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——【· Preface ·】——»
"Xie Dajia" is gone, leaving us forever.
When the news came out, the hearts of countless viewers were filled with grief. In the "Country Love" series, the talkative, laughing, spicy and kind Xie Dajia, the memory that carries our countless laughter, suddenly disappeared from our field of vision.
She died in a car accident, which caught people off guard. And the truth of the accident is even more confusing, obviously four people are in the same car, but only she has passed away, what kind of secret is hidden in this?
We can't help but ask, what took the life of "Xie Dajia"? What kind of regret did her departure leave for "Country Love"?
——[· selfless dedication to his younger brother ·] ——»
Standing in the spotlight, thunderous applause, flowers and praises poured in like a tide, at that moment, my heart was unusually calm, and what came to my mind was not the halo of honor, but the clear eyes of my younger brother, and the journey full of tears and laughter that we have walked together for many years.
In 1971, I was born in an ordinary family in Inner Mongolia, at that time, girls were not valued in reading, but I had a spirit of not admitting defeat in my bones. I studied hard, and I knew that only if I was strong could I control my own destiny. After my younger brother Yu Yingzhuo was born, there was a lot of laughter in the family, and I loved him as if he were my own child, and that carefree time was the most precious memory in my heart.
However, fate always seems to play jokes, and when he was 8 years old, his younger brother was found to have a crooked spine, and the hearts of the whole family were tugging. Looking at my younger brother, who was originally lively and lovely, became silent because of his illness, my heart was full of self-blame and a sense of powerlessness.
I told myself that no matter what the cost, I would cure my brother's illness and let him live like a normal child.
In order to treat my younger brother's illness, my husband Zhang Xuesong and I did everything we could, and even made the decision to be infertile for life. I knew the road was going to be full of thorns, but I never wanted to give up. Zhang Xuesong has always supported me silently, and he told me with practical actions that no matter what happens, he will be my strongest backing.
In those years, we took my younger brother everywhere to seek medical treatment, saw hope countless times, and fell to the bottom countless times. The treatment process was long and painful, and I secretly cried in the middle of the night countless times, but every time I saw my brother's strong eyes, I told myself that I couldn't fall, I was his sister and his dependence.
Perhaps God was moved by our persistence, and my brother's condition finally took a turn for the better.
After years of treatment and rehabilitation, he was finally able to stand up again and open his legs, and that day, I hugged my brother excitedly and cried for a long time, and all the dedication and bitterness turned into tears of happiness at that moment.
Fate always favors those who work hard, and while I take care of my younger brother with all my might, my acting career has also ushered in spring. But I have never forgotten that it was my brother's illness that made me understand the meaning of responsibility, that the support of my family gave me the strength to overcome everything, and that it was love and tenacity that allowed me to find my own direction in the torrent of fate.
I often think of when I was a child, my brother and I ran and frolicked on the grassland, when the sky was always so blue, the grass was always so green, and our laughter was floating in the wind, carefree.
Later, my brother fell ill and our family's lives were disrupted, but I never gave up hope. I always believe that as long as we don't give up, we will definitely overcome the disease.
In order to treat my brother, we traveled to major hospitals across the country, tried various treatments, spent all our savings, and even incurred a lot of debt. During that time, I lived with anxiety and stress every day, but I told myself that I couldn't fall down, that I was my brother's only hope.
Zhang Xuesong also gave a lot for this family, he quit his job to concentrate on taking care of my brother and me.
He always comforted me and said, "Don't worry, everything will be fine." "His support and encouragement gave me the courage to overcome difficulties.
Finally, after countless disappointments and sufferings, my brother's condition began to improve. I will always remember crying with emotion when my brother was able to stand up on his own for the first time, and at that moment, I felt that all the effort was worth it.
My brother's illness made me understand a lot of truths, and it also made me cherish everything in front of me even more.
I know that life will not always be smooth sailing, and there will always be all kinds of difficulties and challenges, but as long as we have hope and face them bravely, we will be able to overcome everything.
Now, my younger brother has been able to live like a normal person, and I have made some achievements in my acting career. But I know that all this is inseparable from the support and help of my family. I want to thank my parents for giving me life and teaching me how to be a human being. I would like to thank my husband for always being by my side and being with me through thick and thin; I would like to thank my brother even more, because it is his strength and optimism that make me know how to cherish and be grateful more.
——[· from the trick to the artistic life · of "Country Love"]——»
Xie Dajia on the stage always smiles heartily, and his smile is full of the simplicity and enthusiasm of rural women in Northeast China, as if he can melt all the cold ice in the world. However, few people know that behind this smile is the bitterness and sweat of actor Yu Yuexian for many years, and it can't hide the sadness and regret at the end of her life.
In the early morning of August 9, 2021, on the highway in Alxa, the inner Mongolia, a small passenger car drove by rapidly, rolling up yellow sand. In the car, Yu Yuexian is still looking forward to the future, she wants to challenge more types of roles and shoot more excellent works.
However, all this came to an abrupt end, the passenger car hit a camel on the side of the road, and Yu Yuexian's life was frozen at the age of 50.
No one expected that Xie Dajia, who usually brings everyone countless joys on the screen, would leave in such a way. When the news came, the entire entertainment industry was shaken, and the audience was even more saddened, and the Internet was overwhelmingly mourning her.
Yu Yuexian's acting career is not smooth sailing, she is not from an acting class, but graduated from the directing department of the Central Academy of Drama.
In order to realize her dream of acting, she started from playing tricks, running between various crews, waiting for a few minutes of shots.
During that time, Yu Yuexian experienced confusion and cold eyes, but she never gave up the dream in her heart. She believes that as long as she persists, there will always be a chance to prove herself.
The turning point of fate came after she met Zhao Benshan. At that time, Zhao Benshan was looking for a play that could play the role of a dumb girl, and Yu Yuexian recommended herself. She knows very well that this is a rare opportunity, and in order to play this role well, she has put in more effort than ordinary people.
Yu Yuexian took the initiative to go deep into the deaf-mute school to experience life, learn mute, and feel the inner world of the deaf-mute with her heart.
Her sincerity and hard work moved Zhao Benshan and opened up a new situation for her acting career.
In 2006, a "Country Love" became popular all over the country, and Yu Yuexian also became famous overnight with the role of "Xie Dajiao". In order to get closer to the image of the character, she did not hesitate to gain 20 pounds, and used her superb acting skills to portray the image of a pungent and straightforward and enthusiastic rural woman vividly.
Xie Dajia's success has brought Yu Yuexian's acting career to a higher level, and various film appointments have come one after another. She was not carried away by fame and fortune, but cherished every opportunity to perform more and interpreted every role with her heart.
However, fate made people, and an unexpected car accident brought Yu Yuexian's life to an abrupt end, leaving endless regrets. After the accident, the police quickly launched an investigation and finally determined that the driver was primarily responsible and was sentenced to one year in prison for speeding.
The result sparked a heated public debate, with many arguing that the sentence was too light to be indignant.
Yu Yuexian's husband also expressed dissatisfaction with the verdict, arguing that the driver's actions were a disregard for life and should be punished more severely.
The tragedy has also triggered reflection on road safety, how to strengthen safety measures in similar desert areas, and how to improve the safety factor of driving at night.
Yu Yuexian's departure is a big loss to the entertainment industry, her voice and smile, and the classic roles she created will become eternal memories in people's hearts.
She is gone, but her spirit is always worth learning from. Her love for acting, her dedication to her dreams, and her kind and optimistic personality will inspire us to pursue our dreams bravely, cherish life, and live a wonderful life.