Wei Jia and Gao Yalin's grievances and hatred: a modern emotional drama
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Wei Jia posted on social media again this time to ask Gao Yalin to apologize, once again pushing this "emotional drama" to a climax. Many netizens watched and said that while "eating melons", they also had a lot of questions in their hearts: What kind of story made this former actor so resentful, and what kind of experience made her resolutely embark on the road to work again?
At the age of 24, Wei Jia chose her passion for her profession - actor. However, fate always likes to play tricks on people, and she met a man who thinks he is "ideal love" at work, Gao Yalin. At that time, Wei Jia thought that he had found a home in life, so he listened to the other party's request, put down his career, and willingly played the role of "good wife and mother". This transformation sounds like the plot of a romantic movie, but I never thought that it would go down the road of a bloody drama. Some people say that "for love, a woman can become anything", but Wei Jia's sacrifice did not bring the expected happiness. With Gao Yalin's marital derailment, Wei Jia's life was like a slap in the face, and the soap bubble of happiness was ruthlessly punctured. At this time, some netizens ridiculed, "This may be the love version of 'Where is life not the same', but this plot is a bit too realistic."
During her pregnancy, Wei Jia discovered that Gao Yalin was cheating, which was tantamount to a devastating blow at her most vulnerable. Even when she gave birth, Gao Yalin was not around to support, but was busy entangled with other women, this experience was not only a psychological and physical blow to Wei Jia, but also made her question her own existence value and choice. In her opinion, her status as a "good woman" seems to have never been recognized by Gao Yalin. In this process, she lost herself step by step, constantly reflecting on whether she let the other party cheat because she was not obedient and obedient enough. Netizens couldn't help but shake their heads and sigh after seeing it: "Hasn't this sister heard 'there are only 0 and countless times of cheating'?" Why bother making excuses for other people's mistakes? ”
The price of being a good wife and mother
Not only that, Gao Yalin also used PUA (psychological manipulation) to induce Wei Jia to believe that all his misfortunes were self-inflicted. He inflicted mental abuse on Wei Jia, and every time he did something to her, he staged a scene of kneeling down and begging for forgiveness. What's even more exaggerated is that she also used the "threat of jumping off the building" to force her to submit, which makes people sigh that the plot reversal is so fast that it is comparable to the blood of Korean dramas. Wei Jia was trapped in it, as if she was in a whirlpool, and she once thought that she was the "unbearable woman" in Gao Yalin's mouth. Netizens were upset with Wei Jia, "What kind of horror movie is this?" Sure enough, life is more outrageous than the TV series! ”
In the process of constant self-doubt, Wei Jia realized that if she continued like this, her life would be completely out of control. Full of anger and unwillingness, she resolutely decided to leave this once fantasy "happy family" with her children. However, Gao Yalin did not stop there. He used child support and hukou issues to put pressure on Wei Jia in an attempt to force her back to him, and even threatened to snatch the child over. Netizens couldn't help but complain: "This brother is simply a negative teaching material for a domineering president, even if you want to be a good person in life, you have to be a little self-aware!" ”
Wei Jia was determined not to swallow her anger anymore, and she proved her determination with practical actions. She can't give her child to a man who once cheated during her childbearing years and was gone without a trace when she gave birth. In Wei Jia's view, the child is the continuation of her life and a part of her body, and she will never let the child fall into the hands of an irresponsible father. At this point, Wei Jia understands that he must make the wisest choice for his future and that of his children. Netizens couldn't help but leave messages: "This eldest sister is also real! Reborn in the ruins of love, not every woman can be so brave. ”
Wei Jia's path to rebirth
After leaving Gao Yalin, Wei Jia kept looking for ways to heal herself, and she tried to come out of the shadows of the past. She began to rebuild her life, repick her dream of being an actress, and welcome a new life of her own. This courage and perseverance are admirable, and many netizens also cheered for Wei Jia, "You look so beautiful when you are brave enough to chase your dreams!" Keep up the good work, we will always support you! Someone even ridiculed in the comment area: "Girl, this is the best time for you to return to the entertainment industry, maybe you can act in an inspirational movie based on real events!" ”
Wei Jia said that now she is able to face the past calmly and openly tell her experience, which is like revealing her scars to everyone. She also realizes that there is no absolute right or wrong in a relationship, only individual choices. And every choice comes with a price, and this is a responsibility that everyone must bear. Wei Jia said frankly that she chose to love Gao Yalin and bear the consequences that followed. Today, she chooses to love herself and embrace the future. This kind of calmness and relief makes people can't help but sigh: "Life is like a play, and loving yourself is the ultimate winner." ”
The Terminal of Love: Self-Growth and Reconciliation
In this incident, Wei Jia used her personal experience to show the public the various difficulties that women may encounter in emotional relationships, and also drew more attention to the problems of inequality and emotional manipulation in marriage. Although Wei Jia's story is full of twists and turns, her control of her life and hope for the future are moving. Netizens said: "This is not only an emotional story, but also an inspirational blockbuster about self-redemption." Some netizens even humorously ridiculed: "Gao Yalin's 'long more than kindness and finally character' rhetoric is really ironic, can this kind of character be farther away?" ”
Wei Jia's experience also triggered the public's deep thinking about the concept of marriage, and some people asked: "What does happiness mean in marriage?" Others questioned, "If marriage is a test, how do we balance love and self?" Perhaps, as Wei Jia said, everyone's choice has a price, but the important thing is how to find yourself in the process and be brave enough to bear everything.
Wei Jia's public voice is not only a summary of his past, but also an expectation for the future. She uses her story to show that despite the challenges in life, as long as you have hope, you can usher in a new beginning. Netizens are constantly discussing, it seems that this emotional drama has not yet come to an end, the onlookers are still continuing, and Wei Jia is already on the road of self-growth and reconciliation. Netizens said: "I hope that my sister will meet the person who is willing to cherish her in her new life, instead of making a wrong choice like in the past." ”
In this "Wei Jia and Gao Yalin's grievances and hatred", everyone has become a character in the play, and Wei Jia's bravery and strength make this play have a different ending. Perhaps, true happiness does not lie in whether you have a perfect love, but in whether you can find your own clear sky after the wind and rain. This story makes people reflect and look forward to every step of Wei Jia's future. Netizens said: "Looking forward to my sister's next work, people who have stories in their lives should be more flavorful in acting, right?" "I'm afraid this play hasn't come to the curtain call yet.