Wei Jia posted another article asking Gao Yalin to apologize, which aroused heated discussions among netizens
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Hello everyone, I'm Wei Jia. Today, I published an article again, asking Gao Yalin to apologize, and at the same time announcing that I am ready to work again and welcome a new life. I believe many people are curious why I chose to publicly tell my experience and ask Gao Yalin to apologize. Today, let's talk about this topic and see what kind of story is behind it.
Wei Jia's love story: from a good wife and mother to an independent woman
When I was 24 years old, I entered the show business with a dream. At that time, I was full of expectations for this industry and dreamed of realizing my value through hard work. At work, I met someone who considered himself an ideal partner who gave me a false sense of security and happiness. As the relationship deepened, I thought I was the luckiest woman in the world.
So, when the other party asked me to give up my career and become a good wife and mother, I agreed without hesitation. For the sake of love, I chose to compromise, thinking that this was the only way to happiness. However, it turns out that I underestimated the complexity of life and the fickleness of the human heart. After becoming a mother, I realized that life is not a fairy tale, and I am not a fairy tale princess. Netizens always like to say: "For the sake of love, Wei Jia's choice was really capricious, but it turned out to be a large-scale face slap scene." I can only laugh at this, life is really a drama that does not follow the script.
In this unequal love, I slowly lost myself, and the other party's cheating behavior made the relationship full of distrust and betrayal. A series of incidents such as cheating during pregnancy and not being by my side when I gave birth to a baby and bleeding made me realize that I was just a pawn in his hands that could be controlled. I kept blaming myself at the time, thinking that it was my own problem: was there something I didn't do well enough, not gentle enough, not virtuous enough? I blamed all his mistakes on myself, what a terrible self-brainwashing! Netizens couldn't help but ridicule: "Wei Jia is on the 'ecstasy soup', if he had the current sobriety at that time, it might not be this result." ”
Mom and Independence: A Battle of Wits and Courage
I lost myself in my marriage and faced a lot of mental and emotional pressure. My world almost collapsed when I found out that the other person was cheating during pregnancy and even lost contact when I was bleeding profusely when I gave birth. Still, I hope to salvage the relationship and think it's my problem. Even the obvious fact that he used his family's money to maintain relationships with other women, I tried to make excuses for him. People say that a woman in love has zero IQ, and I can only say that I was really verifying this sentence with practical actions at that time.
Finally, after the birth of my child, I decided not to indulge in such a life anymore. I chose to leave with my children because I couldn't stand such people continuing to hurt me in my life. I tried to protect my child, but the other party kept threatening me with child support and hukou issues, forcing me to return to him, and even threatening to take the child away. Faced with this situation, I just want to shout: "Want children? I think you're thinking too beautifully! ”
During these days of living alone with my children, I was constantly looking for ways to heal myself and get myself back on my feet. To be honest, this experience made me re-examine the meaning of life and the nature of love. Through this, I finally understood that I could no longer be bound by the shadows of the past, but should be brave enough to embrace the future. As netizens often ridiculed: "Wei Jia, this time you have to take a good look at "The Legend of Zhen Huan", you must not repeat the mistakes of the past!" ”
Commitment and re-choice: There is no right or wrong in life
After thinking and growing up for a long time, I realized that there is no absolute right or wrong in life, only different choices and the consequences of those choices. I chose to love someone and paid the price, and now I choose to love myself and look forward to the challenges ahead. As I said, every choice has a price, and everyone bears their own choices.
Netizens also have mixed opinions on this point, some people say: "Wei Jia has finally woken up, and the future will definitely be better." Some people also joked: "If you choose to love yourself, you have to hold on, and don't have another 'pain package'!" "Anyway, I'm no longer dwelling on the past, but facing the future bravely and trying to become a better version of myself.
This experience made me understand that there is no such thing as failure on the road of life, only the process of growth. Through this, I have learned to look at life more clearly and to appreciate what I have more. Now, I'm ready to get back to work and take on a new life. Facing the future, I am full of confidence because I know that I already have enough courage and strength.
Netizens are hotly discussed: Why should family problems be made public?
However, netizens also have different opinions about my approach to making these experiences public. Some people expressed their support for me daring to break the silence and use my story to encourage others facing similar difficulties to come out of it. Some people believe that family conflicts should be resolved privately, not brought to the table. This view sparked a heated discussion in the comment section.
Some netizens said: "Why do you talk about things at home, can't you solve it yourself?" "In this regard, I would like to say that I hope that by making these experiences public, more people will pay attention to the status and rights of women in marriage. Some netizens commented: "Wei Jia is pulling traffic for himself, right?" "Actually, that's not my intention to make these things public, I just hope that my story can bring food for thought and inspiration to more people.
For this storm of public opinion, some netizens also have their own humorous interpretations. Some netizens said: "Wei Jia is staging a live-action version of 'The Legend of Zhen Huan', but this season is a bit bloody." Another person commented: "Every time I see news like this, I know that I can work harder and better, at least I won't fall into such a pit." This remark may seem ridiculous, but it also reflects many people's different understandings and views on life.
Controversy continues: whose choice, whose cost?
In this incident, netizens have different opinions on who should apologize and who should be responsible. Some people believe that Gao Yalin should be held responsible for his actions and apologize to Wei Jia; There are also people who feel that Wei Jia should not take these things out and talk about them, because it will not help solve the problem. Someone questioned: "Is Wei Jia hype?" "I would like to say that I just hope that through my experience, more people will reflect on family and marriage issues.
In my opinion, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, whether it is to pursue love or choose independence, it is personal freedom. It's important to take responsibility for your choices and face them bravely, no matter what the outcome may be. As netizens ridiculed: "When choosing someone to love, you have to consider the consequences; Choose to love yourself, and be prepared. ”
I am looking forward to the future, I know that life will not be easy, but I have enough courage and wisdom to face it. No matter what, I will continue to work hard to make my life better. As for whether Gao Yalin apologizes, I am no longer obsessed, because I know that my future is in my own hands. Netizens may also wish to come to the comment area to chat and see what you think about this matter, and maybe they can "open their minds online" together!
Everyone is welcome to share their views in the comment area and talk about your views on the "love-hate relationship" between Wei Jia and Gao Yalin. Life is not easy, everyone must work hard to live their own wonderful life!