When I woke up, it was already bright outside the window
When I woke up, it was already bright outside the window, and the sound of birds was pouring into the room through the window screen. With it, there is also sunshine, the fragrance of flowers, and the laughter of people. I stretched and felt very happy at the moment! Because a new day has begun, at least it proves that I am alive. No matter whether I have food today or not, whether I will encounter anything unsatisfactory, but to have today's one meter of sunshine, to enjoy today's flowers and birds, and to listen to the laughter of the world outside the window, this is happiness. Because I not only live, but I live happily. If you don't feel it, remind yourself: today is a happy day! As for the question of whether there is food to eat, and whether there will be unsatisfactory things, the specific situation will be treated on a case-by-case basis. When you should worry, you must worry, if you don't have anything to eat, this happiness will be discounted; When you should work hard, you must work hard, and when you encounter unsatisfactory things, you can only solve them through hard work, otherwise happiness will become a bubble. However, when it is time to remind, we must also remind that today is a happy day. If you have ideas, you will be motivated, if you have hope, you will have the possibility of success, and if you have the desire for happiness, you will be trampled on what difficulties and obstacles.
Remind yourself: today is happiness
We grew up with reminders. Mom reminded us: go out to play to watch the car and pay attention to safety. The teacher reminded us: don't doze off in class, and listen carefully. The master reminded us: work hard and don't make mistakes. The leader reminded us: to complete the task on time, don't lag behind. Every now and then, there are people who are making all kinds of reminders in our ears. We're used to reminders like this. Once one day, no one reminds us, it means that we have no future, no job, no food, no home, no relatives, and we will be completely lonely. If so, what is the difference between that and the living dead?
When I was a child, the warmest sentence was my mother's reminder: It's time to eat, otherwise the meal will be cold.
After starting a family, the most intimate sentence is his wife's reminder: it's time to take medicine, otherwise your stomach will be upset again.
On the way of life, the most comforting sentence is the reminder of a friend: Don't be discouraged, there is still me!
Mom often reminds me that it's time to eat
When we hear a kind reminder, we still feel happy even if we didn't have enough to eat that day, and we encountered all the unsatisfactory things that day. Because we're not alone.
Unfortunately, many of the time, we behave very naïvely, and we do not hear the reminders of our relatives and friends, and even get bored with their chatter. They are all out of love for us, but we are too dull, too numb, or too accustomed to loving them, thinking that they should remind us, but not bother us.
Suddenly, one day, we forgot to remind us, but we were not used to it, and we would complain: "Why don't you call me?" You see it's delayed! "Why didn't you tell me earlier? You see the daylilies are cold! ”
What does this mean? This shows that reminders are important in our lives. Only our relatives will care about us all the time; Only our most intimate friends will treat our affairs as his business and always care about it. Shouldn't we feel happy and happy when our relatives and friends give us the necessary reminders? Or relatives and friends have become accustomed to reminding us, even if the sesame grains are big, they will come to remind us, making us feel bored with some fuss and overdoing it. Don't you know that there is love for us here! Happiness will be to those who love! Unfortunately, many times we don't realize it.
Lover reminds: You must be good
We might say that there are more people who usually remind us. For example, leaders often remind their subordinates to do things well. That's because it's about his political achievements, and his subordinates have messed things up, and his face is not gloomy, not really out of love for his subordinates. For example, the secretary often reminds the boss what the work schedule is. That's because this is the job responsibility of the secretary, once you can't be reminded and make a mistake, the secretary may lose his job, rather than the secretary really worrying about the boss.
Only relatives and close friends will remind you how to manage your life and how to move forward in life. If you ignore these reminders, you are a fool who rejects happiness.
If you think about it carefully, someone reminds you that you are very happy. Bi Shumin said: "Happiness is a tremor of the heart. Like an ear that listens to music, it needs constant training. "When our loved ones remind us repeatedly, we will be deaf and blind in the chaos of life.
Some people say, I'm not happy without wealth, but I'm going to ask, are you hungry today? If not, it's happiness. Some people say, I'm not happy if I don't have power, but I want to ask, have you seen the sunshine today? If you see it, it's happiness. Some people say, my wife is not beautiful and I am not happy, but I want to ask, does your wife have unreasonable demands on you? If not, it's happiness. Bi Shumin also said: "Happiness is not synchronized with wealth, status, prestige, marriage, it is just the feeling of your heart. ”
Happiness is simply the feeling of your heart
A courier brother comes and goes in the wind and rain, earning hard-earned money, but he is also practical to spend. He laughed and said, "I often remind myself that today is happy!" ”
A sanitation worker's eldest brother, who holds a broom every day and deals with garbage, but he is satisfied. He smiled and said, "We don't have much ability, so it's good to be able to hold a broom." I often remind myself that today is blissful! ”
A patient whose life has entered the countdown, it is difficult to breathe, but he still smiles and says to his relatives who came to visit: "I have survived another day." Thank you all for visiting! I will remind myself that today is happiness! ”
Happiness is not in size, nor in quantity. There are so many unsatisfactory things in life, which may cause trauma to our souls. But after several storms, everything is a wandering that transcends reality in dreams. We often lament that life is too short, so what are we still doing with those unsatisfactory and traumatic wounds? There are always regrets in life, and there are always expectations that cannot be met, and the feeling of happiness, although ubiquitous, is fleeting. If you want to live a more chic and heroic life, then remind yourself: I am happy today!
Happiness is everywhere, remind yourself a lot, and you will be sure