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On January 5, 1985, Hong Kong's "Pistachio" Shen Dianxia wore a blue cheongsam and hurriedly boarded a flight to Canada. The groom she is about to marry is the popular star Zheng Shaoqiu, but the wedding seems hasty and slightly bleak.
Let's go back in time and uncover this emotional entanglement that spanned 12 years. From the unexpected breakup letter in 1973, to the hasty wedding in 1985, to the final disillusionment and rebirth.
We will explore the deep love and endless regret carried by the blue cheongsam, and witness all that a woman has given for love, as well as her ultimate self-redemption.
Shen Dianxia was born in bustling Shanghai in 1945 as the sixth child in a wealthy family. She had a carefree childhood, with five older sisters and three younger brothers growing up with her, and her father ran a salt business.
However, the gears of fate quietly turned, and in 1958, 13-year-old Shen Dianxia moved to Hong Kong with her family, and a new page in her life began.
In Hong Kong, the acting talent of the girl Shen Dianxia is gradually revealed. She has a passion for singing, dancing and reciting, and is always excited to show off her talents whenever people gather.
With the dream of becoming an acting star, 15-year-old Shen Dianxia seized the first opportunity in her life. In 1960, she hid from her father and secretly participated in the casting of the Shaw Brothers movie "A Tree of Peach Blossoms and a Thousand Reds".
This experience strengthened her determination to pursue a career in acting.
In 1967, Hong Kong TVB was established, and Shen Dianxia resolutely joined and became a veteran member. In the same year, she hosted the longest-lived variety show "Happy Tonight" in Hong Kong history, and quickly won the audience's love with her unique image and affinity.
Shen Dianxia, who is plump, wears butterfly-shaped glasses and has a unique owl hairstyle, has become an indispensable "pistachio" in the hearts of Hong Kong audiences.
In "Happy Tonight", Shen Dianxia had the opportunity to interview many film and television superstars, such as Teresa Teng, Lin Qingxia, Zhen Zhen and Ouyang Feifei. Her outstanding performance soon became the "treasure of the town" of Hong Kong TVB.
Shen Dianxia's career is thriving, and she has used her talent and hard work to transform from a rich girl to a well-known "pistachio" in Hong Kong.
However, just when Shen Dianxia's career was in full swing, an unexpected episode changed the trajectory of her life. Who would have thought that this "pistachio", who brought laughter to countless audiences, was about to embark on an emotional journey full of tears.
In 1973, a seemingly ordinary letter became the key to changing Shen Dianxia's fate. This letter not only allowed her to meet the love of her life, but also laid the groundwork for her future life.
In 1973, Shen Dianxia's life took a dramatic turn due to an unexpected breakup letter. Her friend Sen Sen, who is also a well-known host of Hong Kong TVB, entrusted her to forward a letter to Zheng Shaoqiu.
This seemingly simple move has become a critical moment that changed the fate of the two.
At that time, Zheng Shaoqiu had just joined TVB and was enthusiastically pursuing Sensen. The two conveyed their love through letters, and their relationship was sweet. However, Sen Sen's mother is skeptical about Zheng Shaoqiu's future, believing that he will not be able to provide a stable life for her daughter.
Under pressure from his mother, Sen Sen had to write this breakup letter.
Shen Dianxia mistakenly thought it was a love letter, and handed the letter to Zheng Shaoqiu with joy. She also smiled and said, "Hey, please drink tea and brought you a love letter by the way."
However, at dinner time that night, Zheng Shaoqiu did not show up for a long time. It turned out that after he saw the breakup letter, he hid behind the kitchen door and wept silently.
When Shen Dianxia realized that she had made a big mistake, a sense of guilt arose. To make up for her mistakes, she invited Zheng Shaoqiu to dinner with her friends, hoping to ease his pain.
In this way, Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu gradually fell in love with each other day and night. In Shen Dianxia's words, their relationship was slowly cultivated in a long-term relationship.
Five years later, on May 14, 1978, an intimate photo of Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu appeared on the cover of a well-known Hong Kong newspaper, and the relationship between the two was officially made public, causing a sensation in Hong Kong.
However, this relationship was questioned from the beginning. Many people think that Shen Dianxia's appearance is difficult to match Zheng Shaoqiu, and they question that Zheng Shaoqiu must have ulterior motives when he is with her.
But for Shen Dianxia, love is blind. She devoted herself to this relationship and paid a huge amount of effort for Zheng Shaoqiu. She spared no effort to find a role for Zheng Shaoqiu that would make him famous overnight, handled his acting affairs personally, and even compressed her career to only one-third of the time.
As Zheng Shaoqiu later said frankly: "At that time, I relied on Ah Fei for almost everything.
Under the careful cultivation of Shen Dianxia, Zheng Shaoqiu's career has been rising. In 1976, he starred in the costume drama "Book of Swords and Enmity" for the first time, which attracted attention. Two years later, he took over the filming of the classic martial arts drama "Chu Liuxiang", and the reputation of "Xiang Shuai" made him the dream lover in the hearts of countless girls across the Taiwan Strait.
However, as Zheng Shaoqiu's star journey becomes more and more brilliant, their relationship is also facing greater challenges. In 1984, Zheng Shaoqiu's contract with TVB expired and he decided to go to Taiwan for development.
Shen Dianxia did not hesitate to follow in his footsteps, and even temporarily put on hold her work in "Happy Tonight". Her deep affection, instead of Zheng Shaoqiu's gratitude, became the fuse for the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
The fate-changing breakup letter not only allowed Shen Dianxia to meet her beloved, but also laid the groundwork for her future life. Since then, Shen Dianxia has begun an emotional journey full of laughter and tears.
In 1984, Zheng Shaoqiu's contract with Hong Kong TVB expired and he decided to go to Taiwan for development. Shen Dianxia did not hesitate to follow in his footsteps, and even temporarily put on hold her work in "Happy Tonight".
Her deep affection, instead of Zheng Shaoqiu's gratitude, became the fuse for the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
In Taiwan, Zheng Shaoqiu met the 20-year-old rising star Guan Jinghua. During the cooperation in the filming of "Chu Liuxiang Sequel", the two secretly fell in love and started a secret underground relationship.
Guan Jinghua's obsession with Zheng Shaoqiu has reached the point of madness, and Zheng Shaoqiu also has an unusual emotional impulse for this young and beautiful actress.
Although Shen Dianxia has an open-minded and cheerful personality, she is a woman who loves Zheng Shaoqiu deeply after all. She quickly noticed the anomaly around her, and her heart was tormented. At the end of 1984, Shen Dianxia went to San Francisco, United States, alone to attend an event.
Returning to Taiwan just three days later, she found herself unable to open the safe she shared with Zheng Shaoqiu.
After some hard work, she finally succeeded in opening the safe, but found evidence that Zheng Shaoqiu already had a new love. This discovery made Shen Dianxia like a lightning strike, and she realized that the man she loved had betrayed her.
Faced with the relationship that was about to be broken, Shen Dianxia chose to use marriage to save this love.
On January 5, 1985, she and Zheng Shaoqiu flew to Canada to complete their marriage. However, the wedding seemed hasty and bleak. Shen Dianxia did not have the wedding dress she dreamed of, so she could only wear a blue cheongsam that she had worn and married Zheng Shaoqiu.
This blue cheongsam became a testimony to the biggest regret of her life.
However, marriage failed to save Zheng Shaoqiu's heart. Only a year after getting married, he secretly met Guan Jinghua again. What's even more heart-wrenching is that Zheng Shaoqiu gave Shen Dianxia an ultimatum, asking her to have a child within three years, otherwise don't blame him for being ruthless.
In the face of this cruel request, 42-year-old Shen Dianxia resolutely conceived a child regardless of her risk of high blood pressure, diabetes and other diseases. The delivery process was extremely difficult, and the fetus could not be delivered smoothly, so a caesarean section was necessary.
In the state of hemi-body anesthesia, Shen Dianxia endured severe pain, just to witness the birth of the child with her own eyes.
However, at this critical moment, Zheng Shaoqiu was immersed in the warmth with Guan Jinghua and ignored his wife's pain. Shen Dianxia gritted her teeth and faced the hardships of childbirth alone, and no one could understand the pain in her heart.
When the child was two years old, Zheng Shaoqiu left the home shared with Shen Dianxia without hesitation. At this time, Shen Dianxia finally realized that this man never really belonged to her.
All the efforts and sacrifices are in exchange for nothing.
Looking back on this relationship, Shen Dianxia gave everything for love. Not only did she sacrifice her career, but she also risked her life to have children. However, her deep affection was exchanged for Zheng Shaoqiu's betrayal.
This experience made Shen Dianxia deeply realize that love should not be built on unilateral sacrifice.
Despite such a deep betrayal and injury, Shen Dianxia still maintained her true colors as a "pistachio". She did not slander or accuse Zheng Shaoqiu in public, but chose to suffer this pain silently.
This kind of tolerance and strength shows the strength and nobility of Shen Dianxia's heart.
In January 1988, Shen Dianxia finally mustered up the courage and took the initiative to divorce Zheng Shaoqiu. This decision marks the end of her 12 years of emotional dedication and sacrifice.
A year later, Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua entered the marriage hall, completely shattering Shen Dianxia's last illusion about this relationship.
After the divorce, Shen Dianxia was tormented in her heart. Years of hard work seem to have come to naught overnight, and what was once laughter and sweetness has turned into indelible pain.
However, as a public figure, she has always maintained her professionalism and personal dignity. In public, she never slandered or blamed Zheng Shaoqiu, but chose to suffer the pain silently.
Despite this, everyone who knows her knows that Shen Dianxia has never been able to really get out of this unforgettable relationship. The "pistachio" that once brought joy to countless audiences fell into an inextricable sadness at this time.
However, Shen Dianxia was not crushed by grief. She chose to rededicate herself to her beloved acting career and continue to bring joy to the audience. This kind of professionalism and strong will has won the respect and love of more people.
The audience saw not only a comedian who could make people laugh, but also a woman who went through hardships but still went strong.
This unforgettable emotional experience gave Shen Dianxia a deeper understanding of love and life. She understands that true happiness should not be based on self-sacrifice.
Slowly, she learns to love herself and regain her luster as a "pistachio".
Shen Dianxia's story tells us that even after experiencing emotional disillusionment, life can still start again. She proved with her actions that a woman's value should not only depend on marriage and love, but should shine in her career and life.
In 2002, Hong Kong TVB tailored an in-depth interview program "Behind the Applause" for Shen Dianxia. Surprisingly, Shen Dianxia took the initiative to interview Zheng Shaoqiu.
The decision came as a surprise to many and made the audience look forward to this reunion after many years.
Shen Dianxia hopes to take this opportunity to ask the question that has been buried in her heart for many years: "Have you ever loved me sincerely?" This simple but heavy question carries her thoughts and confusion for many years.
Facing the camera, Zheng Shaoqiu said affectionately: "I deeply love you. However, Shen Dianxia immediately interrupted him. Maybe she just wanted to hear the simple "I love you" from the former teenager again.
This small episode reflects the emotions that Shen Dianxia has not fully let go of in her heart.
Looking back, even though she knew that the ending would be like this, Shen Dianxia still said that she would not hesitate to hand the fate-changing letter to Zheng Shaoqiu. Because for her, love is the greatest comfort in this life.
The blue cheongsam witnessed her dedication and dedication to love. Although she failed to wear the wedding dress she dreamed of, Shen Dianxia used her own way to interpret an unforgettable love story.
Her experience tells us that true love is not about appearance, but about sincerity and courage on the inside. Shen Dianxia's story is like a moving tragic song, and the aftermath lingers for a long time.
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