Text: Lu Liuyun
Edited by Lu Liuyun
Time flies, and in a flash, our old friend Yu Yuexian has been away from us for almost three years.
Before 2021, Zhang Xuesong never dreamed that his wife Yu Yuexian would be taken away by a camel.
Although Zhang Xuesong has publicly promised not to remarry, he will focus on his wife's unfinished business and take care of his wife's mother and younger brother in the future.
In order to show his determination, he even engraved his name on his wife's tombstone.
However, 3 years are fleeting in the eyes of others, but in the heart of Yuexian's husband Zhang Xuesong, there has always been a heart-wrenching pain.
One is that there is no child between the two to worry about and comfort.
The second is that his wife still has a last wish before her death.
Now that the time has come, Zhang Xuesong has finally achieved his wife's wish with three years of hard work.
Everyone looks at Zhang Xuesong's three-year experience, from being exploded on the Internet to practicing silently, his choice is tearful.
Patriarchal childhood
To delve deeper into the couple's story, we have to go back to the Yuexian family background.
Her childhood was not as beautiful as a fairy tale, but shrouded in the shadow of patriarchy.
Her family was not happy about Yu Yuexian's birth, but was extremely dissatisfied that Yuexian was a girl.
The atmosphere in the home is heavy because of her gender.
The nourishing old hen that was originally prepared for the mother was also ruthlessly withdrawn after learning that she was a "daughter".
This unfair treatment has reached an unprecedented peak after Yuexian's mother gave birth to many daughters one after another.
As a "sinner" who gave birth to three daughters in a row, she not only had to take on the heaviest work, but was also often scolded for being the gateway to her home.
As the eldest daughter in the family, Yu Yuexian was deeply loved and influenced by her mother.
She also felt very sorry for her mother because of this.
Not only does he take care of his younger sisters, but he also often helps his mother with heavy housework.
Whenever this happens, her mother would always hug this sensible eldest daughter tightly, and tears could not help but fall.
She always felt that it was her own motherhood who was not good and made her a girl.
Yu Yuexian's childhood almost grew up in such an atmosphere.
With the mother's pregnancy again, the family ushered in a long-lost joy - the birth of his younger brother Yu Yingjie.
The advent of this life seems to have torn a crack open for a family that was once shrouded in the haze of no men.
Therefore, the outside world may mistakenly think that Yu Yuexian, who grew up in such a family environment, will have a grudge against his much-loved younger brother.
In reality, the opposite is true.
As the eldest daughter, Yu Yuexian may have experienced more challenges and pressures.
But she may feel more about the birth of her younger brother as a sense of family integrity and hope, rather than simple jealousy or dislike.
University, meet love around the corner
If Yu Yuexian didn't go to school, then maybe her future would be like her mother, entering a dead end.
But this is not the case, she was successfully admitted to a good secondary school,
Soon after graduating, I got a job as a teacher at the school.
This career not only provided her with financial independence, but also gave her a bright vision and expectation for the future.
But life is always so rough, as if bad luck favored her.
At this time, the family found that 8-year-old Yu Yingjie was not only lower than his peers, but also had deformities in his shoulders.
The doctor judged that this was a clear symptom of scoliosis and recommended conservative treatment.
However, the family's financial situation is stretched, and there is little money left, which cannot support the high medical expenses
This incident ruined the harmonious atmosphere of the whole family, and everyone blamed each other.
In the end, they targeted Yu Yuexian's mother,
This filled her heart with self-blame and guilt, as if she felt that all this was caused by herself.
It was Yu Yuexian who stepped forward and said to her family very firmly: No matter what happens, she will definitely heal her younger brother.
But Yu Yuexian's current financial situation is not very good.
She has just entered the workforce, and due to her meager salary, she does not have enough savings.
In the case of years of adjuvant treatment, her meager savings seem to be a drop in the bucket and cannot be supported for too long.
In such a situation, Yu Yuexian often went to odd jobs in order to find more sources of income.
At this moment, a friend suggested that she could go to acting, her personal conditions were good, and the money came quickly.
After thinking about it again and again, Yu Yuexian finally made up her mind that she wanted to become a successful actor and earn a lot of money to treat her younger brother.
She didn't do it blindly, but planned to enter Chinese opera first to learn and accumulate acting knowledge, and then go to acting.
This decision is undoubtedly full of risks and challenges, not only was it incomprehensible and opposed by the family.
It also caused her to suffer a lot of doubts in school.
even let her go to the janitor job to show "persuasion",
But with firm belief and unremitting efforts, she was finally successfully admitted to Chinese opera in 1992.
On the university campus, Yu Yuexian not only found her own stage, but also met her future partner, classmate Zhang Xuesong.
Zhang Xuesong admired this beautiful girl when he first saw it,
And the frequent work together between the two has made their relationship closer and closer.
Gradually, Yu Yuexian also developed an indescribable affection for him.
The hearts of the two gradually drew closer.
However, although Zhang Xuesong expressed his love to her many times, Yu Yuexian never accepted it calmly.
The shadow brought by her original family, the burden of treating her younger brother's illness, and the uncertainty of her future make her hesitate in the face of love.
Fortunately, Zhang Xuesong was not discouraged.
He is well aware of the pressure and responsibility that Yu Yuexian is undertaking, so he takes care of her life more carefully, giving her meticulous care and support.
When he learned of Yu Yuexian's family predicament, Zhang Xuesong did not hesitate to stand by her side and fight side by side with her to face the challenges together.
Not only did he often accompany Yue Xian to seek medical advice,
And when Yu Yuexian had no money to eat, he was also shy in his pocket, and he often invited her to dinner under various excuses.
Zhang Xuesong's help at any cost broke the barrier in Yu Yuexian's heart.
Soon the two fell in love.
Yu Yuexian's film and television career is bitter and then sweet
Yu Yuexian, who had just graduated, barely received any films in the first year, which made her feel very anxious at that time.
Especially during that period, Yu Yuexian's life fell into an unprecedented dilemma.
In order to save money, she had to live in a friend's house, and the living conditions were very simple, and she didn't even dare to spend money when she went out on a date with Zhang Xuesong.
At the most serious time, Yu Yuexian had to wear many hats and work several odd jobs to make ends meet.
But that didn't shake her determination to pursue her dreams.
In 1996, they jointly received an invitation to the movie "Men and Women Marry".
This work not only marks their official entry into the door of the film and television industry, but also lays the cornerstone for their subsequent acting career.
But sadly, despite the fact that in the years that followed, the two worked together on a number of films.
These works did not make them popular, and their popularity has never increased significantly.
At this time, Yu Yingjie, who was already 18 years old, suddenly became ill, and his 174-degree scoliosis became a serious threat to his young life.
Zhang Xuesong mobilized his contacts and finally found a doctor who specializes in treating such diseases in a hospital in Nanjing.
And Yu Yuexian spared no effort, exhausted all her savings and borrowed money everywhere, and finally raised enough medical expenses.
Thanks to the doctor's superb medical skills and unremitting efforts, Yu Yingjie's condition has been significantly improved after treatment.
The burden in Yu Yuexian's heart was finally lifted.
In 2002, the love between Yu Yuexian and Zhang Xuesong came to fruition, and the two entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
Yu Yuexian and Zhang Xuesong, a couple who believe that each other is the only partner in their lives, are drawing their own blueprint for the future.
They decided to focus on their careers first when they were young, putting their plans to have children on hold for the time being.
With Yu Yuexian's efforts, her career finally ushered in a turnaround.
In 2006, Yu Yuexian participated in the TV series "Country Love" directed by Zhao Benshan, in which she played the role of Xie Dajiao.
In order to repay Zhao Benshan's optimism, Yu Yuexian, who was just 35 years old at the time, was determined to play this role well.
In order to conform to the image of a peasant woman, she not only resolutely gained 16 pounds and tanned herself.
She also returned to the countryside to observe the life of a peasant woman.
She doesn't just observe, she does it herself.
This kind of wholehearted devotion made her hands covered with thick calluses when she entered the crew, witnessing her hard work and dedication.
However, all the efforts were not in vain.
With the popularity of "Country Love", Yu Yuexian won the love and recognition of the national audience with the role of Xie Dajiao, and her name became popular all over the country.
There are even many people who don't know her real name, but they know that she is Xie Dajia.
Opposite Yu Yuexian, who became an instant hit, Li Xuesong, who was her husband, became a director early because of her unsuccessful career as an actor.
The job was tepid, but it also gave him the opportunity to take care of his family.
Whenever Yu Yuexian was filming in the crew, the idle Li Xuesong would make some nutritious meals and send them to her.
Sometimes Yu Yuexian stayed up late filming, he would sit next to him and watch, and let his wife squint for a while when he was free.
Even the assistant complained that he was robbed of his job.
Suddenly suffered a catastrophe, leaving one alone
It's a pity that the day is not a holiday, but the two who were originally husband and wife have suffered misfortunes.
In 2021, Yu Yuexian, who was just 50 years old, collided with two camels on the way to Alxa and died on the spot.
This sudden blow made Zhang Xuesong grief-stricken,
But he endured his grief, carefully prepared the funeral for his beloved wife, and carefully arranged to hide it from Yu Yuexian's elderly mother, so that she would not be able to bear the pain of losing her daughter.
After the funeral, Zhang Xuesong devoted all his energy to work, as if he wanted to use his busyness to numb the pain of losing his beloved wife.
He not only founded a film and television company called "Crescent Moon", aiming to realize Yu Yuexiansheng's dream of advancing into the film and television industry.
He also cared for Yu Yuexian's mother and younger brother in every detail in her life, ensuring that their lives were properly taken care of.
And he himself, not only goes to visit his wife every Qingming Festival, but also often posts some videos of missing his wife on Douyin.
Zhang Xuesong's various behaviors not only show his deep affection for his deceased wife.
It also shows his responsibility and responsibility as a husband and a son.
epilogue
Although the love between Yu Yuexian and Zhang Xuesong is moving,
However, the dead are gone, but the living continue to live.
As bystanders, we sincerely pray that Zhang Xuesong can gradually get out of the haze of losing his beloved wife and bravely embrace a new chapter of life.
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