In China, a society full of humanistic care, the construction of interpersonal relationships is often accompanied by a strong human touch.
When a man and a woman consider a blind date, the man usually takes the initiative to invite the woman to dinner, regardless of whether they can eventually walk together, which not only reflects basic social etiquette, but also a show of respect and sincerity.
This meal is not only a respect for the woman's time and energy, but also an important opportunity for both parties to get to know each other better and enhance their relationship. In a warm and harmonious atmosphere, two hearts may be able to get closer to each other and lay a solid foundation for a beautiful relationship in the future.
This custom not only demonstrates the traditional virtues of Chinese culture, but also reflects the importance that people attach to emotional communication and interpersonal interaction in modern society.
Recently, a woman shared that she went on a blind date with a boy and took the initiative to check out, and gave her gold as a gift, and opened the box and looked up speechless. Netizens said that this man is doing a good job.
In the picture, a woman and a man are introduced on a blind date, and in order to have a deeper understanding, the two meet to eat.
While eating, the man took the woman into a relatively upscale restaurant. Holding the menu, each ordered their favorite food.
During the meal, the two had communication, although they were not very satisfied, but they were generally passable. It can be further developed and learned more.
When I was almost eating, the man said, "I've eaten almost enough, are you okay?"
The woman had almost finished eating, and said, "I'm all right too."
"Alright, then I'll go check out!" As he said this, the man took out a box containing jewelry from his bag and gave it to the woman.
The woman was suddenly full of joy, thinking that love had really come, and look, people wanted to settle things so quickly.
After the man left, the woman secretly opened the box, and was instantly dumbfounded, where is this jewelry, it is obviously a bill for eating.
The woman felt like she had been tricked on the spot, and when she looked up at the man, the man had already walked out of the store and left.
Looking at the bill, the woman couldn't cry or laugh, thinking that she had to settle all the accounts, but when she looked carefully, the one that the man ordered by himself had already been settled, and his own share had not yet been settled.
The man's intention was not to take a fancy to her, he didn't want to spend a penny on her, and he wanted to AA with her.
Although the man paid for his meal, the woman felt that he was still a little undignified, ungenerous, and unmanly. What happens to men and women on their first date and inviting someone to dinner? Can a few dozen dollars make you poor?
Dozens of dollars are still so careful, no wonder I can't find a daughter-in-law.
Looking at the bill, the woman was glad that she did not continue to associate with such a man, and it was good to stop the loss in time.
If you get along with such a calculating man for a long time, you must be disgusting.
For such a scene, netizens watched it and discussed a lot, some netizens said, the details see the character, a girl is willing to come out to meet you, and she is reluctant to invite someone to dinner, no wonder you can't find a daughter-in-law at an age.
Some netizens said that this is the legendary iron rooster man. This kind of man is destined not to find a daughter-in-law.
However, some netizens believe that if they don't like it, there is no need to spend money in vain. Whose money is not money, when you walk out of this store, no one will know anyone in the future, so there is no need to spend money on each other.
Author's point of view
When a man and a woman go on a first date, half of them are men who invite them to dinner. It's an unwritten rule.
Doing so invisibly gives the woman a good impression. Even if they don't end up together, men give the impression of a good character.
And what this man did was not necessarily too stingy. Although this is true, it feels too much to do.
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