Hu Yinmeng, he refuses to admit his hypocrisy and weakness.
Even Lin Qingxia said that standing with Hu Yinmeng, I will be overshadowed.
And after many years, Li Ao, who criticized his ex-wife, will still subconsciously express his beauty:
On every occasion, Hu Yinmeng's dazzling eyes can snatch everyone's eyes.
However, looking at Li Ao's rhetoric, he often contradicts himself.
Sometimes he said that Hu Yinmeng's "earth-shattering" beauty was beautiful, and sometimes he secretly complained that Hu Yinmeng's makeup was very different before and after makeup.
It's hard to figure out what he's trying to say.
And Li Ao is not only extremely possessive that Hu Yinmeng can't understand, but also breaks her illusion about the word "idol" at the level of justice.
During the marriage, Xiao Mengneng sued Li Ao in court, probably because Xiao Mengneng transferred his property privately for some unspeakable reasons and handed it over to his friend Li Ao for safekeeping, but the latter was suspected of embezzling his property.
There is no way to verify the reason. It's just that in the end, Li Ao was sentenced to 6 months in prison by the court, and afterwards Li Ao found an opportunity to sue Xiao Mengneng, who also stepped on the sewing machine for 6 months.
The whole thing, Hu Yinmeng has been mentioned repeatedly, and even became the "fuse" for the divorce of the two.
Why is that?
It seems to be a victory, but it is never forgotten
It turned out that Hu Yinmeng helped Xiao Mengneng prove in the case.
At first, Li Ao was very angry and angrily accused Hu Yinmeng of perjury.
However, after the divorce, Li Ao sent a message to Hu Yinmeng, saying that he wanted to find a quiet place to have a good chat.
Let's ask, if Hu Yinmeng really committed perjury, even if he never forgets the old love, he should see it clearly this time.
But Li Ao's attitude is "slapping himself in the face" every minute.
After it was difficult to reunite with Hu Yin's dream, Li Ao repeatedly made disrespectful remarks.
It is said that he is most famous for "scolding" the other party in seven consecutive episodes of his own show.
Hu Yinmeng will also fight back at the beginning.
Later, I seemed to understand that in this war of words, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, so I gradually stopped paying attention to it.
This marriage, which lasted less than 4 months, seems to be the one who is light and breezy.
But in fact, only you know best how deep the damage you have brought to yourself.
After divorcing Li Ao, she began to withdraw from the entertainment industry, and the influence of philosophy on her in the past is no longer the same.
By chance, she came into contact with the Indian philosopher Krishnamurti, and she began to focus on translation and writing, and the opportunity for self-repair.
Later, she also published an autobiography.
When Hu Yinmeng was 50 years old, Li Ao went against the norm and sent 50 flowers to his ex-wife.
In that 60th birthday wish, "Cloud Deep Unknown" was the first movie Hu Yinmeng starred in when he was 20 years old.
Hu Yinmeng, who has accepted foreign open-mindedness, is vivid and bright, and even his treatment of gender relations is very different from that in China.
To some extent, this is also one of the most attractive things about Li Ao about her.
It's just that after marriage, Li Ao, who boasted of his arrogance in his life, found that he couldn't control this person.
epilogue
Human nature is like two sides of a coin, and there can never be only heads.
In this relationship, Hu Yinmeng has lived like Li Ao's "unimaginable" appearance from beginning to end.
scolded for 40 years, but "chased" for 40 years.
And Li Ao himself may have understood very late what the feelings that dare not face them are.
Reference: "Marriage is short but turbulent, and I was scolded by my ex-husband Li Ao for 30 years - Hu Yinmeng"
"Li Ao debated with "Taiwan Poison", answering questions without leaking, leaving the other party speechless