Gao Yalin, who was in a lot of trouble because of the "cheating during pregnancy", posted an inexplicable piece of chicken soup on the Internet yesterday: After a long time of kindness, finally character.
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What the hell is he trying to do? He is also embarrassed to talk about "character"?
Netizen: Less B.
But when you think about it, of course he's embarrassed.
Because the underlying logic of thinking is different between people.
Only when a person talks about morality, morality will restrain you;
If a person's bottom line is not high, they usually don't feel ashamed, and they don't even feel that they have made any mistakes.
The other party made a lot of trouble, and was forced to deal with it by public opinion.
When the limelight is over, try to show your face to see the reaction of the masses, and then understate some chicken soup, confuse the concept, blur right and wrong, so as to turn the page as soon as possible, and don't affect the money.
For example, Wang Guiyuan, a doctoral supervisor at Renmin University who was recently reported by female students with his real name for "sexual harassment and forced indecency".
At the age of 62, he is disrespectful to the old, and he has to be a "husband and wife" with his female students. If the other party does not comply, he threatens not to let the other party graduate.
The girl couldn't bear it anymore, and she fought to break the net, and her real name was exposed.
The National People's Congress reacted quickly, and the king called the beast to be punished as it should be, and he will face legal costs in the future.
But will he regret what he did.
No, comrades.
He will only think that he is unlucky, unlucky, and meets a female madman and grabs him.
This is the core logic of this type of people.
Gao Yalin was once loved by many for the corner of Xia Donghai in "Family with Children", and was once known as the "national father".
He has not made many new works over the years, but he has a lot of resources, and he is considered an "invisible boss" in the circle.
Two months ago, actor Wei Jia, who was Gao Yalin's former live-in girlfriend and his daughter's mother, publicly exposed Gao Yalin, saying that he cheated during pregnancy, and when she was 5 months pregnant, he choked her neck and slapped her violently.
Wei Jia obviously held his breath for too long, and he didn't vomit unpleasantly. On July 12, she posted a video again, saying that in the past three years with Gao, she is better off than dead.
Crazy control over her, pua.
She had to tell him all kinds of passwords. The men who appeared in her life, he had to interrogate them one by one, and let her explain all kinds of causes and consequences and secret details with this person.
Just because the online teacher was a man, Gao also smashed her computer.
"There's a fly flying around, as long as it's male, it's not good."
He often used all kinds of dirty words to scold her and humiliate her.
Beat her until her bones were cracked, and then assault her.
Stalking her parents who threatened her.
He himself was cheating, and when Wei Jia was bleeding after giving birth to a child, he was busy dating his lover.
Later, Wei Jia left with the child, and he threatened her with child support and household registration to let her come back.
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But, why did Wei Jia endure it for three years? That's what we need to think about.
In the entertainment industry, it is difficult for a girl with no background to get ahead. She thought that she had met a backer who could help her shelter from the wind and rain, but she didn't know that it was this person who brought her the biggest wind and rain.
The two faces in front of and behind the person, showing affection in public, like a ghost in private.
On the one hand, all kinds of control, insults, and violence are opposed, and on the other hand, she will apologize, kneel, and all kinds of overtures, and even if she doesn't forgive him, she will jump off the building.
If a girl is not mentally strong, she will really be PUA, she will doubt herself, and she will think that she really loves herself, but she can't control her temper.
In addition, the interpersonal circle is getting narrower and the social support system is blocked, and it is impossible to see what a normal and healthy relationship between the sexes really looks like. At the same time, she may also feel ashamed and embarrassed to tell relatives and friends.
Over time, the sense of powerlessness becomes stronger and stronger, and he will even brainwash himself.
Fortunately, Wei Jia finally woke up to the fact that she wanted to be a strong mother, and she wanted to give her daughter a safe and healthy living environment. If she doesn't leave, her daughter will only grow up in fear.
There is also the "sexual harassment" of Professor Wang Moumou of the National People's Congress.
Wang Di, a female doctor of the National People's Congress, reported in her real name, claiming that her doctoral supervisor, Wang Moumou, sexually harassed and forcibly molested her, and asked to have sex with her. Wang Di didn't comply, Wang Moumou became angry, suppressed her in various ways in the past two years, and threatened to make her unable to complete her doctoral degree.
I listened to the recording of the revelation a little, but I couldn't listen to it anymore, polluting my ears.
Fortunately, the people's congress responded quickly, and the handling was clear and resolute enough.
Only when the price is big enough and the deterrent power is strong enough, those well-dressed beasts will know how to restrain and try to treat themselves as individuals.
Gao Yalin and the king of the National People's Congress are actually two typical examples.
One has status and resources in the entertainment industry, and is considered a senior in the circle;
A person with a high position in a university should be a teacher.
However, they are all glamorous in front of people, dirty behind people, and what is exposed is shocking.
Sometimes I think about it, how lucky a girl must be to get through this life safely and smoothly?
Perhaps one of the most important issues for young girls is."
Career success does not mean that you are reliable.
Just because he has money doesn't mean he will definitely spend it on you, or it may just give you a ring.
Knowing this, there are no unrealistic illusions about human nature.
When getting along, be on basic alert and keep yourself safe.
When you are tired and tired, you might as well hold on a little longer.
If you survive it, it will be bright. Instead of rushing to find someone to rely on, but ignoring the examination of the other party's character.
When faced with infringement and unfair treatment, firmly stop it, speak out bravely, and actively seek help.
The other party will not start because you are a white rabbit, but will be cautious to pick it because you have thorns in the flower.
Go crazy in time, never have internal friction, and be a person who is not easy to mess with.
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